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Hi Ronnie!

So sorry for your loss...

If this happened very recently then you will still be in shock. That can last an awful long time.

Try not to put a time scale on anything like some might try and tell you do..

It'll happen when you're ready for it. In your own time

hi summer

hey well i geuss ur right time is the only thing will right this... thank u..

Sorry for your loss.All I can say
is,I wish you strength,I wish you
courage during this time.
My prayers are with you as I'm a
parent too.

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Advice would have a hollow tone after so overwhelwing a tradgedy.

"what fails to destroy me,strengthens me."
Nietzche
"that which is within you will save you;that which is stored and hidden"
Gospel of Thomas,the Doubter.

Be brave Ronnieboi,brave and strong.You can do it.Because you have to.There is no other reason.
My good wishes are with you.

So sorry to hear of your sadness.Here in the U.K. there are special groups set up especially to deal with this problem and to counsel the bereaved.There is also C.R.U.S.E for the same purpose. We always think of the Mother in these instances but men hurt just as much and sometimes feel shut out.Have you been able to talk to each other about your grief?

If you can meet others that have been through the same pain it can help to share your experiences.Talk to someone whatever you do don't bottle it all up.

"that which is within you will save you;that which is stored and hidden" now is insightful and meaningfull..made me think...thank u wonder, and every one 4 dere love

hi ron,sorry for your loss
soon u will be okay..

I am sure that there is no greater grief on earth than to lose a child. My heart cries for you. I have no words of advice, but you have my deepest sympathy.

Hurt leads to anger, anger leads to fear, then to process fear you have to find 60 to 100 things you are grateful for , before you get out of bed for at first thirty days. Then you move on to another grateful exercise. With gratefulness you are open to happiness. It is ok to feel. I am so very very sorry for your loss. I am praying for you and your child. I hope you can find peace that you baby is at peace. Peace and Love Heather

Like everyone i am so very sorry for your loss.
My son lost a child recently, i really feel for you
he talks about it when he can other times, he cuts
off and needs to be alone. All i can say is

You are! You are doing that now, with writing it down, that is beginning of the feelings coming to the surface.

I cannot imagine what it is like for you, not in my deepest dreams, but you have definitely made the first move. Welcome to CS and simply by writing it down, you will gain support and other people who have lost children. My very heartfelt thoughts to you.

thanks for the support morgan, im am sadened to here about the loss of ur granchild, i hope ur son finds a way to let it out as i have in cs, thank u

thanks sommerauer

My heart cries with you!!