When we are tired we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago

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BodyShotzzz St. Paul, Minnesota USA

Mon Sep 28, 2009 5:00 AM CST : “When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago”.

Rejection hurts, no one enjoys being stood up especially on a saturday night. "Ill be there in a bit i have some work stuff to finish up" Sitting, passing the time, butterflies in your stomach waiting for their call back or text. check the mirror - perfect! Few hours fly by and its getting later. Its been more than a bit and still no call, now ive been waiting 2 days and nothing. Im crushed. Its guys like that who make me feel disgusted. just hit it and quit it. i cant help but blame myself for the no show.

im a great girl just lonely, what did i do wrong?

saseez lakes entrance, Victoria Australia

Mon Sep 28, 2009 5:05 AM CST : “When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago”.

its how the saying goes it NOT YOU ITS THEM and some ppl are just hopeless..there are men out thee for what ever reasons they have..just treat ppl like crap..... and yes visa versa also ....

stay strong there is decent ppl out there ..you just learned early they were not the ones for you....

Merriweather Adelaide, South Australia Australia

Mon Sep 28, 2009 5:09 AM CST : “When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago”.

BodyShotzzz: Rejection hurts, no one enjoys being stood up especially on a saturday night. "Ill be there in a bit i have some work stuff to finish up" Sitting, passing the time, butterflies in your stomach waiting for their call back or text. check the mirror - perfect! Few hours fly by and its getting later. Its been more than a bit and still no call, now ive been waiting 2 days and nothing. Im crushed. Its guys like that who make me feel disgusted. just hit it and quit it. i cant help but blame myself for the no show. im a great girl just lonely, what did i do wrong?

Hi doll

Yes... what do we ever do wrong...copped my rejection this morning by mail....

Just before I left to drive to work... what a crying day.

but sending empowerment... or what I have left of it.. to you.

sweet_saucy2008 Northwest, Tennessee USA

Mon Sep 28, 2009 5:13 AM CST : “When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago”.

You have experienced what many of us do at one time or another. The problem is simply that you met a loser. If he was really into meeting you he would have. Since he didn't you consider yourself unfortunate. Lonliness is a double edged sword. On the one hand we fall prey to a smooth player and when we cannot get them, we feel like we have done something to bring it on. Trust me, when the guy is real you won't feel lonely any longer.

Scubadiva Strasbourg, Alsace France

Mon Sep 28, 2009 5:25 AM CST : “When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago”.

BodyShotzzz: Rejection hurts, no one enjoys being stood up especially on a saturday night. "Ill be there in a bit i have some work stuff to finish up" Sitting, passing the time, butterflies in your stomach waiting for their call back or text. check the mirror - perfect! Few hours fly by and its getting later. Its been more than a bit and still no call, now ive been waiting 2 days and nothing. Im crushed. Its guys like that who make me feel disgusted. just hit it and quit it. i cant help but blame myself for the no show. im a great girl just lonely, what did i do wrong?

You waited. That's what you did wrong. 1 hour MAXXXX, then leave and forget the turd.

Merriweather Adelaide, South Australia Australia

Mon Sep 28, 2009 5:28 AM CST : “When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago”.

Scubadiva: You waited. That's what you did wrong. 1 hour MAXXXX, then leave and forget the turd.

Hi Scuba

Easier said than done... but if you have strength... send it over to us who are hurting.

almera03 portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK

Mon Sep 28, 2009 5:29 AM CST : “When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago”.

Scubadiva: You waited. That's what you did wrong. 1 hour MAXXXX, then leave and forget the turd.

Your a tough woman

If i ever mail you ...drunk or sober ....block me immediately

Boban1 Pozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia

Mon Sep 28, 2009 5:37 AM CST : “When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago”.

BodyShotzzz: Rejection hurts, no one enjoys being stood up especially on a saturday night. "Ill be there in a bit i have some work stuff to finish up" Sitting, passing the time, butterflies in your stomach waiting for their call back or text. check the mirror - perfect! Few hours fly by and its getting later. Its been more than a bit and still no call, now ive been waiting 2 days and nothing. Im crushed. Its guys like that who make me feel disgusted. just hit it and quit it. i cant help but blame myself for the no show. im a great girl just lonely, what did i do wrong?

Ill turn on my Cristal ball in a minute....

Merriweather Adelaide, South Australia Australia

Mon Sep 28, 2009 5:40 AM CST : “When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago”.

Boban1: Ill turn on my Cristal ball in a minute....

Please do gypsy man.... let us know only the good stuff... make it up if you have to....

Boban1 Pozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia

Mon Sep 28, 2009 5:45 AM CST : “When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago”.

Merriweather: Please do gypsy man.... let us know only the good stuff... make it up if you have to....

My point was that we cannot possibly know what went wrong

call it a misfortune,cold feet in the last minute ,poetic justice,
equality of the universe...

point is we don`t know... all we can offeris some comforting words

morgan5 somewhere sunny , Canarias Spain

Mon Sep 28, 2009 5:45 AM CST : “When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago”.

