DaisyChick: I find it weird that when you find a "connection" with someone that most men on this site get freaked out. I wonder what the real purpose behind these profiles really are. I've been around this site (and forums) for over a year and without fail every single time I talk with someone that is capable of a decent conversation they get freaked out if they "feel" anything more than just a friendship. Why are people really here? I truly believe that it doesn't have anything to do with the person on the receiving end (IN MY CASE... unless I am just in some weird little sheltered world). I'm starting to believe that guys seek out "GOOD" girls and then once they get them they run.
My question is why??
For over a year I have had my profile saying that I am strictly here for forums and friends. That has changed within the last month, I'm tired of focusing only on school. I thought I was ready for something more... until I've had a few experiences of men not being able to handle a decent "intelligent" conversation. It's like everything goes great until they realize how compatible we could actually be and that I am not willing to "play games." I consider myself to be on the high end of "good girls." I am working hard in school (as many of you may know). Is it possible that men aren't willing to share my time? (I have to put schoolwork and studying first. At 32 years old it's time to build a future and career for myself regardless of any relationship). This does not mean that I am not willing to share this life with someone else. This just means that I must find someone that understands that I need more than someone to love. I must love myself too! (And be happy with the choices I make in life.)
Any thoughts on this? Could it intimidate people?
Wow... Looks like I'm not the only one on CS that is getting spooked about being here...
Before I started to go to bars and night clubs and strip clubs and before I joined CS and a ton of other online dating sites (of course I'm not gonna pay to play but they do let me advertize my profile anyways and women are not stupid they know how to contact me at other websites)...
Well back to what I was saying... What was I saying... Oh yeah... Before I started to go to bars and night clubs and strip clubs and before I joined CS and a ton of other online dating sites I started to remodel myself as BEEP... Ahhh... Cameraman because I fell in love with my camera... Then I started to locally go to bars and night clubs and strip clubs with my camera on the weekends and started to get dates with women... And I thought to myself... Why not go to online dating sites as well and get to meet women from all over the world... Can't date though cause I don't have a private learjet yet...
Yes my profile is real... Ahhh... If you see anything you think is fake let me know ok...
Now about your success in meeting guys on here looking for a serious relationship... Love... You got me... I have no idea why they are on here... Don't even know why women are on here... Don't even know why I'm on here... All I know... Were here for whatever... Ohhh... Here's very good advice... Read profiles real good before contacting anyone including me... This is very very important...