Someone can love 2 at the same time?

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Antjo39 Pucara, Puno Peru
thebug2k5: This is very complicated...
Supouse u was in a relationship with someone but u only spend 45 days with that persona but u was in chat with that person for almost 1 year, then that person come to ur country and spend 45 wonderful days with u... and u fall deeply in love with that person, then she leave and after 6 months she begin with another man, but i don't know nothing about that and she never say a word about that... u realise with time and because a friend...

Now she come back again and she say she don't see i was persitent with her... she say i let she go and don't figth...
And in the end she say what she can do if the like 2 mans at the same time... me and the other guy...

When she leave she don't know when she can back again, for me is hard to travel and leave this country is not easy leave Cuba... then she will be alone long time and face life and all about...

Anyways... this could be the distance... i should forget her and begin to figth for her again??

I LOVE HER with all my HEART and i don't know if she cheat on my because she was alone or she will do it anyways if i'm with her all the time near her...

Anyways what should i do?

Forget about that woman, for no age nor standards, those ones of that kind are fun. Well, I am judging from the very surface but I can say that because she came back to extend the agony on you. They all enjoy that shit and mask it with her melodramatic stupid conception of life.
Forget her, there are so many good ones to take at home, at my dear Cuba.
thebug2k5: What happen if she is not very sure about my love? what happen if she don't belive in my love and i need to make her be sure enough?


Personally I believe men should always fight for the one they love and make sure she knows it and doesn't forget about it. Even if it doesn't work out, at least you would have tried.
raphael118 arlington, Virginia USA
AudrysSis: Personally I believe men should always fight for the one they love and make sure she knows it and doesn't forget about it. Even if it doesn't work out, at least you would have tried.


Just buy a dog-- they are more fun and faithful, not to mention cheaper.
caspatch galena, Missouri USA
she is playing mind games holding one in reserve in case one don't work out, find a lady deserving of your love



BOBANBOBAN Pozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia
raphael118: Just buy a dog-- they are more fun and faithful, not to mention cheaper.


yep...

for once in my life i would like to see a woman fighting for

the man she loves



virgiomonkey Auckland, Auckland New Zealand
BOBANBOBAN: yep...

for once in my life i would like to see a woman fighting for

the man she loves


....Whoa....good one .....Boban...thumbs up

J.D....E.M.C.Pgrin devil



virgiomonkey Auckland, Auckland New Zealand
raphael118: Just buy a dog-- they are more fun and faithful, not to mention cheaper.



'Ahem' to that one.... thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up

J.D....E.M.C.Pgrin devil
thebug2k5 Cienfuegos, Central Cuba Cuba
Forget about the woman i was talking about she don't deserve this post and don't deserve my love or my feelings...

I can find someone better...

Thank u for all the advices...
druidess6308 Reverse, Pennsylvania USA
thebug2k5: The fact is she reject so many wedding propousal from him because she say she don't want to married him...
Then that make me wondering so many things i can't remember rigth now...

Anyways persistant(is like try and try it again is because she say when i realise about the other man i run away and don't stay to figth for her u understand now?)

She don't say anything about treeway relationship... she only say she don't know what to do because she like two mans...

Then she put her head down and i understand in someway her life is a mess...

Anyways... we will see what happen... and we will see if she marrie him or me...

Thanks u for everything i hope read more comments...


I'm going to try to give you an understanding from her point of view. First, I have been in love with two men at the same time, and it's not easy. These were two men I saw every day. I married one of them even though I still loved the other. I love him to this day, and I always will, but I'm realistic and know things can never work for us, so I hope some day to find a man to love strongly again one day and share my life with, despite the feelings I have for this one.

This lady in your life is in love with two men, and I don't know how she met the other one or if she's even gotten to meet him in person, and how close or distant he lives to her. But she has met you, spent 45 days with you (that's a very long time compared to what most get in a LDR), and the two of you did fall in love in person as well. However, you live in a communist country and it's difficult for you to get out to visit her, or for her to come visit you frequently. It will be even more difficult for one of you to relocate. For her to move to you means accepting living in a communist country filled with revolution and strife (at least the last I knew of the situation over there was that there was a fair amount of guerrilla warfare). Not an easy life to choose.

Keep in touch with her, let her know how you feel...and listen to her dilemma and try to understand it. Do your best to see if the two of you can work it out, but if not, face it and move on.

I wish you the best.

wine
Ocee35 Jackson, Michigan USA
thebug2k5: Now she come back again and she say she don't see i was persitent with her... she say i let she go and don't figth...
And in the end she say what she can do if the like 2 mans at the same time... me and the other guy...



In the end, she can go be with the other guy.

I ain't fighting for some woman that thinks she wants someone else. I would spend that energy finding someone I didn't have to worry about running off with some other dude.



Competing for her affection....LOL

Not bloody likely.




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