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tgwstw Cork, Cork Ireland
Corey323: I gotta see first if Sam is who she says she is or else I might make a mistake. I dont have proof anybody is cheating if yah only knew the situation that could take days. I go for girls that are less attractive to me but not ugly if you know what I mean. That way they are more attached to me and do anything I know it sounds fucked up but im really not that bad of a guy I swear.

You're insecure.
You'll grow out of it but honestly, you aren't behaving as well as you should.
You seem to be holding out to someone just for the sake of it, to see what way the shit hits the fan.
Not fair and I unfortunately, promise you that the way you're going, it's all going to go boobs up anyway.
Not favorably either.



seekndestroy Seattle, Washington USA
Corey323: I know I be the pig, one thing though is it cheating if you just hang out with no sex but yet sleeping in the same bed?



i actually have a different word for that....


but its too early, just woke up and im not quite ready for the lynching yet !!!

MCP

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Corey323 Kunkletown, Pennsylvania USA
im agreeing with yah bro its gonna stop my bad intentions i



COSMICDUST Newark, Delaware USA
You haven't met your true woman,yet, so while having something to keep busy, keep looking for the right one. She's definitely there, but if you waste all your energy with these two, you won't fine her. cheers
sxc666 Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
What a load of horse shit.



seekndestroy Seattle, Washington USA
FreshFilly: You are young and experiencing life. Sex is not love, it is sex which is ok between two consenting adults but when You are feeling these emotions of rejection from one it can exacerbate if You are not in control of Yourself and Your own emotions. You are not responsible for anothers feelings.
Best of luck



but what if you really really really love sex?????


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MCP
azucarmorena Atlanta, Georgia USA
sxc666: What a load of horse shit.


Horse shit decorated bull plop!
Corey323 Kunkletown, Pennsylvania USA
Im not saying I wouldnt be pissed. I have to deal with that at this time with Steph so I know it doesnt feel good
jvaski south lake tahoe, California USA
virgiomonkey: ...........Hmmmmmmm......Just seems to me like a 'Big can of Worms' caused by immaturity.......by all parties concerned....There is a Dutch saying....'He who burns his Bum,as to sit on the Blisters'....Stop been a Wimp and front up,be a 'Man'....be honest....if there is fall out because of your actions....again be a 'Man'....take it and suck it up....and learn from your mistakes and move on.....

J.D


Yea YEA !!, And get a job !! scold uh oh



seekndestroy Seattle, Washington USA
sxc666: What a load of horse shit.



and finally !!! someone that actually gets it....


dude you are young.... get out there, have fun, create memories and good times, bake the cake AND eat it if you can .... just dont forget that every action has a consequence so dont do anything stupid.....


....and some day you may meet the one that you want to spend the rest of your life with, you'll date and soon you'll set a date for the funeral...

at that time you'll have plenty of time to be miserable and regret ever meeting her in the first place... but if you create some good memories, at least you wont regret giving up your freedom before having enjoyed it first !!!!

BTW im not bitter or anything !!!!


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jvaski south lake tahoe, California USA
azucarmorena: Horse shit decorated bull plop!

Horse shit decorated with bull plop - with skunk pee pee on top !
sxc666 Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
seekndestroy: and finally !!! someone that actually gets it....dude you are young.... get out there, have fun, create memories and good times, bake the cake AND eat it if you can .... just dont forget that every action has a consequence so dont do anything stupid.........and some day you may meet the one that you want to spend the rest of your life with, you'll date and soon you'll set a date for the funeral...

at that time you'll have plenty of time to be miserable and regret ever meeting her in the first place... but if you create some good memories, at least you wont regret giving up your freedom before having enjoyed it first !!!!

BTW im not bitter or anything !!!!
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seekndestroy Seattle, Washington USA
sxc666: snort,snort



well i figure i'd throw the disclaimer in there just in case there is someone out there... yes there are always a couple of slow ones!!..... who needed the clarification

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SensualVixen Tampa Bay area, Florida USA
Wow, and I thought I had problems deciding which soap opera to watch today..........
thewall2 montreal, Quebec Canada
Corey323: Ok so I started dating again, I met someone from another website. She is pretty cool and a little attractive but she explained to me before we met that she currently had a boyfriend but i met her anyway. I had some interest in her especially after we had sex on the first date. But 2 days later I find out she is actually living with this guy. She fell in love with me right away and I said some things I didnt mean to say like we made promises. Anyway one night I came all the way up to her friends house. All a sudden she gets a phone call her friend needs help with his truck she leaves right away not taking anybody with to help including me. So she comes back an hour later sits down gives me a cheezy story why she has to go home. Is it just me or does that sound messed up? So on my hour drive home I decide to call this other girl Sam from the same website. To make things clear I had no intention of meeting Sam, I really liked Steph.
So me and Sam talked to hours after I been ditched and she made me feel so much better. So I met her a week later and fell in love with her. So the next day I told Steph im breaking up with her. She begged and pleaded for days to give her a second chance. She was so messed up I felt bad so I told her I would meet her as friends so we did. After I heard Stephs apology I gave in, I gave her another chance. Then I broke up with her again the next day, I felt like I murdered her.
So I expained to her that I want to date Sam and hang out with her at the same time, if she doesnt like it then walk away. So she is cool with it we hung out 3 times after that. We didnt do anything besides makeout but the last time we didnt even do that cause I care about Sam.
I know what im doing isnt right cause im lying to Sam cause I told Sam I didnt want nothing to do with Steph. If I tell Sam she wont talk to me anymore. If I dont I have to live with that lie if we go any further. Anybody got anything to say about this? cause my head is in a damn knot just thinking about it. I would most appreciate it.
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COSMICDUST Newark, Delaware USA
SensualVixen: Wow, and I thought I had problems deciding which soap opera to watch today..........

