Kick him to the curb

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2radiant4u Stone Mountain, Georgia USA

Sat Oct 24, 2009 1:36 PM CST : Kick him to the curb!

Need some friendly advice! I recently kick this guy to the curb that I was dating because I have this strange feeling that he was still dating his ex girlfriend, which she is married to another guy. Anyway, he dated her for 3 years. He and I were on face book chatting with one another while he just stops chatting with me all together for no reason. I called him like three times in a row, when he didn’t answer, so I called him on my house phone and he pick up and asked who was I? I asked him “Why the hell you’re not answering you phone?” He answered “What you’re doing babe?” I demanded that he answered my question; well he told me that his ex girlfriend daughter is over to his house along with her boyfriend so I just hung up the phone and sent him an e-mail telling him that I will be by tomorrow to pick up the rest of my things and it’s over between us. I believe that his ex was over to his house because how come he wasn’t answering any of my calls until he didn’t recognized my home number that is, to me those are sign of suspicion like he has something to hide. Tell me your option about this situation please.

thewall2 montreal, Quebec Canada

Sat Oct 24, 2009 1:38 PM CST : Kick him to the curb!

2radiant4u: Need some friendly advice! I recently kick this guy to the curb that I was dating because I have this strange feeling that he was still dating his ex girlfriend, which she is married to another guy. Anyway, he dated her for 3 years. He and I were on face book chatting with one another while he just stops chatting with me all together for no reason. I called him like three times in a row, when he didn’t answer, so I called him on my house phone and he pick up and asked who was I? I asked him “Why the hell you’re not answering you phone?” He answered “What you’re doing babe?” I demanded that he answered my question; well he told me that his ex girlfriend daughter is over to his house along with her boyfriend so I just hung up the phone and sent him an e-mail telling him that I will be by tomorrow to pick up the rest of my things and it’s over between us. I believe that his ex was over to his house because how come he wasn’t answering any of my calls until he didn’t recognized my home number that is, to me those are sign of suspicion like he has something to hide. Tell me your option about this situation please.

MAYBE YOU SHOULD DATE A TOUGHER GUY.

Abram Goshen, Ohio USA

Sat Oct 24, 2009 5:00 PM CST : Kick him to the curb!

You know the answer, 2radiant4him,it might require you being strong when you go to pick up your stuff, so stand your ground, and let him prove your suspicions wrong. You'll find out, after you've broken it off, along with his efforts, or not, to be with you.

robby246 whitby, North Yorkshire, England UK

Sat Oct 24, 2009 5:05 PM CST : Kick him to the curb!

Stand your ground, he sounds he is a wast of space.

mastic55 Long Island, New York USA

Sat Oct 24, 2009 5:10 PM CST : Kick him to the curb!

2radiant4u: Need some friendly advice! I recently kick this guy to the curb that I was dating because I have this strange feeling that he was still dating his ex girlfriend, which she is married to another guy. Anyway, he dated her for 3 years. He and I were on face book chatting with one another while he just stops chatting with me all together for no reason. I called him like three times in a row, when he didn’t answer, so I called him on my house phone and he pick up and asked who was I? I asked him “Why the hell you’re not answering you phone?” He answered “What you’re doing babe?” I demanded that he answered my question; well he told me that his ex girlfriend daughter is over to his house along with her boyfriend so I just hung up the phone and sent him an e-mail telling him that I will be by tomorrow to pick up the rest of my things and it’s over between us. I believe that his ex was over to his house because how come he wasn’t answering any of my calls until he didn’t recognized my home number that is, to me those are sign of suspicion like he has something to hide. Tell me your option about this situation please.

Kick me,please.

wildkitty mt.view, Oklahoma USA

Sat Oct 24, 2009 5:13 PM CST : Kick him to the curb!

Maybe your jumping the gun here, you said he said he was with his ex and daughter and her boyfriend. So how is he cheating with 3 people there? as for not answering the phone i have no clue maybe he realized your being to jealous..

wildkitty mt.view, Oklahoma USA

Sat Oct 24, 2009 5:16 PM CST : Kick him to the curb!

oh wait you said his ex girlfriends daughter and her boyfriend, but that still doesn't mean he is cheating, maybe he didn't answer the phone cause they were outside or went somewhere..

amelie13 Sydney, New South Wales Australia

Sat Oct 24, 2009 5:51 PM CST : Kick him to the curb!

2radiant4u: Need some friendly advice! I recently kick this guy to the curb that I was dating because I have this strange feeling that he was still dating his ex girlfriend, which she is married to another guy. ...Tell me your option about this situation please.

There's a lot that doesn't add up here but could be totally innocent in isolation. Is this is the first time anything like this has happened? How did he react to your email? I'm unsure whether it was 5 minutes or 2 hours that he left you hanging on facebook, before you actually spoke on the phone that night.

I guess what concerns me most is that for 3 years he dated a married woman. Given that they are obviously still friends & she's still married, I can understand your concern. The way he reacted during your phone call was a little strange.

There's a lot about this situation you haven't explained, but generally, if a guy you are dating isn't making you feel important to him about 95% of the time, I agree, it's time for some kerb-kicking. If your gut tells you he can't be trusted, you're probably right.

Arms2holdU wichita, Kansas USA

Sat Oct 24, 2009 5:58 PM CST : Kick him to the curb!

If someone fooled around on its simple you need to learn how to give mand what he needs. If a girl gives a guy everything he needs in bed he wont need to go anywhere eles. So the moral of the story is whatever shes doing to keep him coming back for more you need do and do it better

amelie13 Sydney, New South Wales Australia

Sat Oct 24, 2009 6:23 PM CST : Kick him to the curb!

