Sparky6420: I was drifting through the forums because I can't sleep. I do this quite often when I am feeling a little lonely. Anyway, I noticed something that disturbs me. Quite a few of the threads had comments about "fat" people. Now as you can all tell from my pictures, I am not slender. I am not overly obese either. I like to believe that I am fluffy not fat.
My point is the whole fat comment thing made me feel a little uneasy. Are people looking at my picture and thinking she is a gluttonous whale? Looking at her makes me puke?
Sigh, I hate having self-esteem issues but I have struggled with my weight my whole life.
So, I welcome comments about what is up with the whole fat woman issue.
You're a blues fan. Remember the old song "I am built for comfort, not for speed"?
That's not a bad thing by any measure. You've got a nice smile and seem like a good person.
Years ago a rather rude older woman who barely knew me told me I should have a defect fixed "so I could find a good woman". I told her the defect would not make any difference to a good woman and that anyone it did bother I would not have any use for.
Likewise any man who would pass you by because you are not a walking toothpick is the one losing out.