Ladies Would you date a guy who is unemployed

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Charli15695 Dallas, Texas USA

Thu Jul 9, 2009 8:15 AM CST : Ladies....Would you date a guy who is unemployed?

In this recession - 70% of the people who have lost their jobs are male ... I was wondering how the ladies here would feel about dating a man who is unemployed - perhaps has been for several months - thumps up

or thumbs down

....? And for the men...if you are unemployed - would you keep pursuing dates - what would you do to spend less on a date - would you consider letting the woman pay for the day? or would you get creative and look for free/cheap things to do?

pebblesbamban Pennsylvania, Pennsylvania USA

Thu Jul 9, 2009 8:17 AM CST : Ladies....Would you date a guy who is unemployed?

The 50' and up... I take care... only....

Who next....?....

nfowler nowhere, Washington USA

Thu Jul 9, 2009 8:17 AM CST : Ladies....Would you date a guy who is unemployed?

I just post jibberish on forums

pretty79 Frederiksberg, Frederiksberg Denmark

Thu Jul 9, 2009 8:18 AM CST : Ladies....Would you date a guy who is unemployed?

Charli15695: In this recession - 70% of the people who have lost their jobs are male ... I was wondering how the ladies here would feel about dating a man who is unemployed - perhaps has been for several months - thumps up or thumbs down ....? And for the men...if you are unemployed - would you keep pursuing dates - what would you do to spend less on a date - would you consider letting the woman pay for the day? or would you get creative and look for free/cheap things to do?

Polarbutterfly Somewhere, Northwest Territories Canada

Thu Jul 9, 2009 8:22 AM CST : Ladies....Would you date a guy who is unemployed?

Yes,I would.I don't see it being a problem
if he's unemployed.It doesn't make him
less of a man being unemployed,now does it?

In response to: In this recession - 70% of the people who have lost their jobs are male ... I was wondering how the ladies here would feel about dating a man who is unemployed - perhaps has been for several months - thumps up or thumbs down ....? And for the men...if you are unemployed - would you keep pursuing dates - what would you do to spend less on a date - would you consider letting the woman pay for the day? or would you get creative and look for free/cheap things to do?

SensualVixen Tampa Bay area, Florida USA

Thu Jul 9, 2009 8:23 AM CST : Ladies....Would you date a guy who is unemployed?

Most who are unemployed are collecting unemployment, in the US, while they search for another job, so it would not bother me as long as he can pay his portion of the bills and his prior commitments if the dating turned into a relationship.

If he can not go at least Dutch Treat on a date, then no I would not be interested. Not interested in paying his way, if I was dating.......

nfowler nowhere, Washington USA

Thu Jul 9, 2009 8:24 AM CST : Ladies....Would you date a guy who is unemployed?

Polarbutterfly: Yes,I would.I don't see it being a problem
if he's unemployed.It doesn't make him
less of a man being unemployed,now does it?

WOW!!!!! I can see your mail box getting full really quick

ContraryCol crawley, West Sussex, England UK

Thu Jul 9, 2009 8:24 AM CST : Ladies....Would you date a guy who is unemployed?

I can't imagine many people wanting to get involved with a man who can not provide the basic means to woo and enjoy fun times at the very least with a new partner?
But it reminds me to get out of the office and help out!!

Does being a lazy ass at work matter?

Polarbutterfly Somewhere, Northwest Territories Canada

Thu Jul 9, 2009 8:26 AM CST : Ladies....Would you date a guy who is unemployed?

nfowler: WOW!!!!! I can see your mail box getting full really quick

Big_John Ocean Springs, Mississippi USA

Thu Jul 9, 2009 8:30 AM CST : Ladies....Would you date a guy who is unemployed?

I haven't worked in three years and don't plan on ever getting another job!

wolyrra Riga, Riga Latvia

Thu Jul 9, 2009 8:31 AM CST : Ladies....Would you date a guy who is unemployed?

Can't answer thumb up or down. It's reality and life is continuing all the same...

For me the main point would be how this man manages the situation. Whether he see it as opportunity or defeat and how he copes with this grief.

Though I haven't confidence dating will be the priority for unemployed man. I have such an experience in the real life.

