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thebug2k5 Cienfuegos, Central Cuba Cuba
Sun Jul 12, 2009 12:38 PM CST : Someone can love 2 at the same time?
This is very complicated...
Supouse u was in a relationship with someone but u only spend 45 days with that persona but u was in chat with that person for almost 1 year, then that person come to ur country and spend 45 wonderful days with u... and u fall deeply in love with that person, then she leave and after 6 months she begin with another man, but i don't know nothing about that and she never say a word about that... u realise with time and because a friend...

Now she come back again and she say she don't see i was persitent with her... she say i let she go and don't figth...
And in the end she say what she can do if the like 2 mans at the same time... me and the other guy...

When she leave she don't know when she can back again, for me is hard to travel and leave this country is not easy leave Cuba... then she will be alone long time and face life and all about...

Anyways... this could be the distance... i should forget her and begin to figth for her again??

I LOVE HER with all my HEART and i don't know if she cheat on my because she was alone or she will do it anyways if i'm with her all the time near her...

Anyways what should i do?
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thebug2k5 Cienfuegos, Central Cuba Cuba
Sun Jul 12, 2009 12:41 PM CST : Someone can love 2 at the same time?
I mean:
Anyways... this could be the distance... i should forgive her and begin to figth for her again??

Sorry my english...
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morgan5 somewhere sunny , Canarias Spain
Sun Jul 12, 2009 12:47 PM CST : Someone can love 2 at the same time?
Your English is fine.

To me it is wrong to play with peoples feelings, and by what you have said i think that is what she has done, how would you know she will not do it again.

Understand it hurts, but i would say move on and find a women that will not play with your heart wine
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kissmedeeply Petitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada
Sun Jul 12, 2009 12:47 PM CST : Someone can love 2 at the same time?
thebug2k5: I mean:
Anyways... this could be the distance... i should forgive her and begin to figth for her again??

Sorry my english...


Let her go she is not worth ur time..

if she say she can love 2 man at same time..
then you know she really isnt into you..

find someone who only wants you and no other
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thebug2k5 Cienfuegos, Central Cuba Cuba
Sun Jul 12, 2009 12:53 PM CST : Someone can love 2 at the same time?
What happen if she is not very sure about my love? what happen if she don't belive in my love and i need to make her be sure enough? What happen if i let she go and all this is about BIG TEST or whatever?

What if i tell u if the only woman i really love in all my life? What happen if i tell u i think i never will be happy wihtout her?

I understand ur advice and like to hear advices...

I'm listening...
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kissmedeeply Petitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada
Sun Jul 12, 2009 12:56 PM CST : Someone can love 2 at the same time?
thebug2k5: What happen if she is not very sure about my love? what happen if she don't belive in my love and i need to make her be sure enough? What happen if i let she go and all this is about BIG TEST or whatever?

What if i tell u if the only woman i really love in all my life? What happen if i tell u i think i never will be happy wihtout her?

I understand ur advice and like to hear advices...

I'm listening...


What if..is that how you want to go on with ur life asking what if
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cameraman St. Petersburg, Florida USA
Sun Jul 12, 2009 12:59 PM CST : Someone can love 2 at the same time?
Very complicated... Nahhh...

She's from another country... Hard to have a relationship that way...

Amazing you thought that she would not be with someone else seeing that she cannot be with you cause of the distance...

Don't know what you mean by her saying she doesn't want to be with you cause you where not persistant...

Seems like she likes the both of you wants to have a three way relationship...

When she leaves you she will go back to the other guy in her country so I doubt she will be alone...

The only way I would handle this is to find a way to go to her country to be with her or for her to come to my country to be with me...

Just got to fiqure out where she stands with the other guy...

You got a little problem here my... Ahhh... Do I know you... Or do I???
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thebug2k5 Cienfuegos, Central Cuba Cuba
Sun Jul 12, 2009 1:07 PM CST : Someone can love 2 at the same time?
cameraman: Very complicated... Nahhh...

She's from another country... Hard to have a relationship that way...

Amazing you thought that she would not be with someone else seeing that she cannot be with you cause of the distance...

Don't know what you mean by her saying she doesn't want to be with you cause you where not persistant...

Seems like she likes the both of you wants to have a three way relationship...

When she leaves you she will go back to the other guy in her country so I doubt she will be alone...

The only way I would handle this is to find a way to go to her country to be with her or for her to come to my country to be with me...

Just got to fiqure out where she stands with the other guy...

You got a little problem here my... Ahhh... Do I know you... Or do I???


Yeah do i know me from the Linux Post... hahaha nice to read u here too...

Anyways my friend ALL I WISH is go there and Knock Knock her door, then i will see what happen and then i will be SURE SURE with no doubt about what happen and about what she feel about me and about what the hell i'm for her...

But the fact is that will take time... is very very complicated move from Cuba... anyways i don't lose the hope and i will Knock her door one day for sure...

