Bentlee: Do you follow society, or follow your inner self? And what do you think is the Lemming EFFECT?
Well, I know exactly what the lemming effect implies....."like lemmings to the sea"...one jumps in, the others all follow.
One MUST take society's path, at least partly. Laws are a part of one's society, for example. But, of course, if we ignore our own drives, ambitions, goals, interests, passions, and values, then whose life are we living? We must have a healthy mix of both. We must be true to ourselves and we must do so within the general framework of society. Well...I said "we must" and perhaps that's not accurately stated. But I believe that life would be far more difficult if we don't find that healthy balance. Sometimes, society changes as a result of individuals finding the strength to follow their inner selves, thumbing society in the nose. Gays, for example, have come out of the closet in great numbers and society has become more tolerant as a result. Just my 2 cents.