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AnnBrown oveido, Florida USA

Wed Jul 1, 2009 11:16 AM CST : WTF...???

So, this is a continuation of a previous thread:

A guy I like immensly dumps me three times, then checks out my profile DAILY, then a week goes by and he calls. "What a mistake I made..." We talk/text all day. Make plans for lunch.
He calls the next day, needs to C/A lunch, "can we make it later in the week?"
"Sure," I say.
I text him later in the day, "how are you?".
He replied "I'm at the mall, needed to get out of the house".
I reply "Wish I was there with you".
He replied "No, it's boring."
I reply "You're not boring."
He replied "When I'm entertaining myself I am".
I didn't text again, and I haven't heard from him since(yesterday afternood), but he's check out my profile TWICE daily since!!!
WTF does that mean?????

mbcasey North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA

Wed Jul 1, 2009 11:18 AM CST : WTF...???

He sounds a little flaky.

Lagoona22 Bugibba, Majjistral Malta

Wed Jul 1, 2009 11:19 AM CST : WTF...???

My answer is the same as to your last thread.....dump him.

BOBANBOBAN Pozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia

Wed Jul 1, 2009 11:21 AM CST : WTF...???

OK...that doesent have to mine anything(bad/good)

btw.howold are you...both???

and it wouldent hurt to have a open diccusione with him

make him know where you stand ...see whwere he is standing...

and do you really need a man who cannot make up his minde

JMO........

pubwrite08 District Heights, Maryland USA

Wed Jul 1, 2009 11:22 AM CST : WTF...???

mbcasey: He sounds a little flaky.

I would be afraid of him... a little. He does sound... flaky.

ladyfingers clovis, New Mexico USA

Wed Jul 1, 2009 11:24 AM CST : WTF...???

Why did you give him another chance after he dumped you?

Lagoona22 Bugibba, Majjistral Malta

Wed Jul 1, 2009 11:25 AM CST : WTF...???

Very good question....

ladyfingers: Why did you give him another chance after he dumped you?

rodolpho amsterdam, Noord-Holland Netherlands

Wed Jul 1, 2009 11:28 AM CST : WTF...???

well I wont use words like flaky.

IMO he is downright stuck in a psychosis.
And they are way more dangerous then you can imagine.
Especially the people who look normal on the outside and are psychotic on the inside are the most dangerous.
Ive known a pathological liar for 12 years and they just get more cunning and worse for wear.

If you think my opinion is hard wait till you really get to know the person.

morgan5 somewhere sunny , Canarias Spain

Wed Jul 1, 2009 11:29 AM CST : WTF...???

ladyfingers: Why did you give him another chance after he dumped you?

Sounds to me as if he believes he can do what he likes and you will still be there, thats why he is viewing your profile, to keep you interested.

Possibly he is already in a relationship?

chocolatespice gauteng, Johannesburg South Africa

Wed Jul 1, 2009 11:29 AM CST : WTF...???

AnnBrown: So, this is a continuation of a previous thread:

A guy I like immensly dumps me three times, then checks out my profile DAILY, then a week goes by and he calls. "What a mistake I made..." We talk/text all day. Make plans for lunch.
He calls the next day, needs to C/A lunch, "can we make it later in the week?"
"Sure," I say.
I text him later in the day, "how are you?".
He replied "I'm at the mall, needed to get out of the house".
I reply "Wish I was there with you".
He replied "No, it's boring."
I reply "You're not boring."
He replied "When I'm entertaining myself I am".
I didn't text again, and I haven't heard from him since(yesterday afternood), but he's check out my profile TWICE daily since!!!
WTF does that mean?????

Sounds like he is married and looking for adventure but afraid to follow through.

Polarbutterfly Somewhere, Northwest Territories Canada

Wed Jul 1, 2009 11:30 AM CST : WTF...???

