Are you undatable?

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BOBANBOBAN Pozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia
rose150T: Sorry, I just have tea home...


moping


ok.....(is that gona be a perty)i can only imagine....grin
tgwstw Cork, Cork Ireland
seekndestroy: well axle stability can be achieved easily if you tighten up all the bolts and grease all the joints !!!!!

then everything should smoothly revolve around you !!!

Well I am a glutton for punishment.
The ride isn't fun unless there aren't a few obstacles.

I don't get why people would ever WANT the world to revolve around them.

I like a good debate.

And I like delayed gratification, makes everything taste so much sweeter.

If you get everything you want, when you want it, then that would take all the fun out of it.
rose150T Viseu, Viseu Portugal
BOBANBOBAN: ok.....(is that gona be a perty)i can only imagine....



You know, you can always put some vodka in the tea. Russian ladies they do it!!!cheering



BOBANBOBAN Pozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia
rose150T: You know, you can always put some vodka in the tea. Russian ladies they do it!!!


we put Rakija ...in everything...(domestic plum brandy)....grin
seekndestroy Seattle, Washington USA
tgwstw: Well I am a glutton for punishment.
The ride isn't fun unless there aren't a few obstacles.

I don't get why people would ever WANT the world to revolve around them.

I like a good debate.

And I like delayed gratification, makes everything taste so much sweeter.

If you get everything you want, when you want it, then that would take all the fun out of it.



well ... i like instant gratification, but i gave up expecting getting everything i wanted whenever i wanted it, at age 8 or 9

i guess many havent quite grown out of that stage yet !!!!


doh
catlynn04 Hartsville, South Carolina USA
Robbie, good luck to you. Hope everthing eventually works out. I bet it will.

As for myself, I think I'm pretty datable. Not perfect, but nobody is.
ContraryCol crawley, West Sussex, England UK
In response to: A-Do you have hang-ups, baggage, a stalker ex-boyfriend?

My guess is that everyone has some sort of hang-up/baggage but it depends if you prefer to view them in that context.

In response to: Do you think your opinion is the only one that matters?

Untill im given something to absorb as well as a reason for doing so.

In response to: Do you make allowances for human nature, and accept that nobody's perfect, or does the vagaries of human irrationality frighten and revolt you?

We men are more practical as apposed to a womens empathy.
Some men have more empathy and understanding of others than the next man.
In response to: Does everything have to be one thing or another?

Thats down to the individuals understanding,tollerence and patience.

In response to: In short, are you undatable?

Online probably,unless theres a reasonable chance of meeting and it actually being worth while doing so.
In response to: Is being under the influence of alcohol (as Seinfeld suggested) the only way 90% of us ever reproduce, let alone have brief moments of happiness in the company of a heterosexual companion?

What a load of crap!
Simples.

A loaded OP though.
cheers
Alan_50501 fort dodge, Iowa USA
undateable



avecaim San Jose, California USA
Think I have always mistakenly thought I was ready because dating is a fun distraction. I have hang-ups, more than I once realized, but am trying to work through them to be able to be completely open to love. The hardest part is awareness and courage, I think. I am hopefull I will get there soon.
teddybear bouquet sad flower hug
sweetowen Somewhere, Pennsylvania USA
I'm not undatable. But I'm starting to think maybe I'm just unKEEPable. confused dunno



readytosee Chatham, Ontario Canada
RobbieM: My will to do so has probably been too crushed to be honest.

There is only so much one person can take, and believe me i think i have reached my limit.

Female friends i'd like, to hang out with etc, walk the dog, days out, concerts, holidays but my faith in humanity is hanging by a thread.

I know within myself that i maybe in my own mind un-datable now.Someone really will have a hard time making me even consider ever being a boyfriend again.Really.

One quote that I hold onto is this 'Tough times don't last.........Tough people do!'
Perhaps at this time, with so much going on, you can't focus on having a relationship right now. People after being burned, need time to focus on themselves to get well. Find ways to find happiness in simple things, and to rediscover what you truly want out of life. I am in the same boat, with different circumstances, where to explain what all is honestly going on, is too much to tell or to burden someone with. Taking a break from dating is something we all need to do every once in awhile, but one can only hope, to one day, find someone who see's beyond our circumstances and will love us in spite of it all! If you didn't have that hope, quite frankly, you wouldn't be on here!



rodolpho amsterdam, Noord-Holland Netherlands
i dont date...cool




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