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kindheart74 colombo Sri Lanka
In November 2007, BBC reported that a devout father Afazuddin Ali(36), from a village in West Bengal(India), married his 15-year-old daughter. To convince his wife Sakina to the marriage, he informed her that he was under a divine sanction from Allah in this regard. Her husband a deeply religious man, she could not believe that he would tell her a lie in Allah's name. Sakina agreed and the girl fell pregnant with the child of her father.
Allah used to adopt various means to communicate his divine instructions to Prophet Mohammad. When at the age of 52, the Prophet decided to marry Aisha, a child of 6, Allah sent his divine sanction in the form of dreams. For three consecutive nights, angel Gabriel showed a picture of Aisha and said, "This is your wife." So he had no other alternative but to carry out Allah's divine will as soon as possible. So he married Aisha in Medina, even defying Aisha's father Abu Bakr's opposition, because Muhammad was like a father to Aisha.
In the fifth year of Hijri, the Prophet—while peeping into the house of his adopted son Zeid—saw latter's newly-married wife Jainab naked and become so aroused that he had to rush home to quickly sleep with one of his many wives to cool himself down. Nonetheless, the Prophet because love-stricken by her beauty. But marrying daughters-in-law were considered incestuous in the Arab society. The most merciful Allah—always ready to make His beloved Prophet's every desire a reality—realized that Muhammad needed a divine sanction to defend himself from public scandal if he married her. So, without wasting time, Allah sent Gabriel with verse 33:37 of the Koran that reads:
"....You sought to hide in your heart what Allah was to reveal. You were afraid of man, although it would have been more proper to fear Allah. And when Zeid divorced his wife, We gave her to you in marriage, so that it should become legitimate for true believers to wed the wives of their adopted sons if they divorced them. Allah's will must needs to be done".
Realizing that this verse was inadequate to protect the Prophet as public scandal broke out, Allah revealed another verse, namely 33:38 to defend him:
"No blame shall be attached to the Prophet for doing what is sanctioned for him by Allah. ....."
The Prophet, a deeply religious man, evidently never proceeded with his mission without a sanction from Allah, be it marrying a new wife, or carrying out a raid in a kafir settlement, or to massacre kafir tribes. And Allah was ever ready to assist the Prophet with divine sanctions for the smooth-sailing of the his every design. For example, when more and more younger wives were inducted into the Prophet's harem and he desired to spend more time with the younger ones, Allah quickly sent divine sanction (Koran 33:51), which allowed him to set aside the elderly wives and take younger ones to bed by revealing:
"You may put off any of your wives you please and take to your bed any of them you please. Nor is it unlawful for you to receive any of those whom you have temporarily set aside. That is more proper, so that they may be contended and not vexed, and may all be pleased with what you give them. Allah knows what is in your hearts. Surely Allah is all-knowing and gracious"
Furthermore, to make it easy for the Prophet to marry any woman and to keep any number of wives, Allah revealed:
"O Prophet, We have made lawful for you the wives to whom you have granted dowries and the slave-girls whom Allah has given you as booty; the daughters of your paternal and maternal aunts who fled with you; and any believing woman who gives herself to the Prophet and whom the Prophet wishes to take in marriage. This privilege is yours alone, being granted to no other believer" (Koran-33/50).
The similar was the case with Afazuddin's marriage with his daughter. So, it would not be difficult for the reader to understand what type of God is Allah and the real nature of Allah's sanctions.
-Dr Radhasyam Brahmachari-
hello !
why do not you bring proofs from Islamic scholars. Islam is stronger than you think, tell me do you hate Moslems or Islam.
RobertC2 Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta
outalb: hello !
why do not you bring proofs from Islamic scholars. Islam is stronger than you think, tell me do you hate Moslems or Islam.


There is no need to hate people.......... it requires little judgement though to hate man-made laws that only satify the lust of those who claim to be the prophet of a man-made God.
morgan5 somewhere sunny , Canarias Spain
RobertC2: There is no need to hate people.......... it requires little judgement though to hate man-made laws that only satify the lust of those who claim to be the prophet of a man-made God.
I agree Robert, people use religion to suit their needs, and happens in every religion wine
yum_yum birmingham, West Midlands, England UK
outalb: hello !
why do not you bring proofs from Islamic scholars. Islam is stronger than you think, tell me do you hate Moslems or Islam.


i have read the Quran. i dont know if you have, have you?

Because Allah states its forbidden to touch a child in that way your stating.Muslims are not allowed to use a child as slave nor take money from them while in there care.

I think you should read the book before writing on a forum
RobertC2 Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta
outalb: hello !
why do not you bring proofs from Islamic scholars. Islam is stronger than you think, tell me do you hate Moslems or Islam.


