thebug2k5: The fact is she reject so many wedding propousal from him because she say she don't want to married him...
Then that make me wondering so many things i can't remember rigth now...
Anyways persistant(is like try and try it again is because she say when i realise about the other man i run away and don't stay to figth for her u understand now?)
She don't say anything about treeway relationship... she only say she don't know what to do because she like two mans...
Then she put her head down and i understand in someway her life is a mess...
Anyways... we will see what happen... and we will see if she marrie him or me...
Thanks u for everything i hope read more comments...
I'm going to try to give you an understanding from her point of view. First, I have been in love with two men at the same time, and it's not easy. These were two men I saw every day. I married one of them even though I still loved the other. I love him to this day, and I always will, but I'm realistic and know things can never work for us, so I hope some day to find a man to love strongly again one day and share my life with, despite the feelings I have for this one.
This lady in your life is in love with two men, and I don't know how she met the other one or if she's even gotten to meet him in person, and how close or distant he lives to her. But she has met you, spent 45 days with you (that's a very long time compared to what most get in a LDR), and the two of you did fall in love in person as well. However, you live in a communist country and it's difficult for you to get out to visit her, or for her to come visit you frequently. It will be even more difficult for one of you to relocate. For her to move to you means accepting living in a communist country filled with revolution and strife (at least the last I knew of the situation over there was that there was a fair amount of guerrilla warfare). Not an easy life to choose.
Keep in touch with her, let her know how you feel...and listen to her dilemma and try to understand it. Do your best to see if the two of you can work it out, but if not, face it and move on.
I wish you the best.