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lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
I jokingly just asked a friend on another thread, about how many men she had been with, which leads me to my question; Does it matter to you how many guys a woman has been with before you? If I slept with six men, and my friend two, would you think more highly of her than you would me?


I also have a question for those dating women outside their race, culture or nationality. There was this one guy who got tideously jealous when I told him I had previously dated a man from his country. Would you feel this way, as well?



lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
I have no idea why I have a capital 'D' up there. roll eyes
ImInMishawaka Mishawaka, Indiana USA
lusciousmile: I jokingly just asked a friend on another thread, about how many men she had been with, which leads me to my question; Does it matter to you how many guys a woman has been with before you? If I slept with six men, and my friend two, would you think more highly of her than you would me?I also have a question for those dating women outside their race, culture or nationality. There was this one guy who got tideously jealous when I told him I had previously dated a man from his country. Would you feel this way, as well?


a. I can't judge a woman with the past I have
b. The past is just that, the past
c. I've only dated one from outside my country, Canada,,, if that even counts,,, laugh



lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
ImInMishawaka: a. I can't judge a woman with the past I have
b. The past is just that, the past
c. I've only dated one from outside my country, Canada,,, if that even counts,,,


Seriously? Even if she had slept with 1117 men before you?

No, Canada is on another planet, but the example will do, thanks.


pubwrite08 District Heights, Maryland USA
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niceguy43 isle of wight, Isle of Wight, England UK
imn my opinion why should it matter whos had how many partners in the past when your trying to build a future together should look forward not dwell on the past! as to different cultures why should it matter if we black brown or white or what nationality we are all human beings and if theres an attraction thats good enough for me.



lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
They're all going to say they don't care how many, or just not answer.

doh rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing



lusciousmile Espoo, Etela-Suomen Laani Finland
niceguy43: imn my opinion why should it matter whos had how many partners in the past when your trying to build a future together should look forward not dwell on the past! as to different cultures why should it matter if we black brown or white or what nationality we are all human beings and if theres an attraction thats good enough for me.


Thanks for the response. About the race thing, that was not the issue, I was asking about jealousy because a foreign woman has been with another man from your race.

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ImInMishawaka Mishawaka, Indiana USA
lusciousmile: Seriously? Even if she had slept with 1117 men before you?

No, Canada is on another planet, but the example will do, thanks.


OK smarty,,,
laugh
If she is actually having sex with someone while I am talking to her, I would be afraid,,,

Now, in reality

This is my bio,,,
I've been sober for 19 years and changes came with that decision...
some changes were,,,
Regret
Responsibility
Desire to not be a manwhore
Searching for lasting love instead of temporary
Searching my soul
Reality of hearts broken

I know that I can not judge someone by my standards as I had lived an unsavory life until 19 years ago. I know that others are capable of change just as I have changed. Isn't there really only one who can judge all others?
I in no way compare to that entity...
cristina Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands
It doesn't. The pussy won't tell.

The Germans worry too much about other nationalities gathering within their own nationality. They might ask you as "worrying": "is it easy to find your community here?" I go: "What for?" doh

niceguy43 isle of wight, Isle of Wight, England UK
if someone worrys about there past its not a good foundation for a good start is it! i dont see the point on dwelling on the past a new life to try and develop deserves a new start no !



BOBANBOBAN Pozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia
lusciousmile: I jokingly just asked a friend on another thread, about how many men she had been with, which leads me to my question; Does it matter to you how many guys a woman has been with before you? If I slept with six men, and my friend two, would you think more highly of her than you would me?I also have a question for those dating women outside their race, culture or nationality. There was this one guy who got tideously jealous when I told him I had previously dated a man from his country. Would you feel this way, as well?


Pefect questionthumbs up

and am so not gona anwser that.....directly


but if i had dated more(and had sex) then 1117 wimmin

would you date me???uh oh
ImInMishawaka Mishawaka, Indiana USA
lusciousmile: They're all going to say they don't care how many, or just not answer.


Not all but some of us will,,,

a preconceived notion ???
caspatch galena, Missouri USA
lusciousmile: They're all going to say they don't care how many, or just not answer.
shouldn't make any difference the past is past and he knew you weren't virgin when you got together, now on the 1100 some you wouldn't have to tell you would walk around with your knees together to keep your guts from falling outdevil
pubwrite08 District Heights, Maryland USA
But who would tell anyway if the number is high. Some men think.
cristina Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands
ImInMishawaka: a. I can't judge a woman with the past I have
b. The past is just that, the past
c. I've only dated one from outside my country, Canada,,, if that even counts,,,


Cause Canada is America right?doh



santarosaPaul Santa Rosa, CA, California USA
To me it would matter only if you were trying to get into my pants... WOOHOO!!! ...but if for some reason, that lady and I fell in love, it wouldn't matter if I was the 118th... for reals, love conquers all!

And as for the interracial thing... nothing wrong with that either, women are beautiful people... take you for example. lips



nurcnurc Longwood, Florida USA
I wouldn't think any less of you Luscious, but then I won't date or bed you. laugh

That said if a man who is considering dating me and is concerned about the number of men I "had" in the past would have to be very forthcoming with his number too. That in and of itself leaves a lot of room for either of us to make our numbers sound more palatable, if we had that concern. IF we are on that sort of path then there has not been a good level of trust established anyway, and the relationship is then doomed from the beginning anyway.

ImInMishawaka Mishawaka, Indiana USA
cristina: Cause Canada is America right?


Nice try,,,
Her original post is about foreigners, correct? I really don't see Canadians as foreigners.
krisha tokyo, Tokyo Japan
doh see i am right nowlaugh mommy will have a big headache for u,were is my belt?rolling on the floor laughing hug




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