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gday sweety

just an honest answer,now we know the life is getting hard,everything are expensive but this is just my opinion .
the first thing enter of our mind when we feel inlove with someone is what situation he have or she have personally,we think if he or she has a good or permanent job?or if he is divorced how many kids he have to support,right?
these days in 100 people who will after just love and dont care about money,i bet if there is 10 in 100,thats is lucky..

now to those people who had already and never scared to be with someone with out money,i can say that is the real love.. jmo..

sawadee ka tainogirl,we have a saying this country long time now...'no money,no honey'

That's kinda sad, but practical.

If you are young then if you love somebody and he/she has a reasonable education and works hard then he/she should eventually earn good money and your love will help......... if the person is a worthless sack of shit he/she is unlikely to change just because you love them.

So - either go for potential or reality..... but don't imagine you can turn a lazy person with zero motivation to do well into a hardworking citizen and good mother or father material.

If...my future to be wife ,and i...would live on a desert island...money would `nt be of any use,what so ever

but lets face the cold reality

this is a materialistic world ,that we are living in

Ye ur right...Boom Boom, 10 dollar, me love you long time.

silly girl.

You mean just 10 dollars for Boom Boom? Cheap! Huh?

I give you boom boom boom boom boom.... you give me 50 dollah I say:

'tank u velly much!'

I nice man.

ok... thats the first time that i feel left out cos of the

economic crisis...it could improve my sex life ...

It is the reality .... that's what we work and live for in Western countries: To pay bills.

Two people can do it easier. Less stress in relationships

Good topic

10 dollar?for boom boom?

My concern would not be so much with how much money he has. It would be with his work ethic. Where I live at, people are losing jobs like crazy. At this time, you really can't blame him if he has lost his job, unless it was not involuntary. The questions that I would be asking myself is...is he actively looking for another job or is he continuing his education to get a better job.

My concern is not what he can buy me. Since I have dated someone that could not hold a job and wanted to sit around and do nothing all the time, my only concern is that he has a good work ethic and a legal job. I don't like people that are lazy ALL the time. Sure, we all need to kick back and relax at times. But he needs to take having a job seriously.

I'm not really looking for anybody right now, but these things mentioned are what I find as desirable traits in a man. He doesn't have to have a fancy job. If he pulls 8-12 hours a day on a farm, it is a job. Is he happy with what he is doing? That makes a difference too. If he is not happy at his job, he may not be happy when he comes home.

I don't need anybody to buy me anything. If I do meet someone in the future and decide to have a relationship with them, I'm looking for someone that is willing to contribute equally with me. I don't need someone to support me, nor do I want that. Even though I don't have a job right now, I'm still able to provide for myself while getting my education. When I can't do that anymore, I will give up the education and start looking for a job to support my family. I never want to be in a situation where someone has to support me again. I can't handle that. I am an independent person and take pride in that.

When it comes to boom boom, 10 dollar or 50 dollar, as long as its money in their pocket.

Money doesn't ever cross my mind when considering a lady.

Common Guys (Gypsy man and Robert) .. I just couldn't resist to play with "Boom Boom" and it is exceptionally cheap

you are right, its easier with two people...but a relationship should never be based on someones bank balance or earning power.

You mean like Them Pay for Boom Boom?

*I need to go outside for a gulp of fresh air.*

But Kyriacos I do respect your point of view on a subject

Well said K.

Listen!

I dislike even the concept of work!

I retired from 'work' in January 2006.

This year I had to work my butt off to recoup over $200,000 lost on my investments due to the recession; I've made it all back and more but it was bloody hard work..... I had to spend sometimes a whole hour per day doing complicated investment deals!

Thank God it's all over now, and I can relax and enjoy the fruit of my labours!

Work ethic? Nyet!

I prefer NOT to work, thank you!

Well, enjoy life Robert!