DazzleYou: Ok, yesterday was interesting. Since I have been working with this therapist, she has always been flirty.
I just kind of looked at it as her way of motivating a guy to strive and succeed in therapy. No biggy, and she is a cute girl, so it makes it kind of fun.
But now I am faced with what I would consider a breach of ethics with her - I will spare you the details.
Now I have to decide if I want to find another therapist.
I have to admit that she is doing a good job with the actual physical therapy with me, WHOO.... I'm glad you mentioned physical this time, or I was going to write something completely different..and I am definitely making progress. But as a doctor, I understand very well the ethical boundaries we have to have between doctor and patient.
The fact that she is married is also a concern for me having been cheated on myself.
I guess I am on a line between speaking up and saying that her advances - while flattering, takes our relationship somewhere where it just can't go, or just finding another therapist all together.
Overall, I'm glad you seem to have the decency(miss-spelled) to understand that it would be wrong, to her husband
I don't really know what to give you as far as advice though... If you don't think it can remain a proffessional relationship, between the doc, and the patient. Then for you to avoid feeling guilty if something should happen between you two, then I would just find another doc.... Don't tell her anything... they could be consequences going down that road......