Ladies, Have you ever encountered a stalker man or woman?

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rob4u777 Charlotte Amalie, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)
And for the Men,

Have you ever encountered a woman stalking you?
I have had one experience in my life from a woman stalker...that was little scary for me.

However, Who would you mine being stalk by? ( somebody you know or a famous movie star ) and why?
lrrh77 college station, Texas USA
Yes. I have. I had one man followed me home from the grocery store. That was a one time thing...ran him off pretty quick.

Another man would constantly call my work, my home, and would drive by both my work and my home. He would leave me notes and messages about how we were meant to be together even though we hadn't even been on as much as one date. He was creepy. Had to call the police on that one.

Now if he was a hot movie star like Ryan Reynolds...it would be more flattering but still kinda scary.
rob4u777 Charlotte Amalie, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)
lrrh77: Yes. I have. I had one man followed me home from the grocery store. That was a one time thing...ran him off pretty quick.

Another man would constantly call my work, my home, and would drive by both my work and my home. He would leave me notes and messages about how we were meant to be together even though we hadn't even been on as much as one date. He was creepy. Had to call the police on that one.

Now if he was a hot movie star like Ryan Reynolds...it would be more flattering but still kinda scary.


So, you like Ryan Reynolds. Refresh my mind. What known picture did he play a role in? I have'to say, I don't know who that is.

Oh! by the way, thank you for your response and Hello!
lrrh77 college station, Texas USA
rob4u777: So, you like Ryan Reynolds. Refresh my mind. What known picture did he play a role in? I have'to say, I don't know who that is.

Oh! by the way, thank you for your response and Hello!


You're welcome and hello to you.

He is probably best known for National Lampoons Van Wilder. More recently he was in X MEN 4 and The Proposal.
somechick Cincinnati Ohio, Ohio USA
I was joking around with a guy on here not to long after I first joined this site.He admitted that he'd been watching me for along time.I jokingly asked him if he was stalking me.He would question who was I was chatting with me on and write other men telling them that I was his girlfriend.He's also become very upset if I spoke to any other men on here.I finally just ended up having to block him.


Nope I wouldn't want anyone to stalk me whether they be famous or otherwise.Been there done that once.
rob4u777 Charlotte Amalie, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)
lrrh77: You're welcome and hello to you.

He is probably best known for National Lampoons Van Wilder. More recently he was in X MEN 4 and The Proposal.


Incidently, the woman who stalk me lived in New York City in Greenwich Village. I was in Washington Square park one day and spotted this woman from a balcony. I just happen to look up towards her building and an hour later she was downstairs and across the street from the square just staring at me. when I moved my position she moved. That was a weird experience!
rob4u777 Charlotte Amalie, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)
somechick: I was joking around with a guy on here not to long after I first joined this site.He admitted that he'd been watching me for along time.I jokingly asked him if he was stalking me.He would question who was I was chatting with me on and write other men telling them that I was his girlfriend.He's also become very upset if I spoke to any other men on here.I finally just ended up having to block him.Nope I wouldn't want anyone to stalk me whether they be famous or otherwise.Been there done that once.


He's got some nerve to ask who are you chatting with on CS and he don't even know you....I am glad you blocked him.

Hello, somechick. and please, give me your first name again.
somechick Cincinnati Ohio, Ohio USA
rob4u777: He's got some nerve to ask who are you chatting with on CS and he don't even know you....I am glad you blocked him.

Hello, somechick. and please, give me your first name again.


Hello my name is Anna.
venere08 Adelaide and Tuscany, South Australia Australia
rob4u777: And for the Men,

Have you ever encountered a woman stalking you?
I have had one experience in my life from a woman stalker...that was little scary for me.

However, Who would you mine being stalk by? ( somebody you know or a famous movie star ) and why?


Yes, through my cell 'phone. Went on for ages, and the quality of the mesages became alarming, with fantasy rape