Sparky6420: So let's see fat people (which include me) are totally devoid of anything of value? What about ugly people or stupid people? Personally, I am not attracted to anyone who has an IQ of let's say under 120. We all have our prejudices and that one is mine. Looks are great but I want a partnership, not a pretty to hang on my wall. I want to be able to converse with someone, and yes, there has to be attraction but thin isn't always what attracts me first. Wait, before you say that is because you are fat. I have been thin before, and it still wan't my first criteria.
I am glad that my post at least made you think about the issue which was my real goal in posting. I wanted to see what kind of responses I would get by posting, and I was feeling a lack of self-esteem. But I was angry at some of the posts I saw (like this one) declaring people who have some weight as worthless. I could care less if someone who hates fat people doesn't want to date me. Actually, most of the people I have seen who are against fat people are not good looking or that thin.
I guess I just like people who swim in the deep end of the pool rather than the shallow.
i have never said and will never say that larger people are any less or any worse than thin people.... furthermore in my experience i've met more larger ladies that had compatible personalities with mine than thin ones, whom, in my experience have most of the time turned out to be snotty and stuck up.... again not all but the majority in MY experience....
but this thread is not about personality it is about looks alone (and particularly size). unfortunately for me i am not physically attracted to larger sized women, but lets not misconstrue that with wanting a supermodel (not that i would turn one down if she had the personality to go along with her looks), i have a certain degree of latitude, but overall i like them on the thinner side....
it is what it is...and if that makes me shallow, then so be it... i'm sure i'll live !!!!