They maybe a valid reason this happened?

morgan5 somewhere sunny , Canarias Spain

Mon Sep 28, 2009 5:46 AM CST : “When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago”.

Boban1: My point was that we cannot possibly know what went wrong

call it a misfortune,cold feet in the last minute ,poetic justice,
equality of the universe...

point is we don`t know... all we can offeris some comforting words

jessejess47 ogdensburg, New York USA

Mon Sep 28, 2009 5:48 AM CST : “When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago”.

BodyShotzzz: Rejection hurts, no one enjoys being stood up especially on a saturday night. "Ill be there in a bit i have some work stuff to finish up" Sitting, passing the time, butterflies in your stomach waiting for their call back or text. check the mirror - perfect! Few hours fly by and its getting later. Its been more than a bit and still no call, now ive been waiting 2 days and nothing. Im crushed. Its guys like that who make me feel disgusted. just hit it and quit it. i cant help but blame myself for the no show. im a great girl just lonely, what did i do wrong?

What you did wrong was you let him "Hit It"(nice phrase by the way) maybe you should have waited a bit...and if you did then maybe he is a ass and not much you can do about that so let it go and move on...well move on anyway....

tfox1967 ayrshire, Central, Scotland UK

Mon Sep 28, 2009 6:02 AM CST : “When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago”.

BodyShotzzz: Rejection hurts, no one enjoys being stood up especially on a saturday night. "Ill be there in a bit i have some work stuff to finish up" Sitting, passing the time, butterflies in your stomach waiting for their call back or text. check the mirror - perfect! Few hours fly by and its getting later. Its been more than a bit and still no call, now ive been waiting 2 days and nothing. Im crushed. Its guys like that who make me feel disgusted. just hit it and quit it. i cant help but blame myself for the no show. im a great girl just lonely, what did i do wrong?

sorry to hear that at least you found him out early he could have used you first and the feelings you were getting was only lust if it was love there would be more pain i went through something similar only advice i can give you is keep looking your a lovely girl it wont be long someone will snap you up i hope you find happieness soon all the best

BodyShotzzz St. Paul, Minnesota USA

Mon Sep 28, 2009 10:51 PM CST : “When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago”.

Well thank you everyone for the feed back

The guy is long gone from now. Its pathetic what he did and definitely inconsiderate. Im young but one day ill snatch up a sweet guy who knows how to treat my soul

You all are so thoughtful. Thanks

virgiomonkey Auckland, Auckland New Zealand

Mon Sep 28, 2009 11:04 PM CST : “When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago”.

BodyShotzzz: Rejection hurts, no one enjoys being stood up especially on a saturday night. "Ill be there in a bit i have some work stuff to finish up" Sitting, passing the time, butterflies in your stomach waiting for their call back or text. check the mirror - perfect! Few hours fly by and its getting later. Its been more than a bit and still no call, now ive been waiting 2 days and nothing. Im crushed. Its guys like that who make me feel disgusted. just hit it and quit it. i cant help but blame myself for the no show. im a great girl just lonely, what did i do wrong?

.....You did nothing wrong.....So stop blaming yourself...and as for the Guy who stood you up....what a 'gutless spineless coward' he truly is....and really sorry on whats happen here ....and I am sure a lot of good Guys on here will concur with me.....and say it as well, there still 'Good Guys' out there...So this is just for you......

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J.D

Scubadiva Strasbourg, Alsace France

Tue Sep 29, 2009 1:42 PM CST : “When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago”.

Merriweather: Hi Scuba

Easier said than done... but if you have strength... send it over to us who are hurting.

Hi Merri

I'd be happy to. You know, you say it's easier said than done and you're right. If you put all eggs in one basket and if you make yourself too accessible, then "some" people will think you're not worth the pursuit.

Scubadiva Strasbourg, Alsace France

Tue Sep 29, 2009 1:43 PM CST : “When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago”.

almera03: Your a tough woman

If i ever mail you ...drunk or sober ....block me immediately

Okay, will do

It's not about being "tough". It's about not being a sucker.

bettyboop63 glasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK

Tue Sep 29, 2009 1:49 PM CST : “When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago”.

BodyShotzzz: Rejection hurts, no one enjoys being stood up especially on a saturday night. "Ill be there in a bit i have some work stuff to finish up" Sitting, passing the time, butterflies in your stomach waiting for their call back or text. check the mirror - perfect! Few hours fly by and its getting later. Its been more than a bit and still no call, now ive been waiting 2 days and nothing. Im crushed. Its guys like that who make me feel disgusted. just hit it and quit it. i cant help but blame myself for the no show. im a great girl just lonely, what did i do wrong?

you didnt go wrong he did...

Apostophe Boksburg, Johannesburg South Africa

Tue Sep 29, 2009 3:31 PM CST : “When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago”.

A cousin of mine told one of my daughters a while ago:

Men are like buses. The next one is just around the corner.

Sometimes it's good when the table is laid out but the guest doesn't arrive...

Take heart.

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