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stefonline: Hi Sx.......

sxc666: Hey lovely lady, hope all is well.

stefonline: I would'nt mind some ruhbarb and custard but for now I just had two fried eggs with wholemeal toasted loaf and juice...yummy...

Well time reveals all....

Sommerauer71: I'm gonna have eggs too.

stefonline: All is well in my world Sx....how is everything in yours.....a nice discussion going on in here.....

sxc666: What a lovely pic and dress. I really like that pic. Casual yet classy.

sxc666: What a lovely pic and dress. I really like that pic. Casual yet classy.

stefonline: ah thank u so much Sx......I love your sweeter side....

stefonline: I know what you are saying Jess and I understand you completely....but you see there are no guarentees in life....nothing is forever....it's about if one is willing to take a chance/risk.....

stefonline: You know it's funny my body tells me when it needs protein and that only happens maybe once a month.....you know what I mean....

mindfful: no comment

but i will say i need and get alot more than that

DaisyChick: I find it weird that when you find a "connection" with someone that most men on this site get freaked out. I wonder what the real purpose behind these profiles really are. I've been around this site (and forums) for over a year and without fail every single time I talk with someone that is capable of a decent conversation they get freaked out if they "feel" anything more than just a friendship. Why are people really here? I truly believe that it doesn't have anything to do with the person on the receiving end (IN MY CASE... unless I am just in some weird little sheltered world). I'm starting to believe that guys seek out "GOOD" girls and then once they get them they run.

My question is why??

For over a year I have had my profile saying that I am strictly here for forums and friends. That has changed within the last month, I'm tired of focusing only on school. I thought I was ready for something more... until I've had a few experiences of men not being able to handle a decent "intelligent" conversation. It's like everything goes great until they realize how compatible we could actually be and that I am not willing to "play games." I consider myself to be on the high end of "good girls." I am working hard in school (as many of you may know). Is it possible that men aren't willing to share my time? (I have to put schoolwork and studying first. At 32 years old it's time to build a future and career for myself regardless of any relationship). This does not mean that I am not willing to share this life with someone else. This just means that I must find someone that understands that I need more than someone to love. I must love myself too! (And be happy with the choices I make in life.)

Any thoughts on this? Could it intimidate people?

mindfful: no comment

but i will say i need and get alot more than that

dirko63: Daisychick

I cant answer for all men on here, or the ones you are in contact with but seriously men run if they see sight of anything serious. Dont take me the wrong way sites like these are being used by players more than serious guys looking for a relationship. They see it a flirting and hide behind the screen as soon as they are pushed to commit then the run takes place.

Men could have been hurt in the past as too with woman, its just about waiting until someone out of the blue comes out and starts to consider you a potential serious date.

The one which will hit your heart will be the one you werent expecting.

Look at The future is bright extend your search

DryKnickers: Im here until I get out of jail......and for the free chips and dip!!

DaisyChick: I find it weird that when you find a "connection" with someone that most men on this site get freaked out. I wonder what the real purpose behind these profiles really are. I've been around this site (and forums) for over a year and without fail every single time I talk with someone that is capable of a decent conversation they get freaked out if they "feel" anything more than just a friendship. Why are people really here? I truly believe that it doesn't have anything to do with the person on the receiving end (IN MY CASE... unless I am just in some weird little sheltered world). I'm starting to believe that guys seek out "GOOD" girls and then once they get them they run.

My question is why??

For over a year I have had my profile saying that I am strictly here for forums and friends. That has changed within the last month, I'm tired of focusing only on school. I thought I was ready for something more... until I've had a few experiences of men not being able to handle a decent "intelligent" conversation. It's like everything goes great until they realize how compatible we could actually be and that I am not willing to "play games." I consider myself to be on the high end of "good girls." I am working hard in school (as many of you may know). Is it possible that men aren't willing to share my time? (I have to put schoolwork and studying first. At 32 years old it's time to build a future and career for myself regardless of any relationship). This does not mean that I am not willing to share this life with someone else. This just means that I must find someone that understands that I need more than someone to love. I must love myself too! (And be happy with the choices I make in life.)

Any thoughts on this? Could it intimidate people?