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In my path on this earth I have seen good come out of bad and bad come out of good. Some times it's our narrow point of view that shaids the image. I would rather be the child of a teen age mother then in the baskit of some doctors office.
What is good to one is bad for the other. I have loved with my all and have lost, but I have loved. I wouldn't alter my past to escape the pain.
There is nobillaty in so many if we could go past what is seen and lissen to what is voiced from the soul.

Macas can I just say I actually was born out of wedlock by a teenage mother. My entire life has been nothing but trouble whilst living with my immediate family. Now I have my own, thing's are considerably better.

What intrigues me though is your view on where you come from."I would rather be the child of a teen age mother then in the baskit of some doctors office" !!! Not a very nice statement to make really. I understand the social disorder's we all have to face and why they are there, it does not mean I have to like them. I am digusted with the way people treat one another, the generall look of distain in people's eye's. The lack of hope in there heart's. This is what I mean when I say I am disgusted with society as it stand's today.

My personal life history has made me who I am today. I have a strong mind/will fairly intellectual but no brainbox. Yet my heart still feel's all the pain in the world and suffering on a daily basis. You see I do listen to there soul's, therein lie's the problem.

But I will say I agree to a point, if I had not lived such a terrible upbringing. I probably would not of rebelled to the extent I have to become who I am. To hate that dysfunctionality I was born out of.

Ann Marie,out of chaos comes order.I am glad chaos did its job,now we have you and your wonderful insights

I agree Ann Marie has wonderful insights and I am outraged when she says she has no brainbox. You're obviously smart, Ann, though the educational system has betrayed you, no matter what it taught you, it gave you no confidence in it. But you could learn more. Not in school though. No, you are too independent of mind for that. I'll think of something. Of course the best way to learn anything is the equivalent of the best way to learn a foreign language. What's that? To get a sleeping dictionary, of course. The man you get should be smart, like you,
Ann, but have an incredible education, and be a great teacher, then after a few years with him you'll know it all too. And your kid(s) then get a head start on it as well. All of which should help with everything.

dpw

Pheonix
Thank you for your kind word's but believe me, I can bring chaos,lol.

LL187

Bieng the stroppy individualistic anti-authoritarian I am. I will decide in time when and where I chose to learn, at the moment I chose the internet with discussion board's just like this one.

I personally find other people's life experiences combined with my own, followed by what I see with my own eye's is the greatest learning curve for me.

I have been to college and tried that way and passed two basic computer courses. I have learnt through past stages in my life also for example... 2 years ago all my senses were hieghtened, which game me an overwhelming feeling of joy when I saw/smelled/touched the natural beauty in the world. I can still remember how that felt, I actually went to the doctor because I thought I was ill,lol.

As for learning while asleep, nope i'm afraid that sound's to lazy for me. I also don't want a guide to teach me all he know's. I would like to kick start my own brain into it's own way's of learning. I am 32 year's old tommorow, I personally believe I am doing a good job and progressing well.

Thank you for your offer to help but I am capable of growing on my own, have been from an early age.

Thank's again

Ann

Ann by being individual and anti authority you are able to stand tall and not back down after asking those in power to explain themselves.I like that in you.You dont cow/toow to nobody.People who question authority and will not back down are the ones who can effectivly change the world for the better while the sheep are busy eating grass obliviuos to whats going on

Happy Birthday Ann-Marie! I wish you love and happiness!

Oh, dear, Ann-Marie, how you did misunderstand me.
When I said a "sleeping dictionary" I was making a very common joke, understood throughout the language learning community. When a woman who wants to learn Spanish, for example, says she is going to get a sleeping dictionary, she means she is going to get a Spanish boyfriend to help her learn the language during pillowtalk. I was suggesting that what you needed was a lover, and I did not mean to exclude a husband, but let's say a lover, a smart as you, but with a vast education, a sleeping dictionary, to teach you everything he know during pillowtalk in a few years. You see? Oh, yes, Ann-Marie, I do truly believe you are capable of growing on your own and I am sure you have been from an early age, but don't you want to be part of a couple? Couldn't you handle the two of you growing on your own, together? You could teach him, too, teach him to have what the Phoenix and I have both called your wonderful insights, during the same pillowtalk. That is what I envision for you, two people, teaching one another, growing on their own, together. My vision for you. But anyway, best wishes on your birthday, dear woman.

dpw

I can tell you one thing..I am the happiest/luckiest lady simply because i am happy with myself. Not to mention the joys of children..well that's a givin really. But yes sweetie..women can be happy,just you guys have a way of pissing us off sometimes,doesn't mean we don't love yall ;)

Betcha had a good time on your birthday after all,
Ann Marie, you've been conspicuously absent. Betcha
also missed another of those long posts of mine that make you so angry, just above our new Texan friend's
contribution. I hope you go back and look at it. I wouldn't want you to go through life thinking a sleeping dictionary is some kind of sleep learning thing. Compulsory on topic: are you happy, woman?

dpw

Absolutely!! Men are just as complex as women, and although we are so very different in many ways, we are just as similar in many other ways...My opinion is this; happiness has to come from within, whether you're a man or a woman...if you're not happy with yourself, how can you expect to be seen as happy from others...It's like carrying around a sign of doom and gloom, but if your happy and self-confident, it radiates!

Women you say,well they are to cool and that is the end of that

Hello D.P.W

I did go back and read your post, I now understand what you meant. Still don't agree with it though, my mind will see me through not someone else's. I did also see you think i am capable of learning on my own, good you should be necause I am,lol. Yep you got it right that english stroppy attitude is out on show again,lol this time faceciously.

As for am I happy, honestly sort of to a certain extent but no-where near fully !!! I can't even explain why I am not happy, I should be. I have two healthy beautifull daughter's, my health is also fine. I have a roof over my head and all the small thing's in life that matter. I just dont feel content and happy yet, go figure because I can't.

Ann-Marie

What I did, Ann Marie, was too things, I realized you were very bright, and someone who must and will learn,
whether you do it yourself or not, and I envisioned what I will now call a soulmate for you, a perfect match for you, who I would see as someone to help you learn, among other things. But if you don't agree, at least do this exercise, try to imagine the perfect match for yourself. If it isn't someone very smart who knows a lot, I think it would be a mistake. What kind of person would you envision?

dpw

Yes LL187

You are correct I have had a relationship with someone who did not think or care as much as me, he hurt me very bad and it ended after 4 year's of loving him unconditionally. I see your point and I am thankfull of your view's, they help to broden my perspective thank you for that.

Ann-Marie

Woman.....................what wonderful marvelous sexy people....................

thant all i have to say on the subject

I think if women also treated men with a little more respect & made an effort getting to know males, the whole dating thing would be a little better. Women should sometimes make the first move, as us blokes are getting sick of doing it all the time. Why should we always swallow our pride???

It all goes both ways not just against males.

Woman was made from the rig b of man
She was not created from his head ...to top him
Nor his his feet to be stepped on

She was made from his side to be his equal
From beneath his arm to be protected by him

Near his heart to be loved by him

If we are treated this way then we are usually happy.

Happiness comes from within.Everyday is a new day and treat it as such.We all have a past ,but once you have dealt with Pandora, put her back on the shelf and move forward.Life is about choice,so you decide,is the glass half full or half empty?The choice is yours.

Me I am who I am and I like who I am ,even with my imperfections...lol

I belive when they have peace in there heart and look for the good and bad remember the good and help make the bad beter they will feel happy.in there soul anyways..