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or do you think I just talk too much?

I think you watch too much porn.

Seriously, to answer your question, I think the porn industry has made many have unrealistic expectations of their partners in looks and "talent". I am not a contortionist who angles for the camera, so I will not be semi-sideways on one arm and leg. I happen to like missionary position as one of the many options available.

I hate the fact that because of the porn industry shaving everyone bald so that there's better visibility, this has become a standard that too many follow. I don't want a bald-genitalia-child-looking man, I want one that still looks and smells like a man. I don't mind stubble on his face, and don't care if it touches my cheeks and lips, but I don't want stubble burn on my nether lips or those more sensitive cheeks near them, thank you very much.

Yes, I'm old-fashioned in some ways...but dang, I miss some things about the 70s.

i would agree with the statement that porn has changed the majority of people's sex habbits at home. although i have to say that missionary is anything but boring. i dont enjoy porn at all. i just dont get off on watching other people have sex. but thats just me. i think its really unhealthy...

in glad you say that about the genitalia area because i was thinking i becoming strange.

as i have had messages sent that the man shaves himself below .

i ask why would i want to go to bed with a man looking like a boy, and he answered as if i was an alien.

watching Porn is ok but i would rather make my own with my partner. have make love night have a poor night.

depends on the mood

Yup.
Documentary on here, Sex Education Vs. Pornography asked a bunch of teens where a man would ejaculate.
The answers ranged from face, boobs, stomach to eye!
Not one said the obvious!
I do think it creates a very unrealistic expectation about what sex is, what it means.

I definitely would say it has a huge influence on how peoples sexuality develops these days.

Many take inspiration for their activities from porn, I'm not sure how good or bad an idea that is.

Porn is porn. Real life is real life. The two have almost nothing to do with each other. I don't live my life by porn, movie plots, TV show dialogue or other make believe things.

I think its more than just the porn material thats done it and I think its a great thing to happen to man, and womankind to be sexually liberated. If there's pressure it's down to a mismatched partnership in my book because people who go together well don't have any kind of pressure between the two of them...its all mutual desires

Do I think it's healthy? so long as it doesn't involve small children, animals or unwanted pressure - without a shadow of a doubt. Absolutely healthy.

Ach - and there's nothing wrong with missionary now and again - who told you that was boring??

And not a one of those does anything for me.



WTF happened to orifices that were meant for this? (And yes, mouth is included in that question...not face, though, thanks.)

So right - I always wonder about men who want their women clean shaven...too much like little girls then so rather questionable in my book. Nothing wrong with a short back and sides but I want my man to want to know he's with a full grown woman

The sexually liberated part I have no problem with, Suzy. I agree with this part of what porn has done...it's not all bad, and I enjoy watching a bit of it with a partner occasionally. Just so long as there aren't unrealistic expectations because of it. And I agree that there are many from the widespread access to porn that now exists.

......As per usual Big John, nicely said.......

J.D

Welcome back JD...... Glad for the nice words.

Point taken and agreed!

Well said, I completeley agree with you!!!!!!!

.....Well written Druidess,well that makes me old fashion too...and I am going to sound like an old fart here....there was Ethics and morals in those days too.........

J.D

Yes, there were JD...and some really great drugs. (Sorry.)

Anyway, yes, I might be an old-fart in that way...but trust me, there are a few of us who are talented and sensual...more so than the younger ones, actually. And morals just go to ensure that it will be mutually monogamous, and thereby better because of the trust and comfort that will be built that allows for that liberation from inhibitions.

It hasn't changed my habits.
Besides,porn doesn't do a
thing for me;I don't need it
and neither should he so as
long as we have eachother to depend on.

You think too much.

No... Porn not for me it is very degrading and you have to understand it does ruin lives of the people who make it ....ask Ted Bundy and other sex murders how much they watched.... How can it get boring to hold a woman, look into her eyes and feel her breast against your chest, when making love (missionary). I did say making love...Sex is just sex. Even insects have sex....