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rob4u777 Charlotte Amalie, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)

Fri Oct 30, 2009 5:00 PM CST : Ladies, would you ask a guy to get a VD check up before having sex with him?

And Men, would you ask a woman to get a VD check up before having sex with her?

Sexual-transmitted diseases seems to be common place. It appears that some people do not ask questions before sex. All thats on their minds is they are hot and horney and asking no questions.

So therefore, if you get a verneal disease do not be upset with your partner because remember..you did'nt ask any questions regarding safe sex.
I use condoms for protection and simple commons sense when comes to any relationship with a woman.

I would have'to know my woman's temperament and moods and emotional and psychological mind set before I have sex with her for at least three months dating or six months periods. Then I would ask both us to be check out.

When I was younger I was naive and innocent of my body and now that I am older and wiser today, I ask questions on behalf of both of us and that is to be safe and as sure as possible.

Englishman55 Cortona, Tuscany Italy

Fri Oct 30, 2009 5:03 PM CST : Ladies, would you ask a guy to get a VD check up before having sex with him?

So at midnight, when things are getting cozy.... the lady is gonna ask the guy to nip down the local STD clinic to get checked out..... bit of a passion killer !!

Why not just ask him to use a condom, and if he really is a gentleman, you don't need to ask

rubyfruit westland, Michigan USA

Fri Oct 30, 2009 5:07 PM CST : Ladies, would you ask a guy to get a VD check up before having sex with him?

I AGREE WITH THE ENGLISH MAN THATS THE RIGHT WAY IF HES A GENTELMAN

rk696969 Springfield, Tennessee USA

Fri Oct 30, 2009 5:08 PM CST : Ladies, would you ask a guy to get a VD check up before having sex with him?

rob4u777: And Men, would you ask a woman to get a VD check up before having sex with her?

Sexual-transmitted diseases seems to be common place. It appears that some people do not ask questions before sex. All thats on their minds is they are hot and horney and asking no questions.

So therefore, if you get a verneal disease do not be upset with your partner because remember..you did'nt ask any questions regarding safe sex.
I use condoms for protection and simple commons sense when comes to any relationship with a woman.

I would have'to know my woman's temperament and moods and emotional and psychological mind set before I have sex with her for at least three months dating or six months periods. Then I would ask both us to be check out.

When I was younger I was naive and innocent of my body and now that I am older and wiser today, I ask questions on behalf of both of us and that is to be safe and as sure as possible.

Just a Q/A are you not in the Virgin Islands... Why would need a jimmy hat ?

starattax kildare, Kildare Ireland

Fri Oct 30, 2009 5:09 PM CST : Ladies, would you ask a guy to get a VD check up before having sex with him?

Englishman55: So at midnight, when things are getting cozy.... the lady is gonna ask the guy to nip down the local STD clinic to get checked out..... bit of a passion killer !!

Why not just ask him to use a condom, and if he really is a gentleman, you don't need to ask

yep il second that

bestat45 saint john, New Brunswick Canada

Fri Oct 30, 2009 5:11 PM CST : Ladies, would you ask a guy to get a VD check up before having sex with him?

Englishman55: So at midnight, when things are getting cozy.... the lady is gonna ask the guy to nip down the local STD clinic to get checked out..... bit of a passion killer !!

Why not just ask him to use a condom, and if he really is a gentleman, you don't need to ask

good thinking, however, a condom alone is not fool proof against contracting sexual diseases, nor for preventing pregancy for that matter.

Englishman55 Cortona, Tuscany Italy

Fri Oct 30, 2009 5:13 PM CST : Ladies, would you ask a guy to get a VD check up before having sex with him?

bestat45: good thinking, however, a condom alone is not fool proof against contracting sexual diseases, nor for preventing pregancy for that matter.

Sorry to state the obvious the..... don't be so loose with him.... date for six months with no sex, that should clear out most STD's except AIDS, and when it comes to pregnancy, you could always try taking precautions of your own.

