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Yvonne66 kiruna, Norrbotten Sweden
What is it with me? i'm saying me beacuse i think it has something to with me just falling for the wrong types. I have recently been dating two guys. Both of them really interested in the beginning when i was a bit cool. They tried hard and finally when i'm starting to feel more inolved and also ready to be more serious they backed off. Still they don't want it to end totally but they still don't want the whole thing. Ofcourse i didn't date them at the same time. I really want to find a guy who just don't feel a thrill in the chase i want him to want me for what i am and someone who doesn't get afraid when i show him how i feel. Damn this datinggames! sometimes it's so fun and good and sometimes it's just pure missery.
whaaat den, Zuid-Holland Netherlands
Yvonne66: What is it with me? i'm saying me beacuse i think it has something to with me just falling for the wrong types. I have recently been dating two guys. Both of them really interested in the beginning when i was a bit cool. They tried hard and finally when i'm starting to feel more inolved and also ready to be more serious they backed off. Still they don't want it to end totally but they still don't want the whole thing. Ofcourse i didn't date them at the same time. I really want to find a guy who just don't feel a thrill in the chase i want him to want me for what i am and someone who doesn't get afraid when i show him how i feel. Damn this datinggames! sometimes it's so fun and good and sometimes it's just pure missery.


Tell me about it, I experienced the same thing, and when i totally gave up on them, they came back running, and hell no, ain't going back there.

They thought when they play hard to get, i will keep on chasing. once i feel it (games) just leave them alone. Don't bother playing that game and isn't attractive either.bouquet



yum_yum birmingham, West Midlands, England UK
get a new date or try and work it out with one of the men you have

simples
Medsummer09 Nice, Provence-Alpes-Cote dAzur France
the hell with them...if your not worth they're time to go further then they're not worth your time.
Polarbutterfly Somewhere, Northwest Territories Canada
In response to: What is it with me? i'm saying me beacuse i think it has something to with me just falling for the wrong types. I have recently been dating two guys. Both of them really interested in the beginning when i was a bit cool. They tried hard and finally when i'm starting to feel more inolved and also ready to be more serious they backed off. Still they don't want it to end totally but they still don't want the whole thing. Ofcourse i didn't date them at the same time. I really want to find a guy who just don't feel a thrill in the chase i want him to want me for what i am and someone who doesn't get afraid when i show him how i feel. Damn this datinggames! sometimes it's so fun and good and sometimes it's just pure missery.


I've been there too before.
Maybe I was too naive or
a little too trusting.
I know what I want and,
I won't give up until I
find what I'm looking for.hug



Sommerauer71 Salzburg, Salzburg Austria
Hi there Sweden.

I am not sure if you are asking for help or just venting. I'll take it as a vent. And you go lady and shout it out.

Speaking from my own experience, I think in the beginning it is often the case. For men and women, they love the chase, who doesn't it? I love it and then when it all settles down that chase has worn off and we feel flat. I think that is completely normal and I don't think it is you at all. As for two guys, well you lucky thing, some poor things wait for such a long time to get one date. Yes, damn and blast it this dating malarky.
krisha tokyo, Tokyo Japan
yvonne,this is just a site,50 percent are true and 50 percent are not but most of the time always there is game,we need to be careful and not open everything about yourself...if he come infront of u,yes he is the serious one...
Yvonne66 kiruna, Norrbotten Sweden
I didn't meet these guys on this site or any site . It happen in real wave
hopefloats Slim's Lady, Tennessee USA
Maybe it just wasn't meant to be with either one......wine
caspatch galena, Missouri USA
it happens in real life as well as on the site, but keep your chin up and when it is real you will know itthumbs up



Sommerauer71 Salzburg, Salzburg Austria
Yvonne66: I didn't meet these guys on this site or any site . It happen in real


Good lord, there are real men in Sweden? Yes, I saw some yesterday at the pub I was in, in Sweden. Real ones.
krisha tokyo, Tokyo Japan
Yvonne66: I didn't meet these guys on this site or any site . It happen in real


aww,that sucks,then forget it and try to find again but becareful...comfort
whaaat den, Zuid-Holland Netherlands
Sommerauer71: Good lord, there are real men in Sweden? Yes, I saw some yesterday at the pub I was in, in Sweden. Real ones.


throw some this way applause bouquet



BOBANBOBAN Pozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia
Yvonne66: What is it with me? i'm saying me beacuse i think it has something to with me just falling for the wrong types. I have recently been dating two guys. Both of them really interested in the beginning when i was a bit cool. They tried hard and finally when i'm starting to feel more inolved and also ready to be more serious they backed off. Still they don't want it to end totally but they still don't want the whole thing. Ofcourse i didn't date them at the same time. I really want to find a guy who just don't feel a thrill in the chase i want him to want me for what i am and someone who doesn't get afraid when i show him how i feel. Damn this datinggames! sometimes it's so fun and good and sometimes it's just pure missery.


One of the best thing iv read in a long time, not meny people will realise that sometimes , something is theyr own falt.
krisha tokyo, Tokyo Japan
whaaat: throw some this way



rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing i bet if u are my brides maid ,u are a good catcherlaugh hug



Sommerauer71 Salzburg, Salzburg Austria
whaaat: throw some this way
Hi Whaaat, I'll be back down there and kick their asses onto the next boat in the harbour and send them down to you in Holland.
whaaat den, Zuid-Holland Netherlands
krisha: i bet if u are my brides maid ,u are a good catcher


don't worry krisha, u just throw your bouquet my way and i promise will catch it rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
whaaat den, Zuid-Holland Netherlands
Sommerauer71: Hi Whaaat, I'll be back down there and kick their asses onto the next boat in the harbour and send them down to you in Holland.


wave

Will be waiting
I don't think it's actually so abnormal. Wise men have a lot to say about one half of the prospective couple trying to climb up to the next stage of the relationship (e.g. begin exclusive dating) before the other half is ready for it. But I don't know all the details so it's just a general observation. hug



mbcasey North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA
I choose not to date anyone who plays games. It's a waste of time and effort.

Honesty seems to work best. Just tell the person up front what you want in your dating life and if they want the same, maybe some magic will happen....bouquet




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