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chuck a bucket of water over it

fates just around the corner ready to smack you in the face

for How long????

We take the time to repair our own selves , and get the past behind us , so we can be ready when that Special One Appears, we dont need to be trying to still clean up outr Past..... so fix yourself up, new paint job if possible and Stay Ready

I just 'be happy single'.

I won't go out with someone just because I don't want to be on my own because I'm perfectly happy on my own and have been for the most part of the three and a half years since I came out of a long term relationship.

If I'm seeing someone it's because I want to be seeing them...not just because I don't want to feel those 'alone' times.
Alone times are ok in my book.

.................. ...Well said...Young Lady.....To many people are looking for a Partner to make them so called'Happy'....But really they should be 'Happy' in themselves first....

J.D

I`ve been alone for 32 yrs. except for one relationship lasting 3 1/2 yrs. I never had time with 3 jobs, raising 5 kids,without child support. I don`t ever think it`s late, because I feel the same as I did when I was 40. Now that I`m 75, I`m still told I look 15 younger.I feel sexy, & think that some people age gracefully, like vintage wine. Some men can`t get past the numbers, but I have no reason to lie.moonkitten -meow.......

just concentrate on fulfilling your "other" needs.... preferrably with someone who's name you wont remember in the morning and whom you'll never see again !!!!

...and you're name was....

Well time to remove the chastity belt put on that string Bikini and take a plunge of the dock and get yourself all WET!

That a hard one... It would be impossible for me to find the right relationship, all I can say So I'll just have to wait till the right relationship finds me, hopefully someday

In the meantime I'll just be with a good friend only so I won't have to be alone and feel lonely

Bond....


...James Bond !!!

I suppose I would wonder if you're on a 'dry dock' because you're not finding a person you want to be with, or if it is because you are not sure of who or what kind of relationship you are looking for.

Go out more and do the things you like to do, then you have more chances of finding someone with similar interest's

Great post. I live in a small town (had lived for years in a cosmopolitan area) so it's even more difficult. Try to look at it this way: you don't want to be damaged by someone. God doesn't want to see you get hurt. A little bit of rain on dirt makes the whole darn field muddy. And so on. I am so impatient, myself. I struggled for so long with my love/passion, and now that I feel so ready to love and be wanted, desired, loved, cherished, all those beautiful things, it is elusive. Funny, when I resisted what were probably good matches for me, back in the day, there were enough of them for me to have made a good partner. Now that I really, really want to, it is so elusive. Life! Hanging in there, though, and thanking God for keeping me out of harm's way, even though loneliness for a lover persists. (although I am not a "lonely" type--very happy when I am alone much of the time. Still, I need a hunky warm body next to mine. I'd rather not get stuck with a turd, though. Kapiche?

I really like this post-see my profile. And do you have a picture? Moonkitten

And WHERE is your mind?????- Especially with an accent of negativity.....Meow! -You`re not getting any purr, this time. Moonkitten

Is 32 yrs too long?????

Intended for the someone who said to chuck water over "IT" (?)