jvaski: Sweetowen..... I think it depends on what you encourage as a woman . If you come-off as wanting respectful sex the guy probably will remain low-key. If you put on the latex gloves - it's usually a strong signal you want to get nasty ..
You might have a point. However, I don't think I change that drastically each time I'm out. I always try to be me. Maybe it's in the man's perception. Some see me as attractive & the type of woman they'd like to get to know & others look & get bedroom eyes. Not trying to sound weird or anything, just trying to figure this all out.
But what I'd like is a man who treats me with the utmost respect, will wait until we get to know each other to take it too far, but when we do, will hold nothing back.