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gagagaga waterford, Waterford Ireland
Thu Oct 29, 2009 5:22 AM CST : is marriage worth it considering what you pay after divorce
doh beware of the future single guyscheers
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bettyboop63 glasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK
Thu Oct 29, 2009 5:24 AM CST : is marriage worth it considering what you pay after divorce
gagagaga: beware of the future single guys


Ive never been married but what I have noticed is people in long trem relationships who marry ...then divorce weeks later ..thumbs up
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Grandepensees Brussels, Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium
Thu Oct 29, 2009 5:40 AM CST : is marriage worth it considering what you pay after divorce
gagagaga: beware of the future single guys


My first marriage was worth it, I got three wonderful children out of it, but my second was a complete waste of time and energy. Coming from that last, I would have to answer no, marriage isn't worth it when one seriously considers what one pays after divorce.

Not only that, but unless marriage can benefit both parties ( financial gains, citizenship, health benefits or other gains ) what really is the purpose of marriage now? The 'sight of God' is getting more shallow as the decades go by and the 'if you really love me...' argument is pretty weak too, so what is there left to marry for? dunno

Unless you plan on having more children and don't want them born bastards ( which they still will be called at one time or another in their life anyways...)
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gagagaga waterford, Waterford Ireland
Thu Oct 29, 2009 5:43 AM CST : is marriage worth it considering what you pay after divorce
true children are priceless
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rk696969 Springfield, Tennessee USA
Thu Oct 29, 2009 5:43 AM CST : is marriage worth it considering what you pay after divorce
Grandepensees: My first marriage was worth it, I got three wonderful children out of it, but my second was a complete waste of time and energy. Coming from that last, I would have to answer no, marriage isn't worth it when one seriously considers what one pays after divorce.

Not only that, but unless marriage can benefit both parties ( financial gains, citizenship, health benefits or other gains ) what really is the purpose of marriage now? The 'sight of God' is getting more shallow as the decades go by and the 'if you really love me...' argument is pretty weak too, so what is there left to marry for?

Unless you plan on having more children and don't want them born bastards ( which they still will be called at one time or another in their life anyways...)


I was with my wife for 10 years before we married and 6 after and total bliss it was ! cheers
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Grandepensees Brussels, Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium
Thu Oct 29, 2009 5:45 AM CST : is marriage worth it considering what you pay after divorce
rk696969: I was with my wife for 10 years before we married and 6 after and total bliss it was !


thumbs up

But not bliss enough to stay married, I gatherdunno
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rk696969 Springfield, Tennessee USA
Thu Oct 29, 2009 5:48 AM CST : is marriage worth it considering what you pay after divorce
Grandepensees: But not bliss enough to stay married, I gather


Do you have anything nice to say ! She passed away !
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Grandepensees Brussels, Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium
Thu Oct 29, 2009 5:52 AM CST : is marriage worth it considering what you pay after divorce
rk696969: Do you have anything nice to say ! She passed away !


Oh, well... Forgive me then, how should I have known?

I wish you more bliss with whomever you decide to be with next.

Again, sorry.dunno
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rk696969 Springfield, Tennessee USA
Thu Oct 29, 2009 5:54 AM CST : is marriage worth it considering what you pay after divorce
Grandepensees: Oh, well... Forgive me then, how should I have known?

I wish you more bliss with whomever you decide to be with next.

Again, sorry.


We all didn't fail at marriage !
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Grandepensees Brussels, Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium
Thu Oct 29, 2009 5:55 AM CST : is marriage worth it considering what you pay after divorce
rk696969: We all didn't fail at marriage !


Whatever dude roll eyes
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rk696969 Springfield, Tennessee USA
Thu Oct 29, 2009 5:57 AM CST : is marriage worth it considering what you pay after divorce
Grandepensees: Whatever dude


I didn't mean you !
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Grandepensees Brussels, Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium
Thu Oct 29, 2009 5:58 AM CST : is marriage worth it considering what you pay after divorce
rk696969: I didn't mean you !


Oh, that's a first.
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rk696969 Springfield, Tennessee USA
Thu Oct 29, 2009 6:00 AM CST : is marriage worth it considering what you pay after divorce
WOW !
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HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA
Thu Oct 29, 2009 6:41 AM CST : is marriage worth it considering what you pay after divorce
If one is contemplating divorce, why would one contemplate marriage??confused
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somechick Cincinnati Ohio, Ohio USA
Thu Oct 29, 2009 7:02 AM CST : is marriage worth it considering what you pay after divorce
Who really does the paying when/if there's children involved?
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rk696969 Springfield, Tennessee USA
Thu Oct 29, 2009 7:05 AM CST : is marriage worth it considering what you pay after divorce
Everyone pays when your hearts get ripped out including the kids !
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kanokwan Petchabun, Amphoe Bang Kapi Thailand
Thu Oct 29, 2009 7:05 AM CST : is marriage worth it considering what you pay after divorce
HJFinAZ: If one is contemplating divorce, why would one contemplate marriage??
sawadee ka HJKinAZ,yes true,marriage is same as long term relationship but over rated,only diff is the documents bind u together...conversing thumbs up
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tina_olson Westby, Wisconsin USA
Thu Oct 29, 2009 7:11 AM CST : is marriage worth it considering what you pay after divorce
Never been Married but when I do, I plan on it being for life..
I was in a 20 yr relationship and when I walked out I only took what was mine and our 2 beautiful daughter's.....
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Amenda shenyang, Fuzhu China
Thu Oct 29, 2009 7:13 AM CST : is marriage worth it considering what you pay after divorce
HJFinAZ: If one is contemplating divorce, why would one contemplate marriage??


exactly,
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hopefloats Slim's Lady, Tennessee USA
Thu Oct 29, 2009 7:15 AM CST : is marriage worth it considering what you pay after divorce
gagagaga: beware of the future single guys



Anyone who walks into marriage light-heartedly is a fool!
'Nuff said.wine
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