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Galactic_bodhi Portland, Oregon USA
Do you have hang-ups, baggage, a stalker ex-boyfriend?

Do you think your opinion is the only one that matters?

Do you make allowances for human nature, and accept that nobody's perfect, or does the vagaries of human irrationality frighten and revolt you?

Does everything have to be one thing or another?

In short, are you undatable? Is being under the influence of alcohol (as Seinfeld suggested) the only way 90% of us ever reproduce, let alone have brief moments of happiness in the company of a heterosexual companion?

Watching the forums lately, I'm beginning to think Seinfeld had a point.



evilcherryqueen Remiss, Michigan USA
Galactic_bodhi: Do you have hang-ups, baggage, a stalker ex-boyfriend?

Do you think your opinion is the only one that matters?

Do you make allowances for human nature, and accept that nobody's perfect, or does the vagaries of human irrationality frighten and revolt you?

Does everything have to be one thing or another?

In short, are you undatable? Is being under the influence of alcohol (as Seinfeld suggested) the only way 90% of us ever reproduce, let alone have brief moments of happiness in the company of a heterosexual companion?

Watching the forums lately, I'm beginning to think Seinfeld had a point.



wave I'm undateable...not for the reasons you mentioned, it's just me. drinking Some people were meant to die alone. I am one of them. teddybear
Dawn7z SALEM OR,DENVER CO, Oregon USA
My expiration date was up about 10 years ago now I am living on borrowed time. Shhh don't tell Bodhi there might be some goofy guy out there who can't tell the difference.uh oh



Galactic_bodhi Portland, Oregon USA
Dawn7z: My expiration date was up about 10 years ago now I am living on borrowed time. Shhh don't tell Bodhi there might be some goofy guy out there who can't tell the difference.


We're, all men, a bit goofy. That's what makes the majority of us undatable as well...rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
RobbieM Hertford, Hertfordshire, England UK
My life is being smashed to pieces on a daily basis.

Most people bar the scammers are probably aware i have significant real serious problems in my life....and that really does make me undatable, only because i have so much on my mind, there is no space to explain to a new person why i have all these problems!

All it will do is upset someone else, make them feel like they have no control over their life and wonder when and if i will be away from all the things that haunt me on a daily basis.

For those scammers that don't know...here's my situation.

Legal case, where my fathers will is in dispute, and i'm being accused of coersion of my own father, his mental state and other claims under intestancy law in the UK.The short version is i should inherit the family home, but if i lose i will loose everything i have.

Next, Two Other legal cases, one of which is i have to sue an ex partner for basically robbing me, for a considerable amounts of money.

Next, Ex partner has until the last few days disappeared (she ran off to Canada with my son) and i fear i will never ever see him again or have a meaning relationship with my own child.

Next, because of all of the above i cannot currently study in my chosen career......and redundancy recently on my second job means i have to put all my efforts into finding employment!

Because of my finances, I've also had to give up the services of a solicitor in the last few days!

Oh and my self employed tax return just arrived which will keep me busy for a week trying to complete.

So on the basis of this, would you think it's fair for me to even drag anyone else into my life?

Personally i don't think it is, and knowing the above i m not sure i will ever be the person i was less than 6 years ago.

How about that for blunt honesty.hole stuck stuck stuck
adamisk raleigh, Mississippi USA
probably undateable even with alcohol .rolling on the floor laughing
desmond kissimmee, Florida USA
Dawn7z: My expiration date was up about 10 years ago now I am living on borrowed time. Shhh don't tell Bodhi there might be some goofy guy out there who can't tell the difference.




professor Then call me GOOFY laugh laugh laugh laugh



Mercedes1 Sydney, New South Wales Australia
RobbieM: My life is being smashed to pieces on a daily basis.

Most people bar the scammers are probably aware i have significant real serious problems in my life....and that really does make me undatable, only because i have so much on my mind, there is no space to explain to a new person why i have all these problems!

All it will do is upset someone else, make them feel like they have no control over their life and wonder when and if i will be away from all the things that haunt me on a daily basis.

For those scammers that don't know...here's my situation.

Legal case, where my fathers will is in dispute, and i'm being accused of coersion of my own father, his mental state and other claims under intestancy law in the UK.The short version is i should inherit the family home, but if i lose i will loose everything i have.

Next, Two Other legal cases, one of which is i have to sue an ex partner for basically robbing me, for a considerable amounts of money.

Next, Ex partner has until the last few days disappeared (she ran off to Canada with my son) and i fear i will never ever see him again or have a meaning relationship with my own child.

Next, because of all of the above i cannot currently study in my chosen career......and redundancy recently on my second job means i have to put all my efforts into finding employment!

Because of my finances, I've also had to give up the services of a solicitor in the last few days!

