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Ok, OK I'm only joking

What I want to know is this....

Why do women get more post's, email's etc. from males on something like this site, and in the bars, and it's only the "good looking" guys that get the most responce and the "ugly" blokes get nothing.

So, here's an open thread.

Just by looking at this site and by drinking in bars, clubs etc, it don't take an brain surgeon to work out that women have a better chance of getting a date which then leads onto a relationship than a man.
My god even the ugly ones get someone.

I know "some" blokes are after a quick "lay", but I'm just curious, so don't shout me down on this one.

So let me know how this works.

Guys is to do with something between your trousers or girls is it that your always horny

thats an easy one - women get more emails because many women still want the man to do the persuing - however in general I think there are more decent single women out there so if you brave up and make the first move you would probably have a better shot at a relationship than a woman will with finding a guy worth keeping

thanks for the words of advise, but we live in an age of equals so where's the women making the first move for a change

I personally find it hard to find people that attract my attention - when I first joined the site very few of the mens profiles' I viewed actually said anything. So do I choose someone just on their looks alone? No - I want to have a hint of their character and personality as well.

They maybe highly educated, intelligent and extremely interesting men .... but you wouldn't have a clue by their profiles. I've given up and am here on the forums - I want a friendship first as well and I personally find that men are not willing to take the time and effort to even get that far. So I used to have a lengthly profile but I'm changed it to something simple and I'm having fun getting to know people through the forums instead. I've made some wonderful friends.

um...since population is pretty close to 50/50...if the chicks are hooking up, the same amount of men are. unless, of course, the chicks are taking several of them...

Yeah I just wanted to let you know that I don't think that's a regular house cat in your picture. Maybe you should get the opinion of a vetenarian, though. I might be wrong, though.

Thats why im here too langleyyour so smart

the way you make your statements is so concise and e loquent

you are a woman of such high moral fibre

congratulations

Erm you could be right there buddy.

Her claws are longer as well.

oops, my last thread on here was for betrayed.

I'll agree with langley, but like I said, this is not one to one dating in a way, it's more of a friendship thing.
When you meet the person face to face THEN and only THEN will you know that you'll like the person through things like body language etc.
So can anyone tell me if you where talking to a person on here and knew straight away whether they like the other person or not?
And that's not by them saying that they liked you.

Thanks Clearskiez for your kind words .

BigCat this is just the first step .. of course you would have to meet someone in person and spend time getting to know them one on one as well. I think though that this is a way to open your world to more possiblities then in "real" life ..... you also need to meet the people in real life to make it a reality.

oh ye she's right bigcat

she knows wot she's talking about

UVE GOT TO REMEMBER TO LIVE GODAMIT, LIVE!

I agree with you 100 per cent there langleygirl.
So what you are saying is that this is a "friendship" site, which "could" develop into a relationship.

Nice one Clearskiez80, but if you think I sit infront of this thing day in and day out your wrong dude.
I'm in entertainments, so I meet people all the time.
still don't know why I'm still single in my game though

maybe u just dont really want to nbe with someone deep down inside cos u know u like your independence

i dont have any idea dude

i ask my self the same question

dude..... where do i find this ?...i know you piss laughing your self with that
yes you...

I'm a little old fashioned, so I want the guy to make the first move.

so that means if i make the first move i am a bud guy????

??? who are you talking to.