ok lets cut the CRAP

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seekndestroy Seattle, Washington USA

Tue Jul 7, 2009 11:23 AM CST : ok lets cut the CRAP !!!

ok i'm getting tired of everyone's political correctness with this whole attraction/weight issue....

i know we all like reassurance and to feel good about ourselves and that it is not PC to be blunt these days because we are afraid to hurt other's feelings.... so now as soon as the weight issue is brought up in the form of "would you date a large men/woman?" or "what type are you attracted to?" people immediately start giving the PC answer: "well it's all about personality, sure looks are a consideration, but they are nothing without a good personality...or its all about health not size....blah blah blah"

ok people, YOU ARE DIVERTING THE ISSUE AND THUS AVOIDING THE QUESTION!!!!

so let's make this very specific and see who has the set to answer it bluntly!!!

you have the opportunity to date your dream woman/men. we are talking the perfect personality, looks, health, income, job, goals, values, etc etc....

one has no fat whatsoever and the other cant see his/her toes if he/she looks down

again remember, health, sexual performance, personality, goals, values, etc are the SAME for both....ideal !!!

no ifs ands or buts, just a simple thin or fat will suffice

which do you pick?

i'd take thin without a second's hesitation

nuala dublin, Dublin Ireland

Tue Jul 7, 2009 11:26 AM CST : ok lets cut the CRAP !!!

seekndestroy: ok i'm getting tired of everyone's political correctness with this whole attraction/weight issue....

i know we all like reassurance and to feel good about ourselves and that it is not PC to be blunt these days because we are afraid to hurt other's feelings.... so now as soon as the weight issue is brought up in the form of "would you date a large men/woman?" or "what type are you attracted to?" people immediately start giving the PC answer: "well it's all about personality, sure looks are a consideration, but they are nothing without a good personality...or its all about health not size....blah blah blah"

ok people, YOU ARE DIVERTING THE ISSUE AND THUS AVOIDING THE QUESTION!!!!

so let's make this very specific and see who has the set to answer it bluntly!!!

you have the opportunity to date your dream woman/men. we are talking the perfect personality, looks, health, income, job, goals, values, etc etc....

one has no fat whatsoever and the other cant see his/her toes if he/she looks down

again remember, health, sexual performance, personality, goals, values, etc are the SAME for both....ideal !!!

no ifs ands or buts, just a simple thin or fat will suffice

which do you pick?

i'd take thin without a second's hesitation

well what about pleasantly plump......

just joking with ya

tainogirl Trincity,West Indies, Trinidad and Tobago

Tue Jul 7, 2009 11:26 AM CST : ok lets cut the CRAP !!!

seekndestroy: ok i'm getting tired of everyone's political correctness with this whole attraction/weight issue....

i know we all like reassurance and to feel good about ourselves and that it is not PC to be blunt these days because we are afraid to hurt other's feelings.... so now as soon as the weight issue is brought up in the form of "would you date a large men/woman?" or "what type are you attracted to?" people immediately start giving the PC answer: "well it's all about personality, sure looks are a consideration, but they are nothing without a good personality...or its all about health not size....blah blah blah"

ok people, YOU ARE DIVERTING THE ISSUE AND THUS AVOIDING THE QUESTION!!!!

so let's make this very specific and see who has the set to answer it bluntly!!!

you have the opportunity to date your dream woman/men. we are talking the perfect personality, looks, health, income, job, goals, values, etc etc....

one has no fat whatsoever and the other cant see his/her toes if he/she looks down

again remember, health, sexual performance, personality, goals, values, etc are the SAME for both....ideal !!!

no ifs ands or buts, just a simple thin or fat will suffice

which do you pick?

i'd take thin without a second's hesitation

can't get more blunt than that.

Zellarrone1 Hull, Humberside, England UK

Tue Jul 7, 2009 11:26 AM CST : ok lets cut the CRAP !!!

I'd choose the thin one

seekndestroy Seattle, Washington USA

Tue Jul 7, 2009 11:27 AM CST : ok lets cut the CRAP !!!

tainogirl: can't get more blunt than that.

hey that's just how i roll.....

and your answer is????????

or are you chicken !!!!

rodolpho amsterdam, Noord-Holland Netherlands

Tue Jul 7, 2009 11:28 AM CST : ok lets cut the CRAP !!!

I like big tits sooo...

I dont like fuckin a bag of bones

pubwrite08 District Heights, Maryland USA

Tue Jul 7, 2009 11:29 AM CST : ok lets cut the CRAP !!!

See I am confused. Fat people can't do it.... I am just asking do not get mad.

In response to: ok i'm getting tired of everyone's political correctness with this whole attraction/weight issue....

i know we all like reassurance and to feel good about ourselves and that it is not PC to be blunt these days because we are afraid to hurt other's feelings.... so now as soon as the weight issue is brought up in the form of "would you date a large men/woman?" or "what type are you attracted to?" people immediately start giving the PC answer: "well it's all about personality, sure looks are a consideration, but they are nothing without a good personality...or its all about health not size....blah blah blah"

ok people, YOU ARE DIVERTING THE ISSUE AND THUS AVOIDING THE QUESTION!!!!

so let's make this very specific and see who has the set to answer it bluntly!!!

you have the opportunity to date your dream woman/men. we are talking the perfect personality, looks, health, income, job, goals, values, etc etc....

one has no fat whatsoever and the other cant see his/her toes if he/she looks down

again remember, health, sexual performance, personality, goals, values, etc are the SAME for both....ideal !!!

no ifs ands or buts, just a simple thin or fat will suffice

which do you pick?

i'd take thin without a second's hesitation

seekndestroy Seattle, Washington USA

Tue Jul 7, 2009 11:29 AM CST : ok lets cut the CRAP !!!

nuala: well what about pleasantly plump......
just joking with ya

i could be nice and give you that "out" .... but... well that just wouldnt be me... so nope.... just one or the other !!!!

nuala dublin, Dublin Ireland

Tue Jul 7, 2009 11:30 AM CST : ok lets cut the CRAP !!!

rodolpho: I like big tits sooo...

