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If a woman really wants to go out, whats wrong with her shouting these days?


Throw on the bbq, grab a bottle of wine have a chin wag. Yeppers thats more my cup of tea.

True, but still nice to be for the guy to be clean shaved and sweet smelling and wearing his best looking comfy clothes.

Just shoes Lela

yes i would be prepared to pay for the date if he cudnt afford it , ive brought men tickets to a gig or concert in the past , ad i meant men who can afford it but just want to stay in in fact some clubs are free

she was never wined and dined by a pro she would change her mind if she were

Hello Tina, Well I think I will have him save the just shoes for the second date.

my kinda of thinking

yes i would definetly pay for the date if he cudnt afford it , ive brought guys concert tickets in the past , but i meant men who could afford it and some clubs are free anyway

I thought tight boxes clinging to his ass was for the second date, no matter, shoes, boxers as long as it's minimal attire.

Well that is very cool then

WOW...what an assessment after just one date!!

For a first date, I would assume I have been asked out. I would not go and dismiss his suggestion and replace it with, "Why don't ya come over to my place?".

So, as much as I like being home, I think making such a suggestion for a first date is err...

...suggestive.JMO

A first date for this lady is always a meeting in a public place with a nice coffee and chat. I don't invite someone i don't know into my home until i know that i would be safe in doing so.
Then again each to his/her own....i don't judge others actions...well not always

That is why she is on here. She is a cheapy!

I can cook the dinner, provide any movie you like, provide the beverage of your choice(alcoholic or not), I can wash my ass and be sweet smelling, I can even pull a new t-shirt out of the drawer, but clean shaven?????????? LOL

Not sure you knew what i meant by being cheap. I can understand the economy being bad here< I think that if a guy ask a girl out, no matter where he comes from, he should take her out on the first date, if some wanna bring him to their house on the first date, that is them, i ain't meeting a guy for the first time at my house. If he wants to meet me, then he will meet me in a public place and if he is that cheap, dang i will buy my own drink, I think you all took it wrong. I can rent DVD's and stay home by myself, that is not a date, that is being a muncher if you have to do that i think. There are free things to do out here, guess most just do not look at it that way. I am not getting dressed up just to sit at home and watch a DVD, i would do better staying home. lol...I have had dates to where i bought my own food, that is the not the problem, it is that most just wanna stay home, let them stay at their own home and watch their DVD, if after awhile you been dating them for a bit or second date, that is ok, but not the first plz........

I was waiting for you to talk up for yourself

I am with you 100% .

I would NOT stay in on a first date not even a tenth date .

There are lots of inexpensive stuff to to as you rightly say

and I am being honest I when I say that its not about money at all but about norms and values for me .

I would not want to be with a guy who was to mean to spend a fiver on me .I am not that way and am a generous person, so why would I want to be aroung old Ebenezer

Good on you Cougar

I do the same and agree with you completely