In response to: So, this is a continuation of a previous thread:

A guy I like immensly dumps me three times, then checks out my profile DAILY, then a week goes by and he calls. "What a mistake I made..." We talk/text all day. Make plans for lunch.
He calls the next day, needs to C/A lunch, "can we make it later in the week?"
"Sure," I say.
I text him later in the day, "how are you?".
He replied "I'm at the mall, needed to get out of the house".
I reply "Wish I was there with you".
He replied "No, it's boring."
I reply "You're not boring."
He replied "When I'm entertaining myself I am".
I didn't text again, and I haven't heard from him since(yesterday afternood), but he's check out my profile TWICE daily since!!!
WTF does that mean?????

I think you're being played.

Sommerauer71 Salzburg, Salzburg Austria

Wed Jul 1, 2009 11:31 AM CST : WTF...???

No idea. But here is what I would do! I would ask him.

tainogirl Trincity,West Indies, Trinidad and Tobago

Wed Jul 1, 2009 11:31 AM CST : WTF...???

AnnBrown: So, this is a continuation of a previous thread:

A guy I like immensly dumps me three times, then checks out my profile DAILY, then a week goes by and he calls. "What a mistake I made..." We talk/text all day. Make plans for lunch.
He calls the next day, needs to C/A lunch, "can we make it later in the week?"
"Sure," I say.
I text him later in the day, "how are you?".
He replied "I'm at the mall, needed to get out of the house".
I reply "Wish I was there with you".
He replied "No, it's boring."
I reply "You're not boring."
He replied "When I'm entertaining myself I am".
I didn't text again, and I haven't heard from him since(yesterday afternood), but he's check out my profile TWICE daily since!!!
WTF does that mean?????

Games, games, games - now time to stop playing.

nana_3 colorado springs, Colorado USA

Wed Jul 1, 2009 11:32 AM CST : WTF...???

he sounds to me like someone who cant make up his mind. he keeps looking at your profile in hopes that the next time he looks at it he will have a revelation that will tell him exactly what to do.

Lagoona22 Bugibba, Majjistral Malta

Wed Jul 1, 2009 11:34 AM CST : WTF...???

So what would you do in her situation??..

nana_3: he sounds to me like someone who cant make up his mind. he keeps looking at your profile in hopes that the next time he looks at it he will have a revelation that will tell him exactly what to do.

AnnBrown oveido, Florida USA

Wed Jul 1, 2009 11:39 AM CST : WTF...???

BOBANBOBAN: OK...that doesent have to mine anything(bad/good)

btw.howold are you...both???

and it wouldent hurt to have a open diccusione with him

make him know where you stand ...see whwere he is standing...

and do you really need a man who cannot make up his minde

JMO........

I'm 37 and he's 36. We're four months apart.
This is just such a weird scenerio. Obviously normal people don't behave this way, right? I just can't quite figure out what this wishy-washyness is all about. I mean, if he wants to be with me, what the hell (excuse me) is it?
(Sorry, quite frustrated: really do like him...)
I keep thinking : Ok, if it's fear, I can live with that. I'm patient.
I have asked him what his view of this is, and he shy's away from the question, never quite answering it...

AnnBrown oveido, Florida USA

Wed Jul 1, 2009 11:41 AM CST : WTF...???

nana_3: he sounds to me like someone who cant make up his mind. he keeps looking at your profile in hopes that the next time he looks at it he will have a revelation that will tell him exactly what to do.

Ok, yes. This makes some sense, I think. This I can understand.
Not sure what to do about it, but time will tell...

AnnBrown oveido, Florida USA

Wed Jul 1, 2009 11:43 AM CST : WTF...???

chocolatespice: Sounds like he is married and looking for adventure but afraid to follow through.

I do know enough about him and how he lives to know that he is definately not married. Couldn't say for sure if he was honest that he never has been, though.

Lagoona22 Bugibba, Majjistral Malta

Wed Jul 1, 2009 11:44 AM CST : WTF...???

Dump him.... you will thank me, I promise

AnnBrown: Ok, yes. This makes some sense, I think. This I can understand.
Not sure what to do about it, but time will tell...

bestbefore poole, Dorset, England UK

Wed Jul 1, 2009 11:46 AM CST : WTF...???

AnnBrown: Ok, yes. This makes some sense, I think. This I can understand.
Not sure what to do about it, but time will tell...

Block him from checking you out all the time.That might get a reaction if that's what you want.

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