Thanks u...
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SensualVixen Tampa Bay area, Florida USA
Sun Jul 12, 2009 1:17 PM CST : Someone can love 2 at the same time?
Tis difficult when you reside in a communist country with such strict visa laws to both entering and definitely trying to leave for a few weeks.

I can not give you my advice since I don't know her side of the story and we are only hearing your side.

Personally, it must be a very hurting heartache to love someone in knowing they most likely can not be with you.
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cameraman St. Petersburg, Florida USA
Sun Jul 12, 2009 1:20 PM CST : Someone can love 2 at the same time?
thebug2k5: Yeah do i know me from the Linux Post... hahaha nice to read u here too...

Anyways my friend ALL I WISH is go there and Knock Knock her door, then i will see what happen and then i will be SURE SURE with no doubt about what happen and about what she feel about me and about what the hell i'm for her...

But the fact is that will take time... is very very complicated move from Cuba... anyways i don't lose the hope and i will Knock her door one day for sure...

Thanks u...


Ohhh... Yeah... The Linux guy... I remember now...

Well... Like I was saying...

That's the spirit...

It all about what you want anyways...

She still showed some interest in you...

1. She was mad that you where not peristant with her... I still don't know what that means though...

2. She didn't want to leave you for the other guy so she asked if you would be willing to be in a threeway relationship...

Just find some way to get to her quick before she sends you an invitation to her wedding to the other guy though...

Ok... Or is it ok???
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thebug2k5 Cienfuegos, Central Cuba Cuba
Sun Jul 12, 2009 1:36 PM CST : Someone can love 2 at the same time?
The fact is she reject so many wedding propousal from him because she say she don't want to married him...
Then that make me wondering so many things i can't remember rigth now...

Anyways persistant(is like try and try it again is because she say when i realise about the other man i run away and don't stay to figth for her u understand now?)

She don't say anything about treeway relationship... she only say she don't know what to do because she like two mans...

Then she put her head down and i understand in someway her life is a mess...

Anyways... we will see what happen... and we will see if she marrie him or me...

Thanks u for everything i hope read more comments...
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katerinailieva Darlington, Hampshire, England UK
Sun Jul 12, 2009 1:49 PM CST : Someone can love 2 at the same time?
My opinion is that normally none could love two man in the same time and in the same way, because she must probably have kind of double personality or something like that.cool
I think that she has been with someone else, cause she felt uncertain about you, she thought you'll never be together or that your relationship has no future.
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thebug2k5 Cienfuegos, Central Cuba Cuba
Sun Jul 12, 2009 1:53 PM CST : Someone can love 2 at the same time?
katerinailieva: My opinion is that normally none could love two man in the same time and in the same way, because she must probably have kind of double personality or something like that.
I think that she has been with someone else, cause she felt uncertain about you, she thought you'll never be together or that your relationship has no future.


Then is posible she love me or still in love with me... but the fact about not be sure or be uncertain could be the reason for all this???

Then i must FIGTH for her???
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virgiomonkey Auckland, Auckland New Zealand
Sun Jul 12, 2009 1:56 PM CST : Someone can love 2 at the same time?
....Simple...Walk away.....All what 'you' are going to get,is a pile of 'Grief' and 'Misery'.....Nothing more,nothing less...professor

J.D......E.M.C.Pgrin devil
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cameraman St. Petersburg, Florida USA
Sun Jul 12, 2009 2:06 PM CST : Someone can love 2 at the same time?
thebug2k5: The fact is she reject so many wedding propousal from him because she say she don't want to married him...
Then that make me wondering so many things i can't remember rigth now...

Anyways persistant(is like try and try it again is because she say when i realise about the other man i run away and don't stay to figth for her u understand now?)

She don't say anything about treeway relationship... she only say she don't know what to do because she like two mans...

Then she put her head down and i understand in someway her life is a mess...

Anyways... we will see what happen... and we will see if she marrie him or me...

Thanks u for everything i hope read more comments...


Ok... Now we are gettin somewhere here...

Sooo...

She still in contact with you... That's good news...

She doesn't want to marry the other man... That's even better news...

Big mistake running away from her when you found out about the other guy... No problem that can't be fixed though...

Say you thought she was a virgin that is why you ran away but your love for her brought you back that's why you returned...

Hope it works... Ahhh... Let me know if it does... I know some women I need to try that on...

When a woman says she is in love with two men means she wants a three way relationship... At least where I come from it does... Or does it???

Anyways...

The best news is that she is not a player seeing that she is saddened by her problem...

All I can say at this point is...

Your chances are very good to even better...

Just stay in touch with her...

Let her know you understand what she is dealing with...

That you will always love her...

That you will help her talk things through...

That you... Ahhh BEEP... I'm running out of ideas...

