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sxc666 Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
Claayer: Juggling balls with your toes?

OUCH!

That might end the 'events' pretty fast.. haha!
ewww yeah now Im getting pictures.



'Before we have mad, passionate sex, can I juggle your balls for a while'.uh oh
woody636 Elgin, Illinois USA
Claayer: Exactly!.. except maybe copious amounts of bedrooms gymnastics. Helloooooooooo


C L A I R E ! ! ! Hi there kiddo!!!!!!! Thought you were gone for good!!! How ya been??????wave wine grin
Claayer Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
sxc666: ewww yeah now Im getting pictures.
'Before we have mad, passionate sex, can I juggle your balls for a while'.


rolling on the floor laughing

Yeah.. maybe if you trained your feet well... You could use them as some kind of 'scales' giggle
Claayer Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
woody636: C L A I R E ! ! ! Hi there kiddo!!!!!!! Thought you were gone for good!!! How ya been??????


Oo Hello Woody!! wave hug

I'm very well thankyou! ..
Still foot loose and fancy free. laugh
Claayer Wild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK
I'm sorry to love you and leave you.. But it's OhMygawwwd O'clock here.. and I need to get to sleep.. roll eyes laugh

teddybear
woody636 Elgin, Illinois USA
Claayer: Oo Hello Woody!!

I'm very well thankyou! ..
Still foot loose and fancy free.


Why????? Figured you were all tied up with the Greek "Boy Toy" LOL!! Good to see/talk to ya, darlin! Been a long time!
sxc666 Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
Claayer: I'm sorry to love you and leave you.. But it's OhMygawwwd O'clock here.. and I need to get to sleep..
Night Claire, it is always great seeing you. You are missed around here. teddybear
druidess6308 Reverse, Pennsylvania USA
I think most are looking for the right one, not just anyone, and aren't willing to settle. No harm in that, so long as you really are willing to wait for it...and it's usually worth waiting for once you find it.

There is nothing better in this world than to KNOW that someone loves you just for who you are, and that they don't look at another or think of another in that way at all. It's freeing to not have to be shy with them, and to know that you're beautiful in every way in someone's eyes. To walk into a pair of arms and know that you're home, or to catch their eyes across a room and know that they were seeking your eyes, too, because no matter what else they're doing or who else they're talking to, they're still thinking of you.

And as long as I have this in my life, I am not alone even when he's not near.

heart wings gift
sxc666 Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
druidess6308: I think most are looking for the right one, not just anyone, and aren't willing to settle. No harm in that, so long as you really are willing to wait for it...and it's usually worth waiting for once you find it.

There is nothing better in this world than to KNOW that someone loves you just for who you are, and that they don't look at another or think of another in that way at all. It's freeing to not have to be shy with them, and to know that you're beautiful in every way in someone's eyes. To walk into a pair of arms and know that you're home, or to catch their eyes across a room and know that they were seeking your eyes, too, because no matter what else they're doing or who else they're talking to, they're still thinking of you.

And as long as I have this in my life, I am not alone even when he's not near.
Yeah right on Dru wine
druidess6308 Reverse, Pennsylvania USA
sxc666: Yeah right on Dru
He's not fighting it as hard, and I've stopped fighting it and accepted the inevitable. It doesn't matter if he's good or bad for me, or that he's the opposite of what my logical side wants...I love with my heart, not my brain. And I love him, pure and simple.

Love isn't always easy, and it's not always what we expect, but it's always wonderful. Especially a love like this. I just hope we don't ever lament the wasted years. But then, I guess they weren't a complete waste if they led to it being this strong and sure.
kizzy27 Nowra, New South Wales Australia
Alan_50501: I'm alone not by choice either. I would love to find somebody.



hello Alanlove heart beating
kizzy27 Nowra, New South Wales Australia
druidess6308: He's not fighting it as hard, and I've stopped fighting it and accepted the inevitable. It doesn't matter if he's good or bad for me, or that he's the opposite of what my logical side wants...I love with my heart, not my brain. And I love him, pure and simple.

Love isn't always easy, and it's not always what we expect, but it's always wonderful. Especially a love like this. I just hope we don't ever lament the wasted years. But then, I guess they weren't a complete waste if they led to it being this strong and sure.


Hi dru what you said before was awesome thats so true ..

So you have met someone? and your in love? was it a difficult desision Im not sure of the history but what eva Im happy for you hug
BlueSkyJ Reseda(near Los Angeles), California USA
druidess6308: I think most are looking for the right one, not just anyone, and aren't willing to settle. No harm in that, so long as you really are willing to wait for it...and it's usually worth waiting for once you find it.

