azucarmorena: Have you ever lost interest in someone who you started communicating with on CS? How did you handle the situation? Tell them? Stop talking to them? Block them?
Have you ever been on the other side of the fence and how did you handle it? Ask why they went silent? Took it for what it is?
Happened to me in a sense. I looking back, feel as though I handled it the wrong way in just disappearing. I think it leaves them with a void in a sense of maybe they did something wrong, which in a sense is wrong to have someone think. I think a good start would be toning down the content of what you discuss with them and in what context you discuss it as well.
It's really a tough situation because it leaves you feeling as if you falsely led them on, which in a sense, is all you do if you continue to seem more serious than what you are.
In a way there really is right way, except be careful of their feelings. Although I maintain a friendly relationship with the person I had this encounter with, I know in a sense, I handled it very wrongly at the time. It doesn't always end up as well.
But again, I would just recommend that the content & context of the conversations you have get toned down that way they can get the message, even if it is subconsiously.
Should they not get the message however, then there does come a time when you need to be clear about your intentions and be more blunt.
Hope this helped a little.
~JMO~
-Rich-