As a last resort...... don't resort to sex.. !!

rob4u777 Charlotte Amalie, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)

Fri Oct 30, 2009 5:16 PM CST : Ladies, would you ask a guy to get a VD check up before having sex with him?

rk696969: Just a Q/A are you not in the Virgin Islands... Why would need a jimmy hat ?

Do not believe the hype about these islands...some people here are uneducated and ignorant about their bodies and health issues.

First of all, HIV is predominate on this island one has to approach with caution. Their are some men and women who are married and cheating on one another and coming back home to their partners after meeting strangers.

rk696969 Springfield, Tennessee USA

Fri Oct 30, 2009 5:17 PM CST : Ladies, would you ask a guy to get a VD check up before having sex with him?

bestat45: good thinking, however, a condom alone is not fool proof against contracting sexual diseases, nor for preventing pregancy for that matter.

So every time you get in and drive are you waring nerf pads ! You can only take precaution to a point then it's up to the gods ! Be smart but nothing is 100%..... If you love them and yourself you will try what ever it takes to be safe !

bestat45 saint john, New Brunswick Canada

Fri Oct 30, 2009 5:18 PM CST : Ladies, would you ask a guy to get a VD check up before having sex with him?

Englishman55: Sorry to state the obvious the..... don't be so loose with him.... date for six months with no sex, that should clear out most STD's except AIDS, and when it comes to pregnancy, you could always try taking precautions of your own.

As a last resort...... don't resort to sex.. !!

uhh. my response was to your "why not just use a condom"
And i just threw in the pregancy bit, to show that condoms are not one hundred percent effective for any of it.
So yes, they are not a replacement for a check-up, unless you like russian roulette

Englishman55 Cortona, Tuscany Italy

Fri Oct 30, 2009 5:24 PM CST : Ladies, would you ask a guy to get a VD check up before having sex with him?

bestat45: uhh. my response was to your "why not just use a condom"
And i just threw in the pregancy bit, to show that condoms are not one hundred percent effective for any of it.
So yes, they are not a replacement for a check-up, unless you like russian roulette

I agree, but then no form of contraception is 100% effective.... the only sure way is abstinance. !

All experts agree that sex is a vital part of a happy and fulfilling relationship, so abstinance may just be a problem.

JMHO

rob4u777 Charlotte Amalie, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)

Fri Oct 30, 2009 5:25 PM CST : Ladies, would you ask a guy to get a VD check up before having sex with him?

bestat45: uhh. my response was to your "why not just use a condom"
And i just threw in the pregancy bit, to show that condoms are not one hundred percent effective for any of it.
So yes, they are not a replacement for a check-up, unless you like russian roulette

Why not use a condom, you ask

What about oral sex do you have protection?

rk696969 Springfield, Tennessee USA

Fri Oct 30, 2009 5:26 PM CST : Ladies, would you ask a guy to get a VD check up before having sex with him?

rob4u777: Do not believe the hype about these islands...some people here are uneducated and ignorant about their bodies and health issues.

First of all, HIV is predominate on this island one has to approach with caution. Their are some men and women who are married and cheating on one another and coming back home to their partners after meeting strangers.

It was a joke but sounds like Africa to me though. It's sad how the Gov just takes the money and does nothing to help ! Ton of money cash year comes through there so they have no excuse ! Sorry to hear about how bad it is there ! I think it's a form of population control for the Gov !

bestat45 saint john, New Brunswick Canada

Fri Oct 30, 2009 5:27 PM CST : Ladies, would you ask a guy to get a VD check up before having sex with him?

Englishman55: I agree, but then no form of contraception is 100% effective.... the only sure way is abstinance. !

All experts agree that sex is a vital part of a happy and fulfilling relationship, so abstinance may just be a problem.

