Saying "I love you"....

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Ocee35 Jackson, Michigan USA
druidess6308: Thank you, Ocee...and how interesting. I do appreciate your honesty, and your post also shows you know yourself well and have given this thought. And that last part just cracked me up. I'll bet I could win a dominance match with you with kisses...but then, I'm in group A as a female.



Yes you are, and some fights are fun to lose.

bouquet
druidess6308 Reverse, Pennsylvania USA


Ah, but that's romantic love, LF! Awesome song, though. hug

Love ya! bouquet
druidess6308 Reverse, Pennsylvania USA
Ocee35: Yes you are, and some fights are fun to lose.


Hmmm...true, even for an alpha female like me. rolling on the floor laughing

Love ya, Ocee. Oh...and just for you...teddybear (I've never forgotten your thread when I was new. wink laugh )
ladyfingers clovis, New Mexico USA
druidess6308: Ah, but that's romantic love, LF! Awesome song, though.

Love ya!


I know. I just wanted to throw that in.

Really, I say I love you to my friends...I've heard a few guys say "love you, man" but they act so embarrassed.
druidess6308 Reverse, Pennsylvania USA
ladyfingers: I know. I just wanted to throw that in.

Really, I say I love you to my friends...I've heard a few guys say "love you, man" but they act so embarrassed.


Yeah...and do that punch in the arm thing, too. laugh It's pretty rare around here, even when they're drunk.



pebblesbamban Pennsylvania, Pennsylvania USA


Oh!! my..... Dean Martin..... smitten heart wings heart beating His voice very Romantic....
Thanks girl....cool
sxc666 Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
druidess6308: A thought occurred to me just a couple of minutes ago as I told a friend of mine that I love her...why is it okay for women to tell their female friends that we love each other, but men feel weird telling their male friends that they love them? They can say it to their female friends, but feel that they'll be perceived as "gay" if they say it to their male friends.

Is it only in the US, or is it a world-wide thing? I know European men kiss each other on the cheeks, just as they do the women...but do you tell your male friends that you love them?
I think as women we are naturally cuddly, kissie. We constantly see women who will touch each other give each other a kiss. You rarely see men do that. I think men have the 'macho' image.


And in all honesty if my partner walked up and kissed his best mate I would find that full of gayness.......I cant really answer the question as to what the difference is though.
cameraman St. Petersburg, Florida USA
druidess6308: A thought occurred to me just a couple of minutes ago as I told a friend of mine that I love her...why is it okay for women to tell their female friends that we love each other, but men feel weird telling their male friends that they love them? They can say it to their female friends, but feel that they'll be perceived as "gay" if they say it to their male friends.

Is it only in the US, or is it a world-wide thing? I know European men kiss each other on the cheeks, just as they do the women...but do you tell your male friends that you love them?


Ohhh this is easy yay ...

With male friend I say... "Hey dude" then we give the handshake when we meet... "Later dude" then we give the handshake when we leave handshake ...

With male family I say... "Hi" then we give a one armed side hug when we meet... "Take care" then we give a one armed side hug when we leave hug ...
druidess6308 Reverse, Pennsylvania USA
cameraman: Ohhh this is easy ...

With male friend I say... "Hey dude" then we give the handshake when we meet... "Later dude" then we give the handshake when we leave ...

With male family I say... "Hi" then we give a one armed side hug when we meet... "Take care" then we give a one armed side hug when we leave ...


So for you, it's friend vs. family that determines it. Hmmm. So there are differences culturally in the US, and it makes me wonder how much of that is geographical and how much again harks back to ancestry.
jeepers Cowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)
One of my junior high school teachers has sent me three email over the years telling how special I was and he loves me... OMG. That just ain't right I think... uh oh
druidess6308 Reverse, Pennsylvania USA
sxc666: I think as women we are naturally cuddly, kissie. We constantly see women who will touch each other give each other a kiss. You rarely see men do that. I think men have the 'macho' image.And in all honesty if my partner walked up and kissed his best mate I would find that full of gayness.......I cant really answer the question as to what the difference is though.


You just made a good point for differences in parts of the UK, or is Australia not considered part of the UK any more, Tina? And it's a country composed of mostly British ancestry, and yet has broken away from that in the ability for more physical closeness and signs of affection.

