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mesmerizer Tehran Iran
Sun Jul 5, 2009 1:52 PM CST : The Now
you can't plan love..it just comes one day..It just happens..but just once ..for all of us..but very often we don't even realize it.. to find love you have to be aware of the now..be here and now..not in your analytical mind...the mind is too small to understand it..only the soul does..
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DryKnickers vancouver, British Columbia Canada
Sun Jul 5, 2009 1:54 PM CST : The Now
and then you die...uh oh
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wonderworker cosby, Tennessee USA
Sun Jul 5, 2009 2:16 PM CST : The Now
mesmerizer: you can't plan love..it just comes one day..It just happens..but just once ..for all of us..but very often we don't even realize it.. to find love you have to be aware of the now..be here and now..not in your analytical mind...the mind is too small to understand it..only the soul does..


I'm going to completely,totally disagree.
Of course love is planned.What are we all doing here?Spinning our wheels?We are thoroughly systematic if not down right analytic.
Only once?I've done it at least four times and don't tell me I was mistaken.That is a theory for adolescent school girls.There will be at least one more opportunity arising from my effort.
Allow me to submit that you have thousands of potential soulmates--maybe tens of thousands(and I am nobody's optimist:simple sociology)
The trick is to locate at least one of them during a lifetime.You need not rewrite the past to justify what's yet to come.Why could you not love more than once.Would you condemn a widow to lonliness?
Finally,it is indisputable that The NOW has no duration.
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druidess6308 Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA
Sun Jul 5, 2009 2:17 PM CST : The Now
mesmerizer: you can't plan love..it just comes one day..It just happens..but just once ..for all of us..but very often we don't even realize it.. to find love you have to be aware of the now..be here and now..not in your analytical mind...the mind is too small to understand it..only the soul does..


Exactly. And it hasn't come again yet for me. Last time, it came unsuspecting with someone I had formed a good friendship with, and one day realized I loved. It was the best love of my life, and I hope to have that again some day. wine
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sweetNsoft noblesville, Indiana USA
Sun Jul 5, 2009 2:28 PM CST : The Now
Can love be planned? no I dont believe it can, it is an emotion. However you can meet someone with the intention of loving them.(You know, lookin for love) I dont believe that kind of love is ever really true in a persons heart or soul. I have loved, and lost before. I always meet and fall head over heels in love with people quickly, but unexpectedly. The best kind of love I believe is the kind you stumble onto. My first love, I married and divorced, the second died. The last and sweetest of all I am currently married to. He is my life partner regardless what happens in this life. Living in the now is not a bad thing. It keeps our spirit from being cluttered with all the negativity of emotions from the past. Whenever I have met anyone and fallen in love with them it has always been while I am living in the now.
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mesmerizer Tehran Iran
Sun Jul 5, 2009 2:29 PM CST : The Now
just be present dru , and it will come...
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wonderworker cosby, Tennessee USA
Sun Jul 5, 2009 2:38 PM CST : The Now
sweetNsoft: Can love be planned? no I dont believe it can, it is an emotion. However you can meet someone with the intention of loving them.(You know, lookin for love) I dont believe that kind of love is ever really true in a persons heart or soul. I have loved, and lost before. I always meet and fall head over heels in love with people quickly, but unexpectedly. The best kind of love I believe is the kind you stumble onto. My first love, I married and divorced, the second died. The last and sweetest of all I am currently married to. He is my life partner regardless what happens in this life. Living in the now is not a bad thing. It keeps our spirit from being cluttered with all the negativity of emotions from the past. Whenever I have met anyone and fallen in love with them it has always been while I am living in the now.


NOW just ended...And became NOW.
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