JMHO

well, i certainly agree with what you are saying, but, the only way to be one hundred percent sure is to have both partners verify that they are free of any transmittable diseases. Common sense is certainly a must in any case. No need for abstinance...a person needs to do the homework first.

rob4u777 Charlotte Amalie, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)

Fri Oct 30, 2009 5:28 PM CST : Ladies, would you ask a guy to get a VD check up before having sex with him?

bestat45: uhh. my response was to your "why not just use a condom"
And i just threw in the pregancy bit, to show that condoms are not one hundred percent effective for any of it.
So yes, they are not a replacement for a check-up, unless you like russian roulette

Same question for you too.

What about oral sex do have protection for that too?

bestat45 saint john, New Brunswick Canada

Fri Oct 30, 2009 5:30 PM CST : Ladies, would you ask a guy to get a VD check up before having sex with him?

rob4u777: Same question for you too.

What about oral sex do have protection for that too?

any form of sexual contact without knowing the odds puts one at risk, quite obviously.

rk696969 Springfield, Tennessee USA

Fri Oct 30, 2009 5:30 PM CST : Ladies, would you ask a guy to get a VD check up before having sex with him?

rob4u777: Same question for you too.

What about oral sex do have protection for that too?

I need a body jimmy hat now ! I feel dirty !

Englishman55 Cortona, Tuscany Italy

Fri Oct 30, 2009 5:33 PM CST : Ladies, would you ask a guy to get a VD check up before having sex with him?

rob4u777: Why not use a condom, you ask

What about oral sex do you have protection?

It's amazing... for many years polythene bags have had a waring on them about the risk of choking if you put them in your mouth and most such bags actually have holes puncheed in them at point of manufacture..... so here you are suggesting the use of a condom, which if it had a hole punched in it would totally negate it's use in the first place....

I would suggest that the caution being expressed on this thread is as a result of insecurity within a relationship, which ultimately leads me to ask the question..... why are you with the person in the first place..... it's all about trust.... have it and it's wonderfull... loose it and forget the relationship

just my humble

bestat45 saint john, New Brunswick Canada

Fri Oct 30, 2009 5:38 PM CST : Ladies, would you ask a guy to get a VD check up before having sex with him?

Englishman55: It's amazing... for many years polythene bags have had a waring on them about the risk of choking if you put them in your mouth and most such bags actually have holes puncheed in them at point of manufacture..... so here you are suggesting the use of a condom, which if it had a hole punched in it would totally negate it's use in the first place....

I would suggest that the caution being expressed on this thread is as a result of insecurity within a relationship, which ultimately leads me to ask the question..... why are you with the person in the first place..... it's all about trust.... have it and it's wonderfull... loose it and forget the relationship

just my humble

trust is one thing, and a good and necessary thing to have, but, the person you are with, could have been unknowingly passed a sexually transmitted disease, and maybe is unaware they are carrying it as well, due to a lack of symptoms.
So...even having trust in each other, what is wrong with having a check-up before getting to the point you need to wonder.
I know someone personally who was in a relationship, and had so called trust, and now has an ucurable sexually transmitted disease for life. It can happen.

rob4u777 Charlotte Amalie, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)

Fri Oct 30, 2009 5:42 PM CST : Ladies, would you ask a guy to get a VD check up before having sex with him?

Englishman55: It's amazing... for many years polythene bags have had a waring on them about the risk of choking if you put them in your mouth and most such bags actually have holes puncheed in them at point of manufacture..... so here you are suggesting the use of a condom, which if it had a hole punched in it would totally negate it's use in the first place....

I would suggest that the caution being expressed on this thread is as a result of insecurity within a relationship, which ultimately leads me to ask the question..... why are you with the person in the first place..... it's all about trust.... have it and it's wonderfull... loose it and forget the relationship

just my humble

I have no insecurities about this question...I do not have this problem in my life..I am just curious about other people answers regarding a safe and healthy sex life.

Hello, to you, my brother.

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