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Honestly,with most girlfriends I've had,they've always made the first move.

I dont have any problem with being asked out.
As far as agressive goes, it depends on what you mean by agressive. If you mean growling and snaping, its no good. If you mean a woman taking the inishitive, great

Why Thumper why! growling and snapping

If a woman like me and ask me out I don't see anything wrong with thatI love a woman who speaks her mind and is will to take a chance and emails and flowers I don't get man of those

No I don't mind it at all. Sometimes men don't get the signals and can't see the forest for the trees. It is also nice to know what someone want's without wasting time beating around the bush.

When is a woman's aggressiveness to much? When a man can not be spontaneous and think for himself and show what he wants and is not given the chance to make the first move.

It's all good when a woman makes the first move but an over aggressive stalker is to much

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I don't mind because that is exactly how I get a date ... On weekends I get into my diguise and go to either a bar, night club, strip club and just hang out drinking beer and after awhile a woman would come up to me and ask me to buy her a drink and BAM I got me a date ... So far no luck online though ...

Hi WALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLS good to se you buddy

There is a certain sexiness from a woman that is certain enough of herself to make the first move. But there is a great difference between being assertive and being agressive.

Likewise

I have known women to growl curses at me and try to snap my head off. I make a serious attempt to stay away from that kind.

hi Des did you get picked up by a woman yet

Hi Buddy great seeing you
No luck with the women But I keep the dream alive.

Assertive is the word I like also. I would love for a lady to ask me out.

That's what I SAY DES....let the women work a little....let them hussle a bit.

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1. Hell no, I would feel it was a compliment.

2. Why do so many think it is up to the man to make the first move?

What the hell, it ain't 1920.

3. My wife that passed away sent me flowers at my office frequently. I had a staff of 21 men and 6 women. The guys used to rib me about it, I simply told them to eat their hearts out. The gals working for me all thought it was great and they started sending their hubbies flowers..

Just because a woman makes the first move, does NOT make her aggressive. Assertive maybe but in no way aggressive..

Personally, I think we need more "assertive" women.