I dont like fuckin a bag of bones

so i take it you would be into a pleasantly plump girl then but have big tits.....

nuala dublin, Dublin Ireland

Tue Jul 7, 2009 11:32 AM CST : ok lets cut the CRAP !!!

seekndestroy: i could be nice and give you that "out" .... but... well that just wouldnt be me... so nope.... just one or the other !!!!

aww well then it your loss and someone else's gain.....

rodolpho amsterdam, Noord-Holland Netherlands

Tue Jul 7, 2009 11:32 AM CST : ok lets cut the CRAP !!!

BTW its much harder for a natural genebased thin person to put on weight then for a fat person to loose weight.

RDM59 Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK

Tue Jul 7, 2009 11:32 AM CST : ok lets cut the CRAP !!!

Hopefully if she looks down and can't see her toes it is because of the size of her boobs and not her belly

My choice is average to slim.

seekndestroy Seattle, Washington USA

Tue Jul 7, 2009 11:32 AM CST : ok lets cut the CRAP !!!

rodolpho: I like big tits sooo...

I dont like fuckin a bag of bones

i didnt say anorexic....lets not read into it.... thin or fat....

thin chicks can have large breasteses too.... ya know ???

tainogirl Trincity,West Indies, Trinidad and Tobago

Tue Jul 7, 2009 11:33 AM CST : ok lets cut the CRAP !!!

seekndestroy: hey that's just how i roll.....

and your answer is????????

or are you chicken !!!!

I'm many thing but I ain't poultry.

There is a range that I can tolerate and would be attracted to. If a man is at the stage where he can't even see his own feet, then no not interested and the same goes for the man whose so thin that his rib cage is meeting his backbone and his hips are a deadly weapon. Hope this helps.

rodolpho amsterdam, Noord-Holland Netherlands

Tue Jul 7, 2009 11:33 AM CST : ok lets cut the CRAP !!!

nuala: so i take it you would be into a pleasantly plump girl then but have big tits.....

well i considered it a givin the fat girl has bigger titties.

Its only fair in his presumption.

mbcasey North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA

Tue Jul 7, 2009 11:34 AM CST : ok lets cut the CRAP !!!

I have gained weight and lost weight all my life. I have even spoken to this subject many times before. I would date a heavier person if they tried to take the weight off.

It's all about self esteem. I can't date someone who makes excuses why they can't lose weight. They seek comfort in food because of a low self esteem and/or other issues.

I am in the same boat...I have gained some weight this past year and I would make excuses for a while. But it only hurt one person....me. I am now back on a diet and exercise program to lose the weight I gained.

So I would date a heavy person if they had the willingness to lose weight and were actually trying to.

rodolpho amsterdam, Noord-Holland Netherlands

Tue Jul 7, 2009 11:34 AM CST : ok lets cut the CRAP !!!

seekndestroy: i didnt say anorexic....lets not read into it.... thin or fat....

thin chicks can have large breasteses too.... ya know ???

Yes its called plastic surgery.

funkydelly Kilkenny, Kilkenny Ireland

Tue Jul 7, 2009 11:35 AM CST : ok lets cut the CRAP !!!

seekndestroy: hey that's just how i roll.....

and your answer is????????

or are you chicken !!!!

oh my god i've actually met somebody who I can just be rude too because he is so rude. . People come in all shapes and sizes, colours and creed, you'd want to get down off you high moral horse and realise not everybody will fit into your little box of perfect and maybe you should realise your far from perfect maybe you have no weight issues but you must have problems trying to think wit such a narrow mind. . .

The13thWarrior bath, Somerset, England UK

Tue Jul 7, 2009 11:36 AM CST : ok lets cut the CRAP !!!

nuala: well what about pleasantly plump......
just joking with ya

My girlfriend is a lot more than pleasantly plump.. And i think she's a knockout!

cameraman St. Petersburg, Florida USA

Tue Jul 7, 2009 11:36 AM CST : ok lets cut the CRAP !!!

seekndestroy: ok i'm getting tired of everyone's political correctness with this whole attraction/weight issue....

i know we all like reassurance and to feel good about ourselves and that it is not PC to be blunt these days because we are afraid to hurt other's feelings.... so now as soon as the weight issue is brought up in the form of "would you date a large men/woman?" or "what type are you attracted to?" people immediately start giving the PC answer: "well it's all about personality, sure looks are a consideration, but they are nothing without a good personality...or its all about health not size....blah blah blah"

ok people, YOU ARE DIVERTING THE ISSUE AND THUS AVOIDING THE QUESTION!!!!

so let's make this very specific and see who has the set to answer it bluntly!!!

you have the opportunity to date your dream woman/men. we are talking the perfect personality, looks, health, income, job, goals, values, etc etc....

one has no fat whatsoever and the other cant see his/her toes if he/she looks down

again remember, health, sexual performance, personality, goals, values, etc are the SAME for both....ideal !!!

no ifs ands or buts, just a simple thin or fat will suffice

which do you pick?

i'd take thin without a second's hesitation

Amen brother

... Ohhh... I pick one that does not weigh more than me

... Ok... Ok... I choose thin

...

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