I BELIEVE YOU.
Darkhorseman Gympie, Queensland Australia
Corey323: Ok so I started dating again, ... blah blah blah ... she explained to me before we met that she currently had a boyfriend but i met her anyway. ... blah blah blah ... I had some interest in her especially after we had sex on the first date. ...

WOW! So she's playing hard to get! ...
Corey323: blah blah blah ... But 2 days later I find out she is actually living with this guy.

Wow, playing hard to get with TWO guys! She's playing doubles ... ALL by herself.
Corey323: She fell in love with me right away ...

Seriously, did you get to check her age? ASk to compare your drivers license or something. I mean his goes WAYYYYYy beyond STD risk. You could end up in jail.
Corey323: and I said some things I didnt mean to say like we made promises.

Heydunno we all do that, Girls and Boys.
Corey323: Anyway one night I came all the way up to her friends house. All a sudden she gets a phone call her friend needs help with his truck she leaves right away not taking anybody with to help including me. So she comes back an hour later sits down gives me a cheezy story why she has to go home.

WHAT A GIRL! She's playing TRIPLES ... If only you could set her up on a tennis court against the Williams sisters.
Darkhorseman Gympie, Queensland Australia
Corey323: Is it just me or does that sound messed up?.

Feel the Force flow through you young Luke. You kow the truth.
Corey323: So on my hour drive home I decide to call this other girl Sam from the same website.?.

Well ... at least you didn't go home and cry about it to your mom.
Corey323: To make things clear I had no intention of meeting Sam,

Of COURSE you didn't. A revenge bonk couldn't have been further from your mind. You're too pure of soul for that.
Corey323: I really liked Steph.

Of course you did! Who wouldn't like their girlfriend who stuck by you for all of one day and then went out and "helped a friend with their truck" ... after all I suppose she is a qualified mechanic. You didn't kiss her on the mouth before she left did you?
Corey323: So me and Sam talked to hours after I been ditched and she made me feel so much better. So I met her a week later and fell in love with her.

Wow! You guys are suited aren't you. Rapid fire Lurve Machines, that's what you are. You are slower when it comes to sex though aren't you? I mean it's not like, "Lie DOWN, I think I love you!" two seconds of fumbling and a quick push ... SPLOOT (Sound of an explosion in a porridge factory) ... wanna a smoke?
Corey323: So the next day I told Steph im breaking up with her. She begged and pleaded for days to give her a second chance.
Yeah, well she was going to have to go back to doubles or singles. I mean there is nothing more powerful that a bull markket.
Corey323: She was so messed up I felt bad so I told her I would meet her as friends so we did.

YOU STUD! You had her BEGGIN' for it. You win.
Corey323: After I heard Stephs apology I gave in, I gave her another chance.

Uh OH! She wins, you're gonna be begging for it.
Corey323: Then I broke up with her again the next day.

Oh no, you win again.
Corey323: I felt like I murdered her.

Since you brought murder up ... If you see her behind the wheel of a car, you know not to cross the street ... don't you?
Corey323: So I expained to her that I want to date Sam and hang out with her at the same time, if she doesnt like it then walk away. So she is cool with it we hung out 3 times after that. We didnt do anything besides makeout

Now I thought you knew not to kiss this girl on the mouth. Haven't you wondered WHY it tastes salty?
Corey323: but the last time we didnt even do that cause I care about Sam.
And your care for Sam is SOOOOoooo obvious!
Corey323: I know what im doing isnt right cause im lying to Sam
YOU THINK?
Corey323: cause I told Sam ... blah blah blah ... cause my head is in a damn knot just thinking about it. I would most appreciate it.


Two options -
1. Go on Jerry Springer. They love you people.
2. Call Dr Phil ... on second thoughts, don't call Dr Phil. Why burden him.
Alternate 2. Give the poor girl that is counting on you ... Sam I think it is ... half a chance at a happy life by not seeing her anymore.



seekndestroy Seattle, Washington USA
SensualVixen: Wow, and I thought I had problems deciding which soap opera to watch today..........



i find it hard to believe that you, of all people, would be shocked in the slightest about that...

just a hunch...

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SensualVixen Tampa Bay area, Florida USA
seekndestroy: i find it hard to believe that you, of all people, would be shocked in the slightest about that...

just a hunch...


I am befunked, befickled, and bewildered.....head banger




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