You know where I'm coming from don't you??? Or do you???
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katerinailieva Darlington, Hampshire, England UK
Sun Jul 12, 2009 2:15 PM CST : Someone can love 2 at the same time?
Sure you have to do something to keep her, not just let her go. But there is something else that worries me a little, how did they get to the point about the marriage at all, if she loves you, she must have been in an awkward situation...
Do you think she's got difficult live, any problems? Or may be she's just mentioned it to you, to put your mind it such direction, cause that's the only way for you and her to be together since you're in another country.
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thebug2k5 Cienfuegos, Central Cuba Cuba
Sun Jul 12, 2009 2:18 PM CST : Someone can love 2 at the same time?
I get ur idea and make me feel confortable and i want to give u thanks...

She is here in my country now... for 2 weeks... i see her 3 times because she is originaly from my country and had been very busy with her family and friend and i understand that...

But she contact me when she have time to see me and spend time with me(also more than see me)....

All the things i say she said is because she said it to me face to face... we never talk by internet about very impoortant stuff we prefer to wait to say that importants stuff face to face...

The fact is when i realise about the whole thing i run away because i not was able to handle the pain and because i was unable to think with open mind and see the whole picture from another angle...

Anyways i hope talk to her again before she leave and say so manything i don't know how start and how finish... in the end when we want to say so many things we finish forgeting about something jajaja is hard but is the only way then we will see what happen...

Thank u again... do u understand??? understand u??? i don't know how to make ur Words game but is funny...

My english is not godd enough...
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thebug2k5 Cienfuegos, Central Cuba Cuba
Sun Jul 12, 2009 2:25 PM CST : Someone can love 2 at the same time?
katerinailieva: Sure you have to do something to keep her, not just let her go. But there is something else that worries me a little, how did they get to the point about the marriage at all, if she loves you, she must have been in an awkward situation...
Do you think she's got difficult live, any problems? Or may be she's just mentioned it to you, to put your mind it such direction, cause that's the only way for you and her to be together since you're in another country.


The fact is 2 nigth ago we have a very long talk, 12AM until 5AM and we listen music, talk about so many things... and talk about us...

The Fact is she don't know because she is with him, because he don't have any details with her...
The fact she say she are not in love because if she are in love she never be with another man... and she don't love him because then she no will be here with me rigth now..

The point she is in a big mess on her heard and i don't know exactly how to help....

She move from one town to another one, then she lose her job and she need rent a room and in the middle of this mess SHOW UP the MISTER BOSS owner of a gas station and then she is with him now...

I understand alot of stuff but something i don't get it...

The fact is i'm like a prisioner in this island and even if i can afford a fly then the governament laws don't allow me to fly is really complicated here... the fact is all i can give to her is LOVE nothing more until i can leave this country and have a decent job...

Then here u have more details...
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cameraman St. Petersburg, Florida USA
Sun Jul 12, 2009 2:38 PM CST : Someone can love 2 at the same time?
thebug2k5: I get ur idea and make me feel confortable and i want to give u thanks...

She is here in my country now... for 2 weeks... i see her 3 times because she is originaly from my country and had been very busy with her family and friend and i understand that...

But she contact me when she have time to see me and spend time with me(also more than see me)....

All the things i say she said is because she said it to me face to face... we never talk by internet about very impoortant stuff we prefer to wait to say that importants stuff face to face...

The fact is when i realise about the whole thing i run away because i not was able to handle the pain and because i was unable to think with open mind and see the whole picture from another angle...

Anyways i hope talk to her again before she leave and say so manything i don't know how start and how finish... in the end when we want to say so many things we finish forgeting about something jajaja is hard but is the only way then we will see what happen...

Thank u again... do u understand??? understand u??? i don't know how to make ur Words game but is funny...

My english is not godd enough...


That's good news...

Here something that might help you remember what you need to say... Write it down first then go over it with her...

Sounds like you got it together now... So I will ride off into the sunset...

And your English is a lot better than my Cuban... What Am I talking about... I don't speak Cuban... Or do I???
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Antjo39 Pucara, Puno Peru
Sun Jul 12, 2009 2:57 PM CST : Someone can love 2 at the same time?
thebug2k5: This is very complicated...
Supouse u was in a relationship with someone but u only spend 45 days with that persona but u was in chat with that person for almost 1 year, then that person come to ur country and spend 45 wonderful days with u... and u fall deeply in love with that person, then she leave and after 6 months she begin with another man, but i don't know nothing about that and she never say a word about that... u realise with time and because a friend...

Now she come back again and she say she don't see i was persitent with her... she say i let she go and don't figth...
And in the end she say what she can do if the like 2 mans at the same time... me and the other guy...

When she leave she don't know when she can back again, for me is hard to travel and leave this country is not easy leave Cuba... then she will be alone long time and face life and all about...

Anyways... this could be the distance... i should forget her and begin to figth for her again??

I LOVE HER with all my HEART and i don't know if she cheat on my because she was alone or she will do it anyways if i'm with her all the time near her...

Anyways what should i do?
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