Yvonne66: What is it with me? i'm saying me beacuse i think it has something to with me just falling for the wrong types. I have recently been dating two guys. Both of them really interested in the beginning when i was a bit cool. They tried hard and finally when i'm starting to feel more inolved and also ready to be more serious they backed off. Still they don't want it to end totally but they still don't want the whole thing. Ofcourse i didn't date them at the same time. I really want to find a guy who just don't feel a thrill in the chase i want him to want me for what i am and someone who doesn't get afraid when i show him how i feel. Damn this datinggames! sometimes it's so fun and good and sometimes it's just pure missery.
Tell me about it, I experienced the same thing, and when i totally gave up on them, they came back running, and hell no, ain't going back there.
They thought when they play hard to get, i will keep on chasing. once i feel it (games) just leave them alone. Don't bother playing that game and isn't attractive either.