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virgiomonkey Auckland, Auckland New Zealand
dirko63: it was me


....I know.!!!...Oh,great City 'Brussels' and love your Beer and food.....handshake thumbs up

J.D...E.M.C.Pgrin devil



dirko63 brussels, Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium
virgiomonkey: ....I know.!!!...Oh,great City 'Brussels' and love your Beer and food.....

J.D...E.M.C.P


Mussels and Frites and a Leffe Blond applause applause cheers



BOBANBOBAN Pozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia
sylvana: no you are not wrong
usually men want
sex
someone to cook and clean
someone to rise up their kids

only very few can open themselves
and are really interested
who we are
and what we want in this life

your choice



roll eyes



Sweet_And_Sassy Lake Elmo, Minnesota USA
BOBANBOBAN: Am i the only one who actually read that???

hello...


Yes, BOBANBOBAN. I did just join THIS site, but I am no fool to the games that men play on dating sites. That's why I never rush into anything. I insist on getting to know someone 'til I feel comfy enough to take things off line. I rarely get dates, but hey, some day a good one has to come along. Right?peace



dirko63 brussels, Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium
Sweet_And_Sassy: Yes, BOBANBOBAN. I did just join THIS site, but I am no fool to the games that men play on dating sites. That's why I never rush into anything. I insist on getting to know someone 'til I feel comfy enough to take things off line. I rarely get dates, but hey, some day a good one has to come along. Right?


shall we make a list for you grin



lifeis2good77 brooks,alberta, Alberta Canada
Sweet_And_Sassy: Yes, BOBANBOBAN. I did just join THIS site, but I am no fool to the games that men play on dating sites. That's why I never rush into anything. I insist on getting to know someone 'til I feel comfy enough to take things off line. I rarely get dates, but hey, some day a good one has to come along. Right?


Someday maybe ? maybe we are all in the wrong place to fine who we are looking for ?doh



virgiomonkey Auckland, Auckland New Zealand
dirko63: Mussels and Frites and a Leffe Blond


....'Ahem 'to you bro .....Whoa... you have just brought back some awesome and wonderful Memories.....and the Belgium Pastries....Oh soooooooooooooooo.....yummy.....!!! thumbs up

J.D...E.M.C.P


grin devil



virgiomonkey Auckland, Auckland New Zealand
Sweet_And_Sassy: Yes, BOBANBOBAN. I did just join THIS site, but I am no fool to the games that men play on dating sites. That's why I never rush into anything. I insist on getting to know someone 'til I feel comfy enough to take things off line. I rarely get dates, but hey, some day a good one has to come along. Right?


...And you mean to tell me, there are no so called 'Woman players' on this site either......Yeah right....doh

J.D....E.M.C.P



grin devil



Sweet_And_Sassy Lake Elmo, Minnesota USA
ContraryCol: He seems to have started the way he means to go on.
If he is not prepared to communicate with you on any depth about himself from the safety of his pc on such fundimentally important issues to you then what the hell would he be like once he feels he has won you over?
It is too often the case that the ones who are most willing to give attract the most selfish of people who want to give back so little.
And you seem so giving OP.


Oh my goodness. That was very sweet! I am giving, and for many years it did me no good, but to be used and taken for granted. Once my son came along I decided I would never allow that again.

I'm still very loving and giving, but only to those who can also give of themselves. Enough of the one sided crap.

Thanks for your kind words!!!
teddybear



virgiomonkey Auckland, Auckland New Zealand
dirko63: shall we make a list for you


.....That's very simple 'Tongue in Cheek'..It would be every 'Male' member at C.S SINGLES......professor

J.D....E.M.C.Pgrin devil



BOBANBOBAN Pozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia
Sweet_And_Sassy: Yes, BOBANBOBAN. I did just join THIS site, but I am no fool to the games that men play on dating sites. That's why I never rush into anything. I insist on getting to know someone 'til I feel comfy enough to take things off line. I rarely get dates, but hey, some day a good one has to come along. Right?


My name is Bobanhandshake


And i don t really know for how long and what about you two have been talking...we never did hear his storie

you have to accept the fact that after some time spend et talking to some one

he realize that you are not what he is looking for, so you will probably do the same when you see that that person is not the one you are looking for....bouquet



Sweet_And_Sassy Lake Elmo, Minnesota USA
lifeis2good77: Someday maybe ? maybe we are all in the wrong place to fine who we are looking for ?


But WHERE is the right place? If not DATING or MATCH making sites, then where??? I have no clue.
frustrated
caspatch galena, Missouri USA
BOBANBOBAN: My name is Boban And i don t really know for how long and what about you two have been talking...we never did hear his storie

you have to accept the fact that after some time spend et talking to some one

he realize that you are not what he is looking for, so you will probably do the same when you see that that person is not the one you are looking for....

you are serious about no jokes for 7 daysrolling on the floor laughing now we see the serious bobanprofessor
DUBLINGUY1973 Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Sweet_And_Sassy: Thank you! Yes, he wanted me to call at first, but I said I wanted to get to know HIM a little. I guess my instincts were right.

Questions...they're a Good Thing!

BTW - you people are SO NICE! I love this.


I used to think that if someone wanted me to call them right away, that was a huge red flag right there. Whats the rush?

A lot of people can be guarded because of previous relationships (getting hurt before) but its not fair to expect you to share stuff about yourself, if they are not willing to do the same.

I'd just mark it down to experience and move on thumbs up



BOBANBOBAN Pozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia
caspatch: you are serious about no jokes for 7 days now we see the serious boban


well i never was a suck up...only a joker



Sweet_And_Sassy Lake Elmo, Minnesota USA
virgiomonkey: ...And you mean to tell me, there are no so called 'Woman players' on this site either......Yeah right....

J.D....E.M.C.P


Where did I say THAT? Please do NOT put words in MY mouth. TYVM tongue

I merely stated that I am not a fool to it.
You can handle the female playas however you wish.
Good luck!



lifeis2good77 brooks,alberta, Alberta Canada
Sweet_And_Sassy: But WHERE is the right place? If not DATING or MATCH making sites, then where??? I have no clue.



Who realy knows maybe what you are looking for is here you just don't konw it yet maybe he's sitting at the coffee shop too me it's just the matter of being at the right place at the right
time relax your time will come as too everyone.So don't
frustrated ! justbanana



Ashes Punta del Este Uruguay
Sweet_And_Sassy: Yes, BOBANBOBAN. I did just join THIS site, but I am no fool to the games that men play on dating sites. That's why I never rush into anything. I insist on getting to know someone 'til I feel comfy enough to take things off line. I rarely get dates, but hey, some day a good one has to come along. Right?


Yes, I am sure the right one will come along, just have some(alot) of patience, and check them out VERY well!
Only a spot of sane advice hereteddybear
ContraryCol crawley, West Sussex, England UK
In response to: Thanks for your kind words!!!

Your welcome sassy.

hug



Sweet_And_Sassy Lake Elmo, Minnesota USA
BOBANBOBAN: My name is Boban And i don t really know for how long and what about you two have been talking...we never did hear his storie

you have to accept the fact that after some time spend et talking to some one

he realize that you are not what he is looking for, so you will probably do the same when you see that that person is not the one you are looking for....


Well I might buy that if it had not been as simple as...
him telling me "I'm very interested. [Sent me flower]. We have so much in common. Call me on my phone".

Then (I) ask appropriate questions.

and his reply was rude and childish!

I would send you all of our emails, but I deleted them already. I have NOTHING to hide. Although I sense your skepticism.




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