There is nothing better in this world than to KNOW that someone loves you just for who you are, and that they don't look at another or think of another in that way at all. It's freeing to not have to be shy with them, and to know that you're beautiful in every way in someone's eyes. To walk into a pair of arms and know that you're home, or to catch their eyes across a room and know that they were seeking your eyes, too, because no matter what else they're doing or who else they're talking to, they're still thinking of you.

And as long as I have this in my life, I am not alone even when he's not near.

WoW!!!! I want all of that ^^^^^^^

Did I say WoW!!! I love the line about being 'beautiful in every way in someone's eyes'....I miss that....thanks for reminding me
wine
kizzy27 Nowra, New South Wales Australia
Ive been Hijacked by a coonabarabranian uh oh uh oh

well my thread has laugh
jvaski south lake tahoe, California USA
kizzy27: Ive been Hijacked by a coonabarabranian

well my thread has


We're just not gonna let that happen Kizzy ......scold
kizzy27 Nowra, New South Wales Australia
jvaski: We're just not gonna let that happen Kizzy ......


phew Thx Jvaski yr a good bloke then hug
mindfful London Chicago, Illinois USA
jvaski: We're just not gonna let that happen Kizzy ......


i dont even know what it is but im gettin my swordhead banger



sweet_saucy2008 Northwest, Tennessee USA
In response to: When there are so many good people looking for love
someone asked me this today
are we
too fussy
too busy
too stupid to see what in front of us
are we seeking perfection in an inperfect world
Internet dating gives us the opportunity to meet so many more people yet still we are alone !!!!
If everyone one would just relax a bit & go with the flow i believe people would connect better.


I am someone who does go with the flow, but it seems that the people who contact me have their own issues. All is good in the first email or two and then their true selves comes out. I have had some go postal on me because I was not so ready to jump into something with them or put my granddaughter on the back burner to fall all over them or because my views are opposite theirs. I have come to realize that there are far worse things than being alone. Being married to someone who may have kept their true colors well hidden until it was too late. I prefer my freedom and my lifestyle as opposed to having to submit my thoughts and life to fit someone else's mold. I have made some friends on this site and it works fine for all party's concerned. I have had love three times and the third time was not a charm. If I approach that again, I will go about it in a different manner and stay single. wink
vinny1967 On Tour, Devon, England UK
kizzy27: Thankyou Vinny I can see at times we all get busy in life , I wonder tho do we say this because nothing is on the horizion
I do it myself , Im busy , im not dating now because .
should be able to fit love into any schedule iof we dont want to remain alone , alone by choice now may mean alone when we dont want to be , and thats sad !!
Im going to look at this differently for a while concerning men, concerning my idea of ideal ..


I suppose we can look at it that way, and I'm sure some people do Kizzy.

As regards myself I let myself get stressed and ended up getting very sick. I had a lot, and lost it all. Now it really is time to concentrate on me, as while I'm 90 % there I know I'm not back to myself just yet.
I need to get back to my full health before I would consider a serious relationship.

Sometimes I think tho that people are afraid to give themselves fully to someone, in case they get hurt again, as a lot of people have here. When you give someone your heart and its rejected the pain can be unbearable, so sometimes people hesitate, and it passes them by. When you dont give all of yourself your protected I suppose.

wave
kizzy27 Nowra, New South Wales Australia
vinny1967: I suppose we can look at it that way, and I'm sure some people do Kizzy.

As regards myself I let myself get stressed and ended up getting very sick. I had a lot, and lost it all. Now it really is time to concentrate on me, as while I'm 90 % there I know I'm not back to myself just yet.
I need to get back to my full health before I would consider a serious relationship.

Sometimes I think tho that people are afraid to give themselves fully to someone, in case they get hurt again, as a lot of people have here. When you give someone your heart and its rejected the pain can be unbearable, so sometimes people hesitate, and it passes them by. When you dont give all of yourself your protected I suppose.


This is certainly true , Once hurt its very hard to go back for seconds ,,, even the thought of being rejected again makes me reluctant I once was rejected by a man because when we met he said he wanted someone taller he thought i was , had a thing for tall women I drove home & the worst thought popped into my head "I should have worn the 6 inch heels"Ofcourse i stopped myself immediatley !!! what a thing to think but this is how this medium can get you.




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