Corey323: Ok so I started dating again, I met someone from another website. She is pretty cool and a little attractive but she explained to me before we met that she currently had a boyfriend but i met her anyway. I had some interest in her especially after we had sex on the first date. But 2 days later I find out she is actually living with this guy. She fell in love with me right away and I said some things I didnt mean to say like we made promises. Anyway one night I came all the way up to her friends house. All a sudden she gets a phone call her friend needs help with his truck she leaves right away not taking anybody with to help including me. So she comes back an hour later sits down gives me a cheezy story why she has to go home. Is it just me or does that sound messed up? So on my hour drive home I decide to call this other girl Sam from the same website. To make things clear I had no intention of meeting Sam, I really liked Steph.
So me and Sam talked to hours after I been ditched and she made me feel so much better. So I met her a week later and fell in love with her. So the next day I told Steph im breaking up with her. She begged and pleaded for days to give her a second chance. She was so messed up I felt bad so I told her I would meet her as friends so we did. After I heard Stephs apology I gave in, I gave her another chance. Then I broke up with her again the next day, I felt like I murdered her.
So I expained to her that I want to date Sam and hang out with her at the same time, if she doesnt like it then walk away. So she is cool with it we hung out 3 times after that. We didnt do anything besides makeout but the last time we didnt even do that cause I care about Sam.
I know what im doing isnt right cause im lying to Sam cause I told Sam I didnt want nothing to do with Steph. If I tell Sam she wont talk to me anymore. If I dont I have to live with that lie if we go any further. Anybody got anything to say about this? cause my head is in a damn knot just thinking about it. I would most appreciate it.
Simple case of wanting your cake and eating it.
Which is the most void saying ever, as what's the point of having cake if ya ain't going to eat it.
Dump the girl who cheated on the guy, to bump pelvises with you.
Continue with the girl who seems sound enough, although to be honest she deserves A LOT more from you.
But judge not less ye be judged.
However, you're fucking around and from someone who knows ALL about making bad decisions, no good will come of it.
So you have three options, you can keep on being an indecisive ass and string both along, you can choose one, or you can ditch both.
My advice, choose one.