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eloquent,,,
I make it clear from the beginning of any relationship,,,
Ask any question you want and I will answer it truthfully,,,
but,,,
you need to make sure you are willing, ready and able to hear it.
There is a reason I am not concerned with how many men a woman has been with...

Everyone grows just as you have described your life above. I find it insulting when a man asks whether I have dated a man from their country, requiring details of how many times we did it. I immediately knew this man was a child and I could not date him.

honey,if this guy is really love u and serious no matter what is happened in your past,the point is both of u are happy ,if he is jealous maybe he feel insecured but just tell him thats nothing complication about your relationship to him..

I find African men more concerned with such things. It turns out the guy who asked me all this has kids all over, like some modern day father Abraham.

Don't eat bread in front of the poor.... I want to be Madonna.....

Maybe he wanted to know if you were mentality prepared to handle the kind. Another perspective: They want to know if you've dated a white man and can't ask it directly, so they talk about their country! Buhahahaaaaaaaaa

I generally feel that more is better. I dont expect no one to be a virgin, and also for a woman to have slept with many guys, might mean she's in a state of mind to enjoy life. which is something i demand from my partner. Commonly in greece people refer to women who sleep with many as sluts. to me that's incredibly stupid cause one's genitals are of less priority than ones behaviour, and they should judge it on that. And indeed an experienced partner has more chances of making you feel good during sex and might also be in the position to judge whether your fucking them, or making love to them, or both.

Nevertheless, sometimes, some women, have sex to fullfill other emotional needs. and that might become a problem further into a relationship. (not that i haven't taken advantage of it many a times


The fact is that some men judge women's sex differently to their own, going along with patriarchic stereotypes. Ultimately i don't think that does them good, cause like that they force women to be dishonest in some way or the other. and that sucks. and it also sucks for some of us who later suffer the consequences of other men's conservatism.
So yeah women, fuck-on!!!

I disagree to some extent. I do not want to know how many women a man has been with before me, on the other hand, I do not want a man who can't keep it in his pants. If he has been all over town impregnating every Pam, Rose and Cindy, he probably wouldn't be my match. I don't want a bad boy.

Once one position him/herself, they have no issues. It just goes without saying nor sense of guilt or pride.

Short, rambling, answer - and with the understanding that most already know some of the history of my lovely wife and myself and that we met here on CS - but to the point.

Who you are is who I am attracted to and every experience in your past, good and bad, has gone into making you who are. I cannot and will not begrudge or judge anything that has gone before because all that matters is who you are now and who you are now is the one I want to know.

In my not so humble opinion, anyone who thinks or feels any differently shouldn't be dating.

Nice try,,,
Her original post is about foreigners, correct? I really don't see Canadians as foreigners.



-shaking my head-
As long as I can understand what someone says to me, they are not foreign.
Maybe you can't grasp that concept?
People here complain about the Latinos or Mexicans coming across the border,,,
I have no problem with it.
Someone is a foreigner to me when they vehemently stay uneducated and expect others to pander to them. A foreigner is someone who decides that no matter what their experience, they will not change their mind about someone/something/some place. We have foreigners who were born and raised here and I guess, I avoid them... maybe I'm prejudiced and didn't realize it.
Thank you !

I realise that now. I am however, still waiting to hear from a guy who thinks it matters.

it does matter i dont want to be #100 why didnt it work with the other 100 u must have commitment issues or your a little hoeish lol wich is great for a 1 night stand but not girlfriend material so it realy matters on # if your only 20 and youve been with 30 guys your kinda of a hoe and u might have herpes or something that needs to be checked and if youve sleep with a hundred youll get bubble gum lips and no one likes that

Too much info, justification and panic!

All in all, it's confusing although I understand your words. Complain about latinos, speak what you can understand...what does that have to do with dating a foreigner. My English is understandable...am I not foreigner?

if they have a problem with it then it is don't ask and don't tell
every one has a past, the best way is to say i haven't written that chapter yet, when i do i will let you read it, then go on their reaction

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