What do you think is the most common cause of divorce?

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rob4u777 Charlotte Amalie, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)
Divorce is very high in the USA...perhaps 80%....the relationships are not lasting very long these days.

i say cheating and money are the main issues.

What do you think?
caspatch galena, Missouri USA
marriagelaugh laugh
woodzchick Boonies, Virginia USA
Falling into lust..falling out of lust....love was never there.
rdnckgrl Margaritaville, Tennessee USA
Lack of communication conversing
hoaithu Saigon, Ho Chi Minh Vietnam
rdnckgrl: Lack of communication


That's what I think too. thumbs up



somechick Cincinnati Ohio, Ohio USA
Lack of communication.

Lack of commitment.

Lack of maturity.

Lack of trust.


Physical/Verbal abuseive spouse.

Drinking
LoveableOne Melbourne, Victoria Australia
woodzchick: Falling into lust..falling out of lust....love was never there.


Wow so true!

rdnckgrl: Lack of communication


With all the mobile\cell phones, radios, satelite dishes internet etc., how can that be possible? rolling on the floor laughing

Seriously yes, thats also true sadly...
rdnckgrl Margaritaville, Tennessee USA
somechick: Lack of communication.

Lack of commitment.

Lack of maturity.

Lack of trust.Physical/Verbal abuseive spouse.

Drinking



thumbs up BINGO !
rdnckgrl Margaritaville, Tennessee USA
LoveableOne: Wow so true!
With all the mobilecell phones, radios, satelite dishes internet etc., how can that be possible?

Seriously yes, thats also true sadly...


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LoveableOne Melbourne, Victoria Australia
somechick: Lack of communication.

Lack of commitment.

Lack of maturity.

Lack of trust.Physical/Verbal abuseive spouse.

Drinking


Hi some, well said..



saseez lakes entrance, Victoria Australia
somechick: Lack of communication.

Lack of commitment.

Lack of maturity.

Lack of trust.Physical/Verbal abuseive spouse.

Drinking
and just plain old selfishness wine wine thumbs up



somechick Cincinnati Ohio, Ohio USA
LoveableOne: Hi some, well said..



Hi sweet man.Thank you.
oldernwiser101 Hutchinson, Kansas USA
rdnckgrl: Lack of communication


That and lack of true love and commitment to the other person. Seems like these days most people are not into making it work when times get rough when it is just so easy to walk away without giving any effort at making things work JMO professor
Big_John Ocean Springs, Mississippi USA
Divorces often happen because people rarely discuss their expectations in detail prior to marriage, are less willing to work on their marriages afterwards, and would like quick solutions rather than having to resolve issues.

But who really knows; people get married for the wrong reasons and get divorce for the right reasons! Believe this and I will marry you!!!!
woodzchick Boonies, Virginia USA
My mom and dad have been married 46 years. There was times when things got rough, but they are even more in love today, as the first time they met. One time I asked my dad what was one of the happiest times in his life. He said other than us children, the day he met my mother.

People do not work at marriage anymore. When things get hard, they bail out. I think of all the times that my mom and dad could of bailed out and didn't. I really admire them for hanging in there and I can see the love between them.purple heart
Dawn7z SALEM OR,DENVER CO, Oregon USA
apart from abuse selfishness
somechick: Lack of communication.

Lack of commitment.

Lack of maturity.

Lack of trust.Physical/Verbal abuseive spouse.

Drinking
thumbs up thumbs up

Lack of being on the same
page in terms of values b4 getting married.

hug
tina_olson Westby, Wisconsin USA
I think there are alot of reason's, people don't take marriage seriously anymore--they figure if they have a disagreement it's easier to just say to hell with thing's and divorce than try and work it out....



constanza Aude, Languedoc-Roussillon France
a lack of commitment to staying together
rubendario Hartford, Connecticut USA
somechick: Lack of communication.

Lack of commitment.

Lack of maturity.

Lack of trust.Physical/Verbal abuseive spouse.

Drinking


And

CjTenorSax: Lack of being on the same
page in terms of values b4 getting married.


Good answers!!thumbs up thumbs up

Wouldn't real deep friendship before marriage/commitment solve all those? dunno




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