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Polarbutterfly Somewhere, Northwest Territories Canada
Fri Oct 30, 2009 12:54 PM CST : Rejection..
Why is that when you're not interested in someone,
romantically he or she has to send nasty emails?
I just don't get it.Maybe the saying,"The Mirror Has Two Faces"
is true.Hmm,go figure.wave
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strict tehran Iran
Fri Oct 30, 2009 12:58 PM CST : Rejection..
Polarbutterfly: Why is that when you're not interested in someone,
romantically he or she has to send nasty emails?
I just don't get it.Maybe the saying,"The Mirror Has Two Faces"
is true.Hmm,go figure.
did you get some?
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Polarbutterfly Somewhere, Northwest Territories Canada
Fri Oct 30, 2009 12:59 PM CST : Rejection..
Sure did,thought he was a friend,apparently not.
strict: did you get some?
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morgan5 somewhere sunny , Canarias Spain
Fri Oct 30, 2009 1:00 PM CST : Rejection..
Hi PB bouquet hurt ego maybe hug
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Sundown40 Houston, Missouri USA
Fri Oct 30, 2009 1:01 PM CST : Rejection..
Polarbutterfly: Why is that when you're not interested in someone,
romantically he or she has to send nasty emails?
I just don't get it.Maybe the saying,"The Mirror Has Two Faces"
is true.Hmm,go figure.


wave I know. Maybe because of the rejection? I answer all my emails as polite as i can be...but when they start getting belligerent...i usually just delete and go on.
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Polarbutterfly Somewhere, Northwest Territories Canada
Fri Oct 30, 2009 1:02 PM CST : Rejection..
Obviously.But if they were human
enough they'd understand that these
things happen.You can't force someone
to like you let alone love you.
morgan5: Hi PB hurt ego maybe
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CjTenorSax Atwater, Ohio USA
Fri Oct 30, 2009 1:03 PM CST : Rejection..
morgan5: Hi PB hurt ego maybe
comfort comfort hug comfort hug comfort hug
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morgan5 somewhere sunny , Canarias Spain
Fri Oct 30, 2009 1:07 PM CST : Rejection..
Polarbutterfly: Obviously.But if they were human
enough they'd understand that these
things happen.You can't force someone
to like you let alone love you.
Some people are just not to good at handling it when they don't get what they want on their terms, such a shame to loose a persons friendship as well.

Your right if the feelings aren't there, you can't force it hug wine
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Polarbutterfly Somewhere, Northwest Territories Canada
Fri Oct 30, 2009 1:09 PM CST : Rejection..
Quite so.At first things were going well,
thought I had a good friend.I explained that
I wasn't looking but wanted to be his friend.
Felt like I was being smothered with his words.
I never meant no harm.I know he's reading this.
Aaanywho.wave
morgan5: Some people are just not to good at handling it when they don't get what they want on their terms, such a shame to loose a persons friendship as well.

Your right if the feelings aren't there, you can't force it
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friends4now Melbourne, Florida USA
Fri Oct 30, 2009 1:10 PM CST : Rejection..
hurt ego is exactly that


they have to be difficult and make it worse than it is




sorry you had to get all that but it is true at least you know how they are now instead of laterhug
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Polarbutterfly Somewhere, Northwest Territories Canada
Fri Oct 30, 2009 1:11 PM CST : Rejection..
Thanks for the post.
friends4now: hurt ego is exactly thatthey have to be difficult and make it worse than it is

sorry you had to get all that but it is true at least you know how they are now instead of later
hug
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sweetowen Somewhere, Pennsylvania USA
Fri Oct 30, 2009 1:12 PM CST : Rejection..
Some people are just not good at handling rejection. I think many factors play into this. Low self-esteem, immaturity, low self-worth... I could go on. I say if someone doesn't have the same feelings for you that you have for them, move on. You can't hold onto someone who doesn't want to be held onto. And you can't force someone to feel something that they don't. You just end up looking like a fool... in their eyes & others', as well.
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Polarbutterfly Somewhere, Northwest Territories Canada
Fri Oct 30, 2009 1:14 PM CST : Rejection..
Thanks for the post,well said.
Just hate the thought that I lost
a good friend.sad flower
sweetowen: Some people are just not good at handling rejection. I think many factors play into this. Low self-esteem, immaturity, low self-worth... I could go on. I say if someone doesn't have the same feelings for you that you have for them, move on. You can't hold onto someone who doesn't want to be held onto. And you can't force someone to feel something that they don't. You just end up looking like a fool... in their eyes & others', as well.
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sweetowen Somewhere, Pennsylvania USA
Fri Oct 30, 2009 1:15 PM CST : Rejection..
Polarbutterfly: Thanks for the post,well said.
Just hate the thought that I lost
a good friend.


Obviously, he wasn't as good of a friend as you had thought, sweetie. dunno comfort
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Polarbutterfly Somewhere, Northwest Territories Canada
Fri Oct 30, 2009 1:16 PM CST : Rejection..
I think his actions were out
of desperation,desperate
to find someone NOW instead
of getting to know that someone firstly.
sweetowen: Obviously, he wasn't as good of a friend as you had thought, sweetie.
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morgan5 somewhere sunny , Canarias Spain
Fri Oct 30, 2009 1:21 PM CST : Rejection..
Polarbutterfly: Thanks for the post,well said.
Just hate the thought that I lost
a good friend.
yep, it is sad PB but you were honest about how you felt, which was the right thing to do hug teddybear bouquet
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CjTenorSax Atwater, Ohio USA
Fri Oct 30, 2009 1:23 PM CST : Rejection..
Polarbutterfly: Thanks for the post,well said.
Just hate the thought that I lost
a good friend.
comfort hug comfort hug comfort hug

Sometimes Friends say things in haste. It is possible that after some time when whomever he is has had a chance to accept and heal, the friendship could be resumed with more ground rules in place. I am sorry, Nj.hug hug hug comfort comfort hug
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Polarbutterfly Somewhere, Northwest Territories Canada
Fri Oct 30, 2009 1:26 PM CST : Rejection..
I doubt that it will ever be resumed
as he used bad language toward me.
Anyway,life goes on.Just have to make
the best of a terrible incident.
CjTenorSax: Sometimes Friends say things in haste. It is possible that after some time when whomever he is has had a chance to accept and heal, the friendship could be resumed with more ground rules in place. I am sorry, Nj.
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Polarbutterfly Somewhere, Northwest Territories Canada
Sat Oct 31, 2009 7:38 AM CST : Rejection..
To hold a grudge is not me.
Best of luck.bouquet
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krisha tokyo, Tokyo Japan
Sat Oct 31, 2009 9:52 AM CST : Rejection..
some people just like that,they cannot accept being loser..one point of bad behaviourwave
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