YOUR God (Allah) is the same as my God (God) - a pure fiction for the control of people used by those whose only desire is to control other people for their own ulterior ends.

If there is a God let us all hope that he isn't God as portrayed in either the bible or other sources - a truly evil bastard in my opinion.
yum_yum birmingham, West Midlands, England UK
yum_yum: i have read the Quran. i dont know if you have, have you?

Because Allah states its forbidden to touch a child in that way your stating.Muslims are not allowed to use a child as slave nor take money from them while in there care.

I think you should read the book before writing on a forum


sorry that was not for outalb
RobertC2 Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta
yum_yum: i have read the Quran. i dont know if you have, have you?

Because Allah states its forbidden to touch a child in that way your stating.Muslims are not allowed to use a child as slave nor take money from them while in there care.

I think you should read the book before writing on a forum


Those that make the law have always considered themselves above the law.
yum_yum birmingham, West Midlands, England UK
yum_yum: i have read the Quran. i dont know if you have, have you?

Because Allah states its forbidden to touch a child in that way your stating.Muslims are not allowed to use a child as slave nor take money from them while in there care.

I think you should read the book before writing on a forum


sorry that was not for outalb
morgan5 somewhere sunny , Canarias Spain
RobertC2: YOUR God (Allah) is the same as my God (God) - a pure fiction for the control of people used by those whose only desire is to control other people for their own ulterior ends.

If there is a God let us all hope that he isn't God as portrayed in either the bible or other sources - a truly evil bastard in my opinion.
thumbs up wine
tainogirl Trincity,West Indies, Trinidad and Tobago
Better settle in with my toast and chocolate for todays train wreck.laugh
morgan5 somewhere sunny , Canarias Spain
yum_yum: sorry that was not for outalb
Morning wave have to say was a bit confused by your original post wine
morgan5 somewhere sunny , Canarias Spain
tainogirl: Better settle in with my toast and chocolate for todays train wreck.
Oooohhh Chocolate !!! wave bouquet
tainogirl Trincity,West Indies, Trinidad and Tobago
morgan5: Oooohhh Chocolate !!!


Hi Morganwave Yep that good stuff. You know you can get the real deal out here, not like that tin or packaged stuff. Mighty fattening but oh so good! Ooops sorry, got you off topic with food, let me let you get back to this Titanic.laugh
yum_yum birmingham, West Midlands, England UK
morgan5: Morning have to say was a bit confused by your original post


Good morning, i hope your having a nice day.

To much hate going on here these days isnt thereroll eyes

not nice when people brand a religion that way , i dont see where people find the gain in upsetting people.

bouquet
morgan5 somewhere sunny , Canarias Spain
yum_yum: Good morning, i hope your having a nice day.

To much hate going on here these days isnt there

not nice when people brand a religion that way , i dont see where people find the gain in upsetting people.
Yep, there is alot of the time by the same people and aimed at the same religion, no wonder there are not many people posting from certain countries.

I'm having a great day thanks, been talking to my daughter and planning UK shopping therapy smitten when i cOME Bck in a couple of weeks laugh
morgan5 somewhere sunny , Canarias Spain
yum_yum: Good morning, i hope your having a nice day.

To much hate going on here these days isnt there

not nice when people brand a religion that way , i dont see where people find the gain in upsetting people.
Yep, there is alot of the time by the same people and aimed at the same religion, no wonder there are not many people posting from certain countries.

I'm having a great day thanks, been talking to my daughter and planning UK shopping therapy smitten when i cOME Bck in a couple of weeks laugh
yum_yum birmingham, West Midlands, England UK
morgan5: Yep, there is alot of the time by the same people and aimed at the same religion, no wonder there are not many people posting from certain countries.

I'm having a great day thanks, been talking to my daughter and planning UK shopping therapy when i cOME Bck in a couple of weeks



oh lovely , i bet you cant waithug
stranger007 elstree, Hertfordshire, England UK



I think with all do respect you have miss understood and been misslead to your currant posted conclusion. The creator hath not nor shant allow something that involves incest.
you need to read up on a topic before you start justifying an idiot act like what that man did with a prophitic act.

I suggest you look up Dr Thomas McElwain's books, you will find some answers about the Divine Entity and what you have been associating thy with.
Don't throw things without bases, and what brought that subject in a Dating Site.
YOu people have been bringing all your poltical debates and religiouse debates right here.
I real wonder what is your agenda here are you promoting hate
or you are just testing the waters for something.
just bare this in mind WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND 10 FOLDS
clear your heart and take a deep breath.
and think about what you have writtin.




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