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CaptainBeirutIII London, Inner London, England UK
friendsfirst: Diamonds come in handy when you want to dress a grinding wheel true to sharpen a tool bit,drill or any form radius tangent to angle or simply a flat surface.
When you get all that done and done right you will need that beer.


So what you're saying is that when two people marry, she should get a diamond ring, while - at the altar - she unveils one of those industrial drill machines for him?



CaptainBeirutIII London, Inner London, England UK
seekndestroy: it is crucial....

marriage is basically its the same as your funeral.... they both signify the end of things !!!!!


Hahaha, brilliant!
I have to remember that one.



kissmedeeply Petitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada
seekndestroy: it is crucial....

marriage is basically its the same as your funeral.... they both signify the end of things !!!!!
I love funeralsdunno
seekndestroy Seattle, Washington USA
CaptainBeirutIII: Hahaha, brilliant!
I have to remember that one.


you think that's good?????

i never told you but i feel like Jesus....

i died and was subsequently resuscitated !!!!

only difference is it took me 12 years instead of 3 days !!!

very mad

and no, i cannot walk on water.....










....... yet !!!!

grin
druidess6308 Reverse, Pennsylvania USA
Yvonne66: How importent is marriage really. Does it make a relationship better or is it an old fashion institution?


Marriage is a legality, but can make it easier if something happens to one of the partners. By being a spouse, one has more rights to information, helping with your partner's care, and making final arrangements if that becomes necessary.

Other than that, it's a piece of paper. If you're not truly committed to each other, that piece of paper isn't going to make you more committed.

I wouldn't say it's an old-fashioned institution, though. It's one I still like. wine
druidess6308 Reverse, Pennsylvania USA
mbcasey: Like to try it...only to smash wedding cake in my new wife's face.


Ken, I hope that some day you find a good woman who is worthy of that big heart of yours, and appreciates it, to do that to. laugh hug bouquet
seekndestroy Seattle, Washington USA
kissmedeeply: I love funerals


yeah...some people are into torture.... cant really explain it....confused confused


im more of the sissy type.... if i get an bubu, i tend to not do the same thing again that caused it !!!


















.... well that's not entirely true either !!!

doh



kissmedeeply Petitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada
seekndestroy: yeah...some people are into torture.... cant really explain it.... im more of the sissy type.... if i get an bubu, i tend to not do the same thing again that caused it !!!
.... well that's not entirely true either !!!


I love ur humor

Maybe you should try on some other threads
and lighten some people up..grin
USThumper Central Square, New York USA
druidess6308: Marriage is a legality, but can make it easier if something happens to one of the partners. By being a spouse, one has more rights to information, helping with your partner's care, and making final arrangements if that becomes necessary.

Other than that, it's a piece of paper. If you're not truly committed to each other, that piece of paper isn't going to make you more committed.

I wouldn't say it's an old-fashioned institution, though. It's one I still like.
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Jack68 faisalabad, Punjab Pakistan
In response to: How importent is marriage really. Does it make a relationship better or is it an old fashion institution?
Marriage is very impotant this way you take care of each other more and before doing any thing wrong you think about it seriously



mnowsa dallas, Texas USA
ok...there is a proverb in the east about marriage. the proverb says, marriage is such a sweet cheese-ball that you will regret if you EAT it; you will regret if you DON'T eat it as well. Since, i am always in favor of eating something first and then regret it later, i will certainly eat that cheese-ball and regret it later if i must regretgrin
friendsfirst Burbank, Illinois USA
CaptainBeirutIII: So what you're saying is that when two people marry, she should get a diamond ring, while - at the altar - she unveils one of those industrial drill machines for him?


That could make for an interesting ceremonythumbs up
cameraman St. Petersburg, Florida USA
seekndestroy: it is crucial....

marriage is basically its the same as your funeral.... they both signify the end of things !!!!!


I sure hope so...Or do I???
morgan5 somewhere sunny , Canarias Spain
Jack68: Marriage is very impotant this way you take care of each other more and before doing any thing wrong you think about it seriously
That depends on the individuals, being married doesn't make you care for a person more, its about the level of love and committment you have to each other.



jessejess47 ogdensburg, New York USA
morgan5: That depends on the individuals, being married doesn't make you care for a person more, its about the level of love and committment you have to each other.
aahhh now here is one post I can agree with in this thread ...very good Morganhead banger
Jack68 faisalabad, Punjab Pakistan
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perci1978 pittsfield, New Hampshire USA
I believe marriage is very important... I am a single mother of three beautiful children and I believe my children would be absoulutely different if I had settled down and married one of their fathers... I do not believe marriage is an institute of old.. it was created for a reason... and family to me is very important. I believe that you can totally find the one person you connect with..mind, body and soul. and whatever happens that person will be there for you and you for them...teddybear
morgan5 somewhere sunny , Canarias Spain
jessejess47: aahhh now here is one post I can agree with in this thread ...very good Morgan
Hi jesse wave well having been married, i will never forget the day my then husband said to me,"I have you now,I don't have to try anymore" and i really believe that is how some people view it. A kind of complacency creeps in



jessejess47 ogdensburg, New York USA
morgan5: Hi jesse well having been married, i will never forget the day my then husband said to me,"I have you now,I don't have to try anymore" and i really believe that is how some people view it. A kind of complacency creeps in
well thats just sad Morgan and I am sorry that happened ...to me it is all about the commentment and telling the world that this is who I love and wish to spend the rest of my days proving this to her and the world if need be.....I know a bit mushy laugh
StressFree small city, Kalmar Sweden
Yvonne66: How importent is marriage really. Does it make a relationship better or is it an old fashion institution?


I've never been married and I don't really value it that much if we are to consider the divorce rates in Sweden and America. Too many people get married and give up on the relationship/marriage to quickly. It does not seem so sacred anymore.

Does it make a relationship better? Only if the couple believes so. Personally, staying married and overcoming adversity together in which the love, respect, and understanding for each other evolves over time would be a good indication that a marriage is a good one. A piece of paper does not magically make a relationship better. It may serve as an element of confirmation for the celebration of a couple's love and commitment, but it does not define the relationship...only time can do that.

It's really important to me and I just won't marry anyone. I'm fine with never getting married. It really does not make a difference to me. I say it's really important to me because my perspective on marriage is that it is a commitment...for better or worse. Meaning that divorce is not an option unless physical abuse is involved or infidelity. Marriage is meant forever, not a trial or some trend. Both individuals should be mature enough to handle adversity in a marriage and reach a sense of understanding. Too many times, adversity hits, and things only get worse because of various factors...or immaturity and selfishness in a nutshell.

Too many marry too soon, and too many divorce too soon. There seems to be a major problem in our society. Especially when most of the marriages in Sweden are happening when the kids are between 1-5 years old. Now that's another can of worms.




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