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AudrysSis: Perhaps some surgical intervention might be needed...

Roxaan: If it only was a 2 way Street....I find that we are on a 4 lane highway at times..... The slow lanes and the fast Lanes....either way...You´ll always get to your destination ....I guess..

JMO....Have a grate weekend.......

stefonline: Ok guys Facts.....

You live here and he lives there...a couple of thousand miles in the difference....in order to be together full time one has to make a choice....one has to give up where they live..etc...etc...etc....who is that going to be....that is the reality...

Sommerauer71: Hello Stef, I see what you are saying.

When I moved to Austria, I vowed I would not be in a relationship where the man did not come home at 6pm every night.

I limited myself very badly in that. I was never going to find a person who would just slot into my life and live my life concurrently alongside his slotting in.

Somebody who was desperate for love, may find that an easy way to get into your life though...

Sommerauer71: Great post, the 4 line highway...

stefonline: Ok guys Facts.....

You live here and he lives there...a couple of thousand miles in the difference....in order to be together full time one has to make a choice....one has to give up where they live..etc...etc...etc....who is that going to be....that is the reality...

jessejess47: well this is true , but I would think it would be a decision that you would make together , personally I would love to move overseas but the question would be of course is could I find work there. Not sure what you do for a living ,but there is work here in the states for anyone who wishes to work. I think the appeal of universal health care that many have in other countries is wonderful and as we age I would love to have that to fall back on. But untill that time I was to meet someone I will stay here where I can make a rather good living. And hope that someone would want to join me untill such a time as WE wish to move somewhere else

stefonline: If someone is desperate Somme....I am going to see that a mile off....I dont need any desperates around me either....I have had one of them before and boy was I glad I walked away.....I am not a desperate person so I could not have a desperate one around me....

stefonline: You see my point exactly....

The question is when is one ever going to meet that person that is willing to make those sarcrifices and move.....I always say the proof is in the pudding.....

stefonline: You see my point exactly....

The question is when is one ever going to meet that person that is willing to make those sarcrifices and move.....I always say the proof is in the pudding.....

Sommerauer71: God, you had say that didn't you? I want spotted dick and custard now!

Grr@ Stef!

jessejess47: I do see your point ,but as I said I would be willing to move if I found the right person and I knew I could find work . That said I do believe I could find work most anywhere I go,as I have always done well where ever I moved to , I have a very good trade and it is basically the same the world over. But again it would be a decision we would make as a team or parntership ,together as one

Sommerauer71: You would be the last person I would call desperate Stef, on here! I just knew you would come back with that.

Sommerauer71: You would be the last person I would call desperate Stef, on here! I just knew you would come back with that.

sxc666: Daisy good to see you. Love, Love for you

DaisyChick: I find it weird that when you find a "connection" with someone that most men on this site get freaked out. I wonder what the real purpose behind these profiles really are. I've been around this site (and forums) for over a year and without fail every single time I talk with someone that is capable of a decent conversation they get freaked out if they "feel" anything more than just a friendship. Why are people really here? I truly believe that it doesn't have anything to do with the person on the receiving end (IN MY CASE... unless I am just in some weird little sheltered world). I'm starting to believe that guys seek out "GOOD" girls and then once they get them they run.

My question is why??

For over a year I have had my profile saying that I am strictly here for forums and friends. That has changed within the last month, I'm tired of focusing only on school. I thought I was ready for something more... until I've had a few experiences of men not being able to handle a decent "intelligent" conversation. It's like everything goes great until they realize how compatible we could actually be and that I am not willing to "play games." I consider myself to be on the high end of "good girls." I am working hard in school (as many of you may know). Is it possible that men aren't willing to share my time? (I have to put schoolwork and studying first. At 32 years old it's time to build a future and career for myself regardless of any relationship). This does not mean that I am not willing to share this life with someone else. This just means that I must find someone that understands that I need more than someone to love. I must love myself too! (And be happy with the choices I make in life.)

Any thoughts on this? Could it intimidate people?