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Daisy Chick you are SPOT ON !! CHICKEN SPOT !!!

I have probably been "hurt" too, but I don't remember anymore... Full speed ahead!!

Thats the spirite.....

never give up

but we are all different.....

And no one ever should "give up" but we should know what it really is we are fighting for AND competing against

Ahh someday we should all be as lucky to understand these things!!

Honey......No one can figure out the world, we are all lost in it.....Save yourself and just take one day as it comes....LOL

Daisychick

I cant answer for all men on here, or the ones you are in contact with but seriously men run if they see sight of anything serious. Dont take me the wrong way sites like these are being used by players more than serious guys looking for a relationship. They see it a flirting and hide behind the screen as soon as they are pushed to commit then the run takes place.

Men could have been hurt in the past as too with woman, its just about waiting until someone out of the blue comes out and starts to consider you a potential serious date.

The one which will hit your heart will be the one you werent expecting.

Look at The future is bright extend your search

at the end it all coms to


Time, it needs time
To win back your love again.
I will be there, I will be there.

Love, only love
Can bring back your love someday.
I will be there, I will be there.

Fight, babe, I'll fight
To win back your love again.
I will be there, I will be there.

Love, only love
Can break down the walls someday.
I will be there, I will be there.
Scorpions......

Aww that was really lovely Dirko. Thank you!!

Why u don't send me this... U know... I like poem....

Ooohhh clever, very clever! (And true!!)

shame i wasnt in the US

I dont run my zimmer frame wont let me

For once I agree with pebbles.


This site has some characters who like shooting down intelligent and nice people like yourself.

It kills it sometimes.


Good luck.

Ok, women are geared to want to get married. Most women snap up anything that will say "I DO." The men here are men who have not been snapped up. That means that you are rooting through all kinds of guys who are single for a reason. The best you can do is to figure out what that reason is. Did his wife die, or does he consider himself a player, or is it fear of commitment? I feel that if a guy has not been snapped up, that's suspicious, and the men here should be approached with caution.

Hi Daisychick

What an interesing thread. Oh the reasons why people are here. One topic where many people think they know why other people are here.

I cannot speak for me. But I can tell you why I came here. I came on the recommendation of a friend, when another forum closed down that was a relationships forum and at that time I was going through a rather spectacular break up. I joined here, in what was a fragile state. I posted once, then I never returned for six months to the forums, as I could not face it and was in all honesty seeking the safety of my old forum. I came back again around 18 months ago. To the forums and I never used it as a dating site, I used it as a way of filling time, my children had left home, and the long winters in Austria, made it a place to come and chat and get to know people. I was never here for dating, even though I had a profile completed and the dreaded 'What you are looking for# filled in. I would become frustrated at people over IM who I could not have a conversation with and set my IM to switched off. Then I began writing in the forums, firstly over in the EU then I had a browse in these ones and I liked them.

Being in a school myself, I find the adult interaction is good for me, especially as I do live alone, I am only here for the forums. I have not made so many friends, because I don't want a huge long list of online friends, I have the ones that know me personally and we meet who are also members here, and a couple that I chat to outside of here.

I did not use this site as a sole avenue for meeting a person. I did in the end, meet a person from here and we are in a happy, stable relationship.

I do not even begin to speculate why other people are here, but it will be interesting to see why people really are here.... I know from other threads that people have written why they are here, but I like it when people write about themselves. So it will be interesting.

Here are many areas of danger in which I would not go(post)... Not that I can't, But that it hurts my spirit.... But I have to many friends here nice people without different....

Pull up a chair sweetheart.I know life can be a bummer.

This is true for some and I agree. I think there is a "mindset" though and some women get past that "I Do" stage. I've been married (and separated and now widowed) and am ready to meet people that are looking for the same things in a ""Relationship"" as I am (whether it be romantic or friendship based). Some people may just have sh*tty luck, as I have. I strongly believe that all the ones "not snapped up" aren't because of their lack of character or personality but because it was someone elses poor judgement (which in turn equals my gain).

Howdy pebs.

Well I hope you find someone good, and I think you have a chance.

I will say this once...I have never been married and do not have kids ....