AudrysSis: OK, since nothing that I've done seems to have worked on here (it only seems to scare men off), what do guys REALLY expect when they send you a flower saying "I'd love to get to know you. Tell me more"? It seems simple but it's actually rather tricky. Usually I respond like I normally would. I find it strange that my profile seems to attract some people but the correspondence with the actual person, when she responds, does not. I'm thinking perhaps I need to switch to the teenage-like "text message" style, or make some spelling mistakes? What more can I tell if the main things are on my profile, as it is? Should I mention some physical parameters, size(s), is that what men want to know?
I've always liked you.
You don't scare me; it's just that you are either too young for me or that I've had a girlfriend at the time and therefore I have not been available to chat apart from as a friend......... and you know with friends that you can only keep up to date with a certain number of friends or one's tiny little brain (at least in my case!) gets overloaded with too much information.
Don't switch - be yourself........... better to wait for the right type of person who appreciates you than somebody who is not right for you.