Arms2holdU: If someone fooled around on its simple you need to learn how to give mand what he needs. If a girl gives a guy everything he needs in bed he wont need to go anywhere eles. So the moral of the story is whatever shes doing to keep him coming back for more you need do and do it better

In fairness, it's very hard to compete with the excitement of an affair with someone who is married - if that's your thing. For people involved with a married person, the thrill of being with someone you shouldn't, the thrill of stealing moments, the risk of getting caught - it intensifies everything.

2radiant4u Stone Mountain, Georgia USA

Sun Oct 25, 2009 8:58 AM CST : Kick him to the curb!

I believe when you’re in a serous relationship, that couple should be honest with each other. If he would have just answered my calls honestly I wouldn’t have been angry with him. What made me so angry with him is because how he handle the situation was flat out WRONG! I can’t accept being in any relationship with suspicion.

ladichatterlee Old Hickory, Tennessee USA

Sun Oct 25, 2009 9:00 AM CST : Kick him to the curb!

Arms2holdU: If someone fooled around on its simple you need to learn how to give mand what he needs. If a girl gives a guy everything he needs in bed he wont need to go anywhere eles. So the moral of the story is whatever shes doing to keep him coming back for more you need do and do it better

That is absolute BULLSHIT.

Englishman55 Cortona, Tuscany Italy

Sun Oct 25, 2009 9:04 AM CST : Kick him to the curb!

Definately kick him to the curb and date me instead.

I will always pick up the phone when you call

Englishman55 Cortona, Tuscany Italy

Sun Oct 25, 2009 9:09 AM CST : Kick him to the curb!

Arms2holdU: If someone fooled around on its simple you need to learn how to give mand what he needs. If a girl gives a guy everything he needs in bed he wont need to go anywhere eles. So the moral of the story is whatever shes doing to keep him coming back for more you need do and do it better

And where do you find these brainless women who think your ettiquete is right ?

Don't bother answering that..... I'm not sure I want any woman that would believe that load of crap !!

2radiant4u Stone Mountain, Georgia USA

Sun Oct 25, 2009 9:13 AM CST : Kick him to the curb!

amelie13: There's a lot that doesn't add up here but could be totally innocent in isolation. Is this is the first time anything like this has happened? How did he react to your email? I'm unsure whether it was 5 minutes or 2 hours that he left you hanging on facebook, before you actually spoke on the phone that night.

I guess what concerns me most is that for 3 years he dated a married woman. Given that they are obviously still friends & she's still married, I can understand your concern. The way he reacted during your phone call was a little strange.

There's a lot about this situation you haven't explained, but generally, if a guy you are dating isn't making you feel important to him about 95% of the time, I agree, it's time for some kerb-kicking. If your gut tells you he can't be trusted, you're probably right.

Concerning his ex yes, this is the first time I caught him. Concerning the email he sent me three, the first one he wanted to know what he did wrong. The second one he stated that I had broken up with him for nothing and the third one he stated that I need to swing on to the next COCK then!

Englishman55 Cortona, Tuscany Italy

Sun Oct 25, 2009 9:15 AM CST : Kick him to the curb!

2radiant4u: Concerning his ex yes, this is the first time I caught him. Concerning the email he sent me three, the first one he wanted to know what he did wrong. The second one he stated that I had broken up with him for nothing and the third one he stated that I need to swing on to the next COCK then!

He sounds like a great guy !!.... not

Sundown40 Houston, Missouri USA

Sun Oct 25, 2009 9:22 AM CST : Kick him to the curb!

2radiant4u: Concerning his ex yes, this is the first time I caught him. Concerning the email he sent me three, the first one he wanted to know what he did wrong. The second one he stated that I had broken up with him for nothing and the third one he stated that I need to swing on to the next COCK then!

HE'D BE KICKED

I might have given him a chance to explain till that comment

2radiant4u Stone Mountain, Georgia USA

Sun Oct 25, 2009 11:33 AM CST : Kick him to the curb!

Arms2holdU: If someone fooled around on its simple you need to learn how to give mand what he needs. If a girl gives a guy everything he needs in bed he wont need to go anywhere eles. So the moral of the story is whatever shes doing to keep him coming back for more you need do and do it better

No, that’s not the case at all because he told me that I was the best that he ever had and I treated him better than any other woman ever. I believe the reason why he’s still seeing his ex is because she paid his bill and promoted his band Altered, she was more of a sugar momma, he’s 26yrs old and she’s 39 yrs old.

Boban1 Pozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia

Sun Oct 25, 2009 11:35 AM CST : Kick him to the curb!

2radiant4u: Need some friendly advice! I recently kick this guy to the curb that I was dating because I have this strange feeling that he was still dating his ex girlfriend, which she is married to another guy. Anyway, he dated her for 3 years. He and I were on face book chatting with one another while he just stops chatting with me all together for no reason. I called him like three times in a row, when he didn’t answer, so I called him on my house phone and he pick up and asked who was I? I asked him “Why the hell you’re not answering you phone?” He answered “What you’re doing babe?” I demanded that he answered my question; well he told me that his ex girlfriend daughter is over to his house along with her boyfriend so I just hung up the phone and sent him an e-mail telling him that I will be by tomorrow to pick up the rest of my things and it’s over between us. I believe that his ex was over to his house because how come he wasn’t answering any of my calls until he didn’t recognized my home number that is, to me those are sign of suspicion like he has something to hide. Tell me your option about this situation please.

because of a strange feeling??????

2radiant4u Stone Mountain, Georgia USA

Sun Oct 25, 2009 11:36 AM CST : Kick him to the curb!

thewall2: MAYBE YOU SHOULD DATE A TOUGHER GUY.

You are soooo right!

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