Charli15695 Dallas, Texas USA

Thu Jul 9, 2009 8:33 AM CST : Ladies....Would you date a guy who is unemployed?

I agree with PB - it doesn't make him less of a man to be unemployed. I would most definitely date a man who is between jobs and do my part to come up with some creative ways to enjoy his company with/without spending money.

nfowler nowhere, Washington USA

Thu Jul 9, 2009 8:35 AM CST : Ladies....Would you date a guy who is unemployed?

Charli15695: I agree with PB - it doesn't make him less of a man to be unemployed. I would most definitely date a man who is between jobs and do my part to come up with some creative ways to enjoy his company with/without spending money.

oooooo.....I hear skinny dipping

Polarbutterfly Somewhere, Northwest Territories Canada

Thu Jul 9, 2009 8:37 AM CST : Ladies....Would you date a guy who is unemployed?

Charli15695: I agree with PB - it doesn't make him less of a man to be unemployed. I would most definitely date a man who is between jobs and do my part to come up with some creative ways to enjoy his company with/without spending money.

I got that figured out.

Charli15695 Dallas, Texas USA

Thu Jul 9, 2009 8:37 AM CST : Ladies....Would you date a guy who is unemployed?

nfowler: oooooo.....I hear skinny dipping

Now there's some creativity in action!

hathor Basel, Basel-Town Switzerland

Thu Jul 9, 2009 8:38 AM CST : Ladies....Would you date a guy who is unemployed?

Charli15695: In this recession - 70% of the people who have lost their jobs are male ... I was wondering how the ladies here would feel about dating a man who is unemployed - perhaps has been for several months - thumps up or thumbs down ....? And for the men...if you are unemployed - would you keep pursuing dates - what would you do to spend less on a date - would you consider letting the woman pay for the day? or would you get creative and look for free/cheap things to do?

Now that I am out of work - waiting for the next contract - I have time for dating.

During the boom, there was little time to find a partner.

So yes, I keep on looking, but not on this website.

Laura25 Somewhere, New York USA

Thu Jul 9, 2009 8:54 AM CST : Ladies....Would you date a guy who is unemployed?

Charli15695: In this recession - 70% of the people who have lost their jobs are male ... I was wondering how the ladies here would feel about dating a man who is unemployed - perhaps has been for several months - thumps up or thumbs down ....? And for the men...if you are unemployed - would you keep pursuing dates - what would you do to spend less on a date - would you consider letting the woman pay for the day? or would you get creative and look for free/cheap things to do?

Not a yes/no question.

It depends on a person and situation.

HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA

Thu Jul 9, 2009 9:51 AM CST : Ladies....Would you date a guy who is unemployed?

Charli15695: In this recession - 70% of the people who have lost their jobs are male ... I was wondering how the ladies here would feel about dating a man who is unemployed - perhaps has been for several months - thumps up or thumbs down ....? And for the men...if you are unemployed - would you keep pursuing dates - what would you do to spend less on a date - would you consider letting the woman pay for the day? or would you get creative and look for free/cheap things to do?

I am retired..

I want a woman that has a good job and makes lots of money.

My job is to sit at home eating Bon Bons, watching Judge Judy, Days of our Lives, Oprah, Dr. Phil, etc.

ANd yes, I do think a womans place is in the home. Straight home from work

HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA

Thu Jul 9, 2009 9:53 AM CST : Ladies....Would you date a guy who is unemployed?

And she had damn well better make enough to buy me that new Mercedes SUV to drive to the store to buy more Bon Bons!!

Snuggs09 Livingston, New Jersey USA

Thu Jul 9, 2009 9:55 AM CST : Ladies....Would you date a guy who is unemployed?

Laura25: Not a yes/no question.

It depends on a person and situation.

I agree with Laura that it depends on the person and why they lost their job. But in all truth, if he or she loses their job I don't think it's the time to be looking for someone to get involved with. If they were just looking for sex, that's another story, but it they want a longterm relationship, I don't think it's smart to look for a partner when you're out of work.

Perhaps this answers the question from yesterday...which comes first. Wisdom or knowledge.

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