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maybe it is just because you are not ready to find someone yet.

Maybe jus' look for an average woman for a change...we're good women,too and you MIGHT be surprized...

dude..it means you are just screwed up in your head. If one is screwed up in his/her head, nobody can really do anything about it to help him/her

I have this need to be very attracted, physically. It makes me feel shallow as hell. I know deep in my heart that there's much more to a person's worth than the outer shell.

Sounds like you like drama! You say one thing, but your really mean another! LOL! Time to take inventory, redo your profile and be honest with what you want. Be bold dude! Say what you want!

You seem to be someone who's been there and done that. You have quite a bit of time figuring others and you seem to know what you want. Only when you have it, you feel like you should be more excited, more enthused about it, you tell yourself "Why am I not giddy?"
Maybe you're too blase about it. Maybe you've had lots of similar encounters that have turned out blah and you're just not into it as much as you used to be. You want novelty, something fresh, something that, inside you, awakens deep reactions to it.
I suggest you take time to enjoy the simpler things in life. A beautiful bird, how blue and nice the sky is, how vivid green are the tress... Learn to see things not as they have always appeared to you but in a different light, one not so mechanical and drone but new and fresh.
"There comes a time when the throne room becomes a prison, when the jewels cease to sparkle..."
Discover yourself all over again....

Now, be careful with that "tell what you want". If men really start telling you ladies what they really want, i can almost assure you that you all ladies would actually run faster than light and find a different planet for yourself to settle.

Thanks for the insightful and thoughtful response. Aren't you late for your Assholes Anonymous meeting

No, serious. Did you read his profile. It sounds like he got exactly what he asked for. A smart woman, no drama. But did you see the photos???? I is polar opposite! Check it out. Sounds like some one dictated it to him. It is not who he is. I am guessing???? Besides, "tell what you want" can mean "what is in your heart, personality/compatibility wise."

Sorry I was not clear!

Thanks grandpenses.

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Who knows.
Maybe its hormonal.

Mee-Ow dude!

Perhaps, there just wasn't chemistry, that's all. Move on so you will meet the right person for you.

Maybe its to do with your ex...maybe you have a "standard" that is unreachable, or you are looking for a similar type to your ex.

If that is not the case, then maybe you are using the "It Factor" as a reason not to get into a relationship at the moment. Maybe you simply are not ready to. I dont know.

All I would say is that chemistry is either there or its not; it cant be manfactured. Just try to broaded your horizons, open your boundaries and be willing to try new experiences. Dont give up on someone too soon.

Best of luck to you, sir!

Thanks Petal Babe. You could have some valid points.

Thank you, and you are welcome..

Always glad to offer an alternative viewpoint

O god...not that "chemistry" again! i dread that word "chemistry" since my high school. i implore you ladies, please don't make us eat "chemistry" anymore. is there a chance that we start thinking about physics, botany or zoology from now on?