Oh and my self employed tax return just arrived which will keep me busy for a week trying to complete.

So on the basis of this, would you think it's fair for me to even drag anyone else into my life?

Personally i don't think it is, and knowing the above i m not sure i will ever be the person i was less than 6 years ago.

How about that for blunt honesty.



Your still very dateable by many great womancheering



Galactic_bodhi Portland, Oregon USA
RobbieM: My life is being smashed to pieces on a daily basis.

Most people bar the scammers are probably aware i have significant real serious problems in my life....and that really does make me undatable, only because i have so much on my mind, there is no space to explain to a new person why i have all these problems!

All it will do is upset someone else, make them feel like they have no control over their life and wonder when and if i will be away from all the things that haunt me on a daily basis.

For those scammers that don't know...here's my situation.

Legal case, where my fathers will is in dispute, and i'm being accused of coersion of my own father, his mental state and other claims under intestancy law in the UK.The short version is i should inherit the family home, but if i lose i will loose everything i have.

Next, Two Other legal cases, one of which is i have to sue an ex partner for basically robbing me, for a considerable amounts of money.

Next, Ex partner has until the last few days disappeared (she ran off to Canada with my son) and i fear i will never ever see him again or have a meaning relationship with my own child.

Next, because of all of the above i cannot currently study in my chosen career......and redundancy recently on my second job means i have to put all my efforts into finding employment!

Because of my finances, I've also had to give up the services of a solicitor in the last few days!

Oh and my self employed tax return just arrived which will keep me busy for a week trying to complete.

So on the basis of this, would you think it's fair for me to even drag anyone else into my life?

Personally i don't think it is, and knowing the above i m not sure i will ever be the person i was less than 6 years ago.

How about that for blunt honesty.


Well, rob, that's a bit of a load, but as do all things this too shall pass. I don't think anybody, at their core, is undatable. I think people make the choices and form the opinions in their lives that predicate this invalidity for intimacy. Just an observation.

Oh, and the list I provided was a short version off the top of my head. There are many other psychological barriers to the creation of intimacy than the ones either you or I have mentioned. thumbs up
thewall2 montreal, Quebec Canada
yawn



Galactic_bodhi Portland, Oregon USA
thewall2: yawn


I'm sorry wall. Am I boring you? You needn't make a non-comment then. There are other threads, after all.
Dawn7z SALEM OR,DENVER CO, Oregon USA
desmond: Then call me GOOFY


I adore you Des. You are one of the kindest men on this site, and there are quite a few great guys here. That is what makes it wonderful to come back and joke around and even be wrong in this forum. hug bouquet



Mercedes1 Sydney, New South Wales Australia
I just look at me as first prize in a chook rafflelaugh
RobbieM Hertford, Hertfordshire, England UK
Mercedes1: Your still very dateable by many great woman


My will to do so has probably been too crushed to be honest.

There is only so much one person can take, and believe me i think i have reached my limit.

Female friends i'd like, to hang out with etc, walk the dog, days out, concerts, holidays but my faith in humanity is hanging by a thread.

I know within myself that i maybe in my own mind un-datable now.Someone really will have a hard time making me even consider ever being a boyfriend again.Really.



Galactic_bodhi Portland, Oregon USA
Mercedes1: I just look at me as first prize in a chook raffle


A chook? confused

Forgive my ignorance of Down-underese. laugh doh
RobbieM Hertford, Hertfordshire, England UK
Galactic_bodhi: A chook?

Forgive my ignorance of Down-underese.


Chook = Chicken.
thewall2 montreal, Quebec Canada
Galactic_bodhi: I'm sorry wall. Am I boring you? You needn't make a non-comment then. There are other threads, after all.



Follow me,,,,,,I'll show you a good thread.



airliner Central, New Jersey USA
My name is Hank and I am a datable guylaugh
thewall2 montreal, Quebec Canada
thewall2: Follow me,,,,,,I'll show you a good thread.



Excitement.....if you will.



Mercedes1 Sydney, New South Wales Australia
RobbieM: My will to do so has probably been too crushed to be honest.

There is only so much one person can take, and believe me i think i have reached my limit.

Female friends i'd like, to hang out with etc, walk the dog, days out, concerts, holidays but my faith in humanity is hanging by a thread.

I know within myself that i maybe in my own mind un-datable now.Someone really will have a hard time making me even consider ever being a boyfriend again.Really.


Yeah well mate it feels like the end of the road and it feels like your in a whirlpool trying to reach the surface for just abit of air to go on..

Dont ask me how robbie but we manage to climb to the top and yeah their are going to be plenty of days where your able to take 20 steps up that mountain to reach the top when suddenly your walking 40 steps back down..

I dont know the answers to the human brain and a humans fighting spirit but eventually we mange to make it maybe just but just is fine with mecheering




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