kizzy27: Thankyou Vinny I can see at times we all get busy in life , I wonder tho do we say this because nothing is on the horizion
I do it myself , Im busy , im not dating now because .
should be able to fit love into any schedule iof we dont want to remain alone , alone by choice now may mean alone when we dont want to be , and thats sad !!
Im going to look at this differently for a while concerning men, concerning my idea of ideal ..
I suppose we can look at it that way, and I'm sure some people do Kizzy.
As regards myself I let myself get stressed and ended up getting very sick. I had a lot, and lost it all. Now it really is time to concentrate on me, as while I'm 90 % there I know I'm not back to myself just yet.
I need to get back to my full health before I would consider a serious relationship.
Sometimes I think tho that people are afraid to give themselves fully to someone, in case they get hurt again, as a lot of people have here. When you give someone your heart and its rejected the pain can be unbearable, so sometimes people hesitate, and it passes them by. When you dont give all of yourself your protected I suppose.