See...this is fascinating to me. And yes, I think women are more affectionate overall...and yet, men have just as much ability to be tender as women. Again, it's my belief that culture plays a big part in that. As Riz pointed out with the differences between his home country of England and his current country he's visiting of Italy.

Are the men in Italy less macho than those in England or Australia? And in Australia, how much of that "macho" thing stems from survival in places like the Outback, or just even the types of men who were originally sent to inhabit the country?
druidess6308 Reverse, Pennsylvania USA
jeepers: One of my junior high school teachers has sent me three email over the years telling how special I was and he loves me... OMG. That just ain't right I think...
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing Not if you mean from Texas, my friend. And I'll refrain from a saying I heard in the Army that got military personnel banned from at least one bar in El Paso. wink
jeepers Cowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)
druidess6308: Not if you mean from Texas, my friend. And I'll refrain from a saying I heard in the Army that got military personnel banned from at least one bar in El Paso.
That's the same guy, he move to my home town which is just down I-10 from El Paso !! It's your fault !! frustrated

Just kidding Dru rolling on the floor laughing
sxc666 Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
druidess6308: You just made a good point for differences in parts of the UK, or is Australia not considered part of the UK any more, Tina? And it's a country composed of mostly British ancestry, and yet has broken away from that in the ability for more physical closeness and signs of affection.

See...this is fascinating to me. And yes, I think women are more affectionate overall...and yet, men have just as much ability to be tender as women. Again, it's my belief that culture plays a big part in that. As Riz pointed out with the differences between his home country of England and his current country he's visiting of Italy.

Are the men in Italy less macho than those in England or Australia? And in Australia, how much of that "macho" thing stems from survival in places like the Outback, or just even the types of men who were originally sent to inhabit the country?
Cant really answer Dru. Different cultures just seem to be accepted, like watching men kiss cheek to cheek on a movie is acceptable, but if you seen two Aussie blokes kissing cheek to cheek you would be checking for their skirts......

It is a fascinating subject though and a topic I have though about in the past. Does it have to do with individual cultures upbringing. In Australia you don't raise you boys to kiss other boys and that is just the way it is.
druidess6308 Reverse, Pennsylvania USA
sxc666: Cant really answer Dru. Different cultures just seem to be accepted, like watching men kiss cheek to cheek on a movie is acceptable, but if you seen two Aussie blokes kissing cheek to cheek you would be checking for their skirts......

It is a fascinating subject though and a topic I have though about in the past. Does it have to do with individual cultures upbringing. In Australia you don't raise you boys to kiss other boys and that is just the way it is.


Same here in most of the US, and yet there are too many cultural differences in this country because of being a melting pot. Which is why I wanted to post this where I could discover the differences in an international forum. And it's been very educational. I've loved it so far. I hope it continues overnight (for me) as different parts of the world come online.

Nice to know I'm not alone in wondering about this, and my fascination with how our culture shapes us in different areas. We can celebrate our common ground, and yet also celebrate our differences, and still all get along. wine
druidess6308 Reverse, Pennsylvania USA
jeepers: That's the same guy, he move to my home town which is just down I-10 from El Paso !! It's your fault !!

Just kidding Dru


I wasn't the one who said it...military personnel were already banned before I went there to visit my buddies. rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing tongue
HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA
druidess6308: A thought occurred to me just a couple of minutes ago as I told a friend of mine that I love her...why is it okay for women to tell their female friends that we love each other, but men feel weird telling their male friends that they love them? They can say it to their female friends, but feel that they'll be perceived as "gay" if they say it to their male friends.

Is it only in the US, or is it a world-wide thing? I know European men kiss each other on the cheeks, just as they do the women...but do you tell your male friends that you love them?


I have some very close male friends, we frequently say those exact words to each other..dunno

Love is such a wonderful thing when one finds out what it REALLY is..grin
jeepers Cowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)
druidess6308: I wasn't the one who said it...military personnel were already banned before I went there to visit my buddies.
buddies ? careful now. tongue only one around these parts cowboy
druidess6308 Reverse, Pennsylvania USA
HJFinAZ: I have some very close male friends, we frequently say those exact words to each other..

Love is such a wonderful thing when one finds out what it REALLY is..


Yes, Pat...and bless you and your male friends for being able to express that to each other without feeling threatened or emasculated. hug bouquet
druidess6308 Reverse, Pennsylvania USA
jeepers: buddies ? careful now. only one around these parts
Sorry, Buddy. hug comfort laugh




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