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For me one of them was "I love you, but i dont love who youve become, and so im leaving you..."

HONEY.......its over.....its not me...its you

The hardest thing I've ever had to say, is to tell one of my friends that his brother was electrocuted to death while we were celebrating my friends birthday.. we all sobered up very quickly, the party was over. I can't even imagine losing my sister, mother or father, where as he lost his brother own his birthday...He had his phone shut off so his brother's girlfriend called me looking for him, and his mother died of cancer about 7 months earlier..

That is not the news I wanted to bring to anyone..

Yes i had to tell my mother and father that my younger brother had died... it wasnt nice at all...

After I had a car accident when i was 18 & nearly killed my best friend , for it was that I needed help.

......Hell....That's rough,real rough .....my deepest condolences Arealguy69......

J.D

Thanks J.D, it was 4 years ago today, but you never forget it...

....I know,and I understand perfectly well on what you mean by 'Never forget it'...I lost a very dear close friend that I had known for over 40 years who committed suicide.....

J.D

In 2007. I was at work at the AFA, about ready to start working on the football field, my boss called me on the radio and said,..call your Mother, your Brother just passed away.

Im sorry to hear that JD , I have from personal experience found it hard when pople who mean well say you should forget & move on, but they sadly dont appreciate what you go through

Wow. Man you guys, I can't believe it. These are all really hard and must have torn our hear(s) out to have to be in that position. I guess I have been pretty luck. The worst I have had to do is let down my boss and my family easy, but never had to say that some one died. Hmmmm....it leave a great thoght to be considered.

......Thanks Mate....The worst part was, he was a great Guy and a great Father....and a true loyal friend.....

J.D

Having to tell my 2 youngest sister's are mother had just passed away,and holding off the corner from taking her away till my sister's and my eldest son and his wife got there was the hardest thing I ever had to do,watching them say good-bye is a image that will never leave my mind.

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J.D

My Brother in law told me face to face that My Brother was Murdered, that was 30 yrs ago and Today July 2nt would have been his 50th Birthday....

I have had to tell that story thruout my whole life , to friens, to bosses in interviews, to you right now, and it didnt stop there , it became as the oj case, in a murder trial, i had to testify, I also had to go to the morgue and identify , when i was 18, now 48, and seems like last week


I must go on

I am so sorry to hear that. I cant even begin to imagine what you have had to go through

It was a life of pure hell, it carried on for 19 yrs befor it went to murder Trial, then I had to Testify as on the oj case..... They even stalked me for many months trying to kill me as i found them out...... One night they caught me, and it was me or him, sad to say, but it was him!

They cornered me , and lets just say he rode in a wheel chair paralized for 19 yrs, until he stood trial , soon after he died from his injurys, trho he was aquited, same as Oj...



This is only 5 minutes of it, I have lived this for 30 yrs, and just before this , My Dad Drowned



still had to walk on

Some things we NEVER forget,I only hope there is bright light in your journey ahead.

Today too would be my mother's birthday!

Me too! He died on holiday in Sri Lanka and it was a nightmare as my sister-in-law was unable to call out to the U.K and the message came from an operator in Colombo.My Father was just recovering from a major heart attack and I had to break this awful news, then deal with the problem of getting his body home.That was 34 years ago but it still hurts to this day.