Galactic_bodhi: Do you have hang-ups, baggage, a stalker ex-boyfriend?
Do you think your opinion is the only one that matters?
Do you make allowances for human nature, and accept that nobody's perfect, or does the vagaries of human irrationality frighten and revolt you?
Does everything have to be one thing or another?
In short, are you undatable? Is being under the influence of alcohol (as Seinfeld suggested) the only way 90% of us ever reproduce, let alone have brief moments of happiness in the company of a heterosexual companion?
Watching the forums lately, I'm beginning to think Seinfeld had a point.
I don't have any hang-ups and the "baggage" I have from my past realtionships is very positive memory. No bitter feeling about anybody. Just happy memories. Maybe I have been a lucky woman or I accept relations are what they are. Nothing is forever. Every thing has a begining and an end.
I can deal very well with different opinions and I have a large capacity to be with other cultures. This is part of my own culture, we have been around the world for centuries. I'm portuguese and...
Who is perfect? But some human irrationalities frighten and revolt me. I can not accept racism, nazism, any kind of ditactorship, genocid...With that I have no tolerance.
I don't know who is Seinfeld, but he is wrong. Other wise the Muslims would not be in this world, as thanks to God they don't drink.
Alchool has a very negative influence in male capacity of reprodution and sexual healthy capacity... I drink, very little, I can accept to have more then we should one day, in a party, but as an exception.
The problem of this forum and any other one, it is because of distances and pratical things in life. We may "find" a match, but that person is to much younger, or he is in another country, who has the conditions to realocate...nothing is only "love", we are forced to make assertive decisions. An exemple: in this forum there are a few number of gentlemen from my country, my age and from my town only one...you see... and in this forum there are a lot of people "in pain" for different reason. We have to respect that. Some of them they are better now because of the friendship they can acess in this forum.
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