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petalbabe Ogdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland
When you come on to the forums, how much stead to you put in other people's opinions here? Do you use it as part of your social network, or do you just think of it as an "unreal world", and therefore of no importance??confused

The reason I ask this is that recently I have noticed several contradictory comments about this, and it is confusing..

One moment, someone is posting a thread, looking for advice/input, etc, and the next (usually if the OP gets a comment made not agreeing with them), dissing that person, and saying that it doesnt matter anyway what that person thinks, as they have never physcially met them in "real life" and therefore their opinion is irrelevant..

I personally find it an interesting and informative medium for getting to know other people. It doesnt matter to me if I never meet them in the physical sense; their opinion is just as interesting, even if I dont necessarily agree with it..

Are we a community here, or not? Either other members' opinions matter, or they dont. You cant be selective!

What do you think?



Lagoona22 Bugibba, Majjistral Malta
I believe everything I read and see here....liar



jessejess47 ogdensburg, New York USA
Here as in real life folks will only want advice that they themslves agree with (most of the time ,there or exceptions of course)so when they hear something they don't like they fall back on this as a safty net,thats what I think anyway ,so therefore I don't see much of a differace reallyconversing And Hi petal how are you...wave



jessejess47 ogdensburg, New York USA
jessejess47: Here as in real life folks will only want advice that they themslves agree with (most of the time ,there or exceptions of course)so when they hear something they don't like they fall back on this as a safty net,thats what I think anyway ,so therefore I don't see much of a differace really And Hi petal how are you...
*There are exceptions....oops it's early hereblushing



Mercedes1 Sydney, New South Wales Australia
jessejess47: Here as in real life folks will only want advice that they themslves agree with (most of the time ,there or exceptions of course)so when they hear something they don't like they fall back on this as a safty net,thats what I think anyway ,so therefore I don't see much of a differace really And Hi petal how are you...
thumbs up

PS..And its pathetic to see the little crowds sway which ever the leader of the pack swayswave



petalbabe Ogdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland
jessejess47: Here as in real life folks will only want advice that they themslves agree with (most of the time ,there or exceptions of course)so when they hear something they don't like they fall back on this as a safty net,thats what I think anyway ,so therefore I don't see much of a differace really And Hi petal how are you...


Yeah, I agree, Jesse! That was my point, really, amuses me when I see people asking for advice/input, and then getting in a huff when its not what they want to hear..laugh

As you say, just like real life! Just strikes me here that people are more likely to be ruder than they would in real life, because they think they can get away with it. Maybe they can, but they still have their conscience to deal with.

Im good thanks, although my back is gone, so Im laid up on the couch!!doh

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jessejess47 ogdensburg, New York USA
Mercedes1: PS..And its pathetic to see the little crowds sway which ever the leader of the pack sways
hi Mercedes still loving your jokes and things,ect.bouquet



petalbabe Ogdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland
Mercedes1: PS..And its pathetic to see the little crowds sway which ever the leader of the pack sways


Hi Merc wave

Yep, agree with that, but its also when someone comes in, complaining about the packs, and then the next minute, seems to be joining one themselves...confused

Leaves me stumped...doh

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Mercedes1 Sydney, New South Wales Australia
jessejess47: hi Mercedes still loving your jokes and things,ect.



Gday mate and thank youcheering



jessejess47 ogdensburg, New York USA
petalbabe: Yeah, I agree, Jesse! That was my point, really, amuses me when I see people asking for advice/input, and then getting in a huff when its not what they want to hear..

As you say, just like real life! Just strikes me here that people are more likely to be ruder than they would in real life, because they think they can get away with it. Maybe they can, but they still have their conscience to deal with.

Im good thanks, although my back is gone, so Im laid up on the couch!!
Sorry to hear that if I could I would give you a back rub ,but there must be a nice guy over there that would love to help you out bouquet hug



petalbabe Ogdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland
There are certain people's opinions on here I hold in great esteem, even though I will never meet them, and dont always agree.

CS to me is an extension of my social interaction; its not the be all and end all, but it is certainly important to me what other members think.




petalbabe Ogdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland
jessejess47: Sorry to hear that if I could I would give you a back rub ,but there must be a nice guy over there that would love to help you out


Ah, that would be great!!laugh

Nope, just me on my lonesome here; unfortunately..moping




Mercedes1 Sydney, New South Wales Australia
petalbabe: Hi Merc

Yep, agree with that, but its also when someone comes in, complaining about the packs, and then the next minute, seems to be joining one themselves...

Leaves me stumped...


Im so not joining anything like that as gee that would be so hypocritical of me the way I brought my sons up..

But do me a fav and if you ever see me getting involved like that just give me a nudge matelaugh wave



jessejess47 ogdensburg, New York USA
petalbabe: Ah, that would be great!!

Nope, just me on my lonesome here; unfortunately..
WHAT..are all the guys in Ireland blind as well as dumblaugh



petalbabe Ogdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland
Mercedes1: Im so not joining anything like that as gee that would be so hypocritical of me the way I brought my sons up..

But do me a fav and if you ever see me getting involved like that just give me a nudge mate


Ha, I will, cobber!!!laugh



petalbabe Ogdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland
jessejess47: WHAT..are all the guys in Ireland blind as well as dumb


laugh laugh

Guess so....moping

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BOBANBOBAN Pozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia
Mercedes1: PS..And its pathetic to see the little crowds sway which ever the leader of the pack sways

Good noticethumbs up thumbs up handshake



Mercedes1 Sydney, New South Wales Australia
Petal I do treat these forums as you see it as well and I also have fun with it..

Can you tell me why when someone doesnt agree or has misunderstood your post they get nasty and then others have a nibble at your ankles as well?

If someone is really ticked off with you why in hell cant they mail you instead of trying to bring your spirit down for all to see on the forums?wave



kissmedeeply Petitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada
its all about whos ass you kiss...

but i am no leader or follower...

I will give my opinion whether anyone wants
to hear it or not..

They can believe me or not..

I always listen here to what people have to say...

and if i dont agree or i agree then i will say so..

Dont make anyone right/wrong here...

Morning to allteddybear



petalbabe Ogdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland
Mercedes1: Petal I do treat these forums as you see it as well and I also have fun with it..

Can you tell me why when someone doesnt agree or has misunderstood your post they get nasty and then others have a nibble at your ankles as well?

If someone is really ticked off with you why in hell cant they mail you instead of trying to bring your spirit down for all to see on the forums?


God knows, Merc...confused

Well, I think I do know, in a way..Some people like drama. Some people also like to play Devil's Advocate for the hell of it. And some people are just attention seeking.

JMO




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