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Tater springfield, Illinois USA
somechick: I think sometimes men are also more forgiving and hold less grudges then we women do at times about certain things when someone does them wrong.
applause yes, THat is absolutely true..... that is why we can get into a bar fight with our friends and be friends with them again the next day.... MOST DON'T hold grudges, but the few that do watch out.........they are the crazies...cheers
sxc666 Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
somechick: I think sometimes men are also more forgiving and hold less grudges then we women do at times about certain things when someone does them wrong.
Yep I believe that is 100% true. Good point.
Big_John Ocean Springs, Mississippi USA
I find over time the 'sex' thing gets in the way with female friends--probably me and not them.
sxc666 Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
Tater: I have alot more men friends then female friends, but I do have several female friends..

I think alot of women have more male friends, for these reasons..

To be a man's friend, you don't have to look your best, have nice clothes, shoes, etc, we don't judge you by them....

we don't argue with you about the way your hair is done etc etc.

Plus most men(not all) flirt and compliment, and do favors, for women, and women like that... alot of women need their vanity fed all the time...

WE (men) are not in any competition with women where as women are always comparing and judging other women on everything they do....
Though we are judgement, WE are no where near as judgemental then women... honestly ..........we are more blunt, but not more judgemental....JMO
Spot on Tater. I cannot argue with that.wine
sxc666 Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
Big_John: I find over time the 'sex' thing gets in the way with female friends--probably me and not them.
Yes I can understand that and that certainly has happened in the past.

But the opposite sex friends you keep and just know nothing will happen. I treat differently also than what I would if I was in a relationship with them.

I wonder if that is because we accept more when they are just friends where as in a relationship they would get on your tits and begin to be annoying.

I have wonderful male friends that I can call on at anytime and it is never to much hassle for them. It is strange but they make me feel safe also.
mindfful London Chicago, Illinois USA
i say its our mothers' fault



rolling on the floor laughing












dunno
really who knowsblues
sxc666 Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
mindfful: i say its our mothers' fault


really who knows
hmmmmmm on a serious note I wonder if in some way that is true.

I was raised by my father from my early teens until later.

So I wonder if there is a certain 'father figure' that I see. The trust factor thing.
friendsfirst Burbank, Illinois USA
sxc666: Yeah and that is true, and often I find as women we can go over and over the same topic again and again.
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

Nah.No way Tina. R U saying this life has a loop cycle?
Some smaller and some larger is all,but both men and women repeat themselves.
Thanks for the laugh.wave

Reminds me of that example in a classroom where the first student is told something and expected to repeat it to the next.,,so ,,on ..till the last pupil ..
WOW alot of color got added to that story by the time the last person got it.Or it was totally different than how it started.
sxc666 Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
friendsfirst: Nah.No way Tina. R U saying this life has a loop cycle?
Some smaller and some larger is all,but both men and women repeat themselves.
Thanks for the laugh.

Reminds me of that example in a classroom where the first student is told something and expected to repeat it to the next.,,so ,,on ..till the last pupil ..
WOW alot of color got added to that story by the time the last person got it.Or it was totally different than how it started.
laugh laugh hahhah yeah I remember doing that at School also.
SensualVixen Tampa Bay area, Florida USA
I have always had more male friends than female friends. I don't enjoy swapping recipes or seeing pics of the grandkids. Talk to me about football, golf, sailing, or current events anyday over how much sugar to add to your tuna casserole.....
mindfful London Chicago, Illinois USA
sxc666: hmmmmmm on a serious note I wonder if in some way that is true.

I was raised by my father from my early teens until later.

So I wonder if there is a certain 'father figure' that I see. The trust factor thing.


those primary relationships really do affect so much


like EVERY DAMN THINGdoh
friendsfirst Burbank, Illinois USA
mindfful: i say its our mothers' fault


really who knows


Moms can be overbearing or down right unnuturing and cold.Amazing but true not all females are designed to be mothers.
Was it THEIR mothers that were like this or like that?dunno
sxc666 Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
SensualVixen: I have always had more male friends than female friends. I don't enjoy swapping recipes or seeing pics of the grandkids. Talk to me about football, golf, sailing, or current events anyday over how much sugar to add to your tuna casserole.....
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing Yeah I know where you are coming from there.
somechick Cincinnati Ohio, Ohio USA
There are some things I feel alot more comfortable about telling/sharing with/to my man friends then I do my woman friends.They seem to be more trustworthy and alot less judgemental.
Medsummer09 Cap D'Ail-Monaco, Provence-Alpes-Cote dAzur France
after reading the thread the answer is simple...everyone is right.cheers
sxc666 Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
somechick: There are some things I feel alot more comfortable about telling/sharing with/to my man friends then I do my woman friends.They seem to be more trustworthy and alot less judgemental.
Yeah its like you can tell them anything and know it wont go further. With a female you can tell them but not feel 100% it will stay between you. And I've seen fall outs with friends where they air all the conversations that took place as revenge on the other person. I just don't see nor I have I had male friends that do that.
mindfful London Chicago, Illinois USA
somechick: There are some things I feel alot more comfortable about telling/sharing with/to my man friends then I do my woman friends.They seem to be more trustworthy and alot less judgemental.


i see what youre saying but i still say for me those feelings i came to believe were my trip
and it seems to have healed/changed a bit
and now its differentdunno


hello chickywave
mindfful London Chicago, Illinois USA
Medsummer09: after reading the thread the answer is simple...everyone is right.

dingdingdingcheering
sxc666 Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
Medsummer09: after reading the thread the answer is simple...everyone is right.
Right about what?
somechick Cincinnati Ohio, Ohio USA
mindfful: i see what youre saying but i still say for me those feelings i came to believe were my trip
and it seems to have healed/changed a bit
and now its different hello chicky



Hello mindful.wave You can call me Anna if you wish.




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