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krisha tokyo, Tokyo Japan
everyone has a hard time of life,if u are far from your beloved and something happened that we didnt expect,how you managed everything?why so many challenge in our life?
BClady Surrey, British Columbia Canada
Why people ask same questions in different threads with different wording? Answers will be same.frustrated
bestbefore poole, Dorset, England UK
krisha: everyone has a hard time of life,if u are far from your beloved and something happened that we didnt expect,how you managed everything?why so many challenge in our life?


Because these are the things that are character building in our lives.It's not what happens to you in life it's how you deal with it.What doesn't break you makes you stronger.kiss
phoenixrising1 south hazelton, British Columbia Canada
In response to: everyone has a hard time of life,if u are far from your beloved and something happened that we didnt expect,how you managed everything?why so many challenge in our life?


hi krisha... we all have our mountains to climb... but the important thing is that we have friends and family to support you through it and help keep you strong... and help make you strong when your broken... i found this support on cs these last difficult 4 months... and am thankful for all those who shared their own lives and experiences with me...
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whaaat den, Zuid-Holland Netherlands
krisha: everyone has a hard time of life,if u are far from your beloved and something happened that we didnt expect,how you managed everything?why so many challenge in our life?


I like the challange, without it, don't think life will be rewarding and beautifull.
sweetowen Somewhere, Pennsylvania USA
phoenixrising1: hi krisha... we all have our mountains to climb... but the important thing is that we have friends and family to support you through it and help keep you strong... and help make you strong when your broken... i found this support on cs these last difficult 4 months... and am thankful for all those who shared their own lives and experiences with me...



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morgan5 somewhere sunny , Canarias Spain
bestbefore: Because these are the things that are character building in our lives.It's not what happens to you in life it's how you deal with it.What doesn't break you makes you stronger.
Not sure i can agree with that, some things are cruel and pointless and benefit no one. wine
morgan5 somewhere sunny , Canarias Spain
phoenixrising1: hi krisha... we all have our mountains to climb... but the important thing is that we have friends and family to support you through it and help keep you strong... and help make you strong when your broken... i found this support on cs these last difficult 4 months... and am thankful for all those who shared their own lives and experiences with me...



kds
wave I agree, this place and some of the people here have helped me thro alot hug
Laura25 Somewhere, New York USA
morgan5: Not sure i can agree with that, some things are cruel and pointless and benefit no one.


I too can't stand this "What doesn't break you makes you stronger" cliche...

There are some things and events in our lives that's impossible to comprehend.
bestbefore poole, Dorset, England UK
Laura25: I too can't stand this "What doesn't break you makes you stronger" cliche...

There are some things and events in our lives that's impossible to comprehend.


If we knew what was going to happen in our lives we would all be psychics and have no need to come to the forums with our recurring problems.What I meant was that you either sink or swim by decisions you make in life.Good bad or indifferent they are choices that only we can make.
pubwrite08 District Heights, Maryland USA
I do not know why stuff goes the way it goes. We all got something to go through. I guess life would not be life if it was not like that.
In response to: everyone has a hard time of life,if u are far from your beloved and something happened that we didnt expect,how you managed everything?why so many challenge in our life?
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bestbefore poole, Dorset, England UK
morgan5: Not sure i can agree with that, some things are cruel and pointless and benefit no one.


Life is cruel at times which is why we have to draw strength to deal with whatever comes our way.The forums are great but real life prevails and S--t happens.
caspatch galena, Missouri USA
In response to: everyone has a hard time of life,if u are far from your beloved and something happened that we didnt expect,how you managed everything?why so many challenge in our life?

life has its way of making it difficult for you at times, but you must remember those who love you and understand when you cannot be there in person, it does not make it any easier for you but if you remember it could help, you have people who are there for you all you have to do is askhug



Sommerauer71 Salzburg, Salzburg Austria
Laura25: I too can't stand this "What doesn't break you makes you stronger" cliche...

There are some things and events in our lives that's impossible to comprehend.
Not many cliches I do like. And that is one of the ones that I detest!

bouquet Laura.
morgan5 somewhere sunny , Canarias Spain
Laura25: I too can't stand this "What doesn't break you makes you stronger" cliche...

There are some things and events in our lives that's impossible to comprehend.
I agree Laura, try telling it to people you have lost children wine
tgwstw Cork, Cork Ireland
Well, I reckon ya can't know real happiness til ya know real shittiness.
Way I look at it, life keeps throwing 'em, ya just gotta keep batting 'em outta the park.

When something less than inspiring happens to me, I simply tell myself that after today, there is another day and so on.

Things are only prolonged if you let them be. Easy to say but it really is as simple as that, once you understand that each time you get a kick in the nuts, or lack of them it makes it that much easier to recover.
bestbefore poole, Dorset, England UK
tgwstw: Well, I reckon ya can't know real happiness til ya know real shittiness.
Way I look at it, life keeps throwing 'em, ya just gotta keep batting 'em outta the park.

When something less than inspiring happens to me, I simply tell myself that after today, there is another day and so on.

Things are only prolonged if you let them be. Easy to say but it really is as simple as that, once you understand that each time you get a kick in the nuts, or lack of them it makes it that much easier to recover.



thumbs up What I was trying to get across in so many words!
morgan5 somewhere sunny , Canarias Spain
bestbefore: Life is cruel at times which is why we have to draw strength to deal with whatever comes our way.The forums are great but real life prevails and S--t happens.
Yes it does, it depends what has happened, and it does NOT always benefit you in any shape or form
morgan5 somewhere sunny , Canarias Spain
tgwstw: Well, I reckon ya can't know real happiness til ya know real shittiness.
Way I look at it, life keeps throwing 'em, ya just gotta keep batting 'em outta the park.

When something less than inspiring happens to me, I simply tell myself that after today, there is another day and so on.

Things are only prolonged if you let them be. Easy to say but it really is as simple as that, once you understand that each time you get a kick in the nuts, or lack of them it makes it that much easier to recover.
ok i'll try telling that to my son and daughter in law about the death of their baby, sure it will make them feel better.
bestbefore poole, Dorset, England UK
morgan5: I agree Laura, try telling it to people you have lost children



Sorry Morgan,I have lost plenty of people close to me at a very young age and about to have it happen again.I can't stop the process but deal with it the best way I can.We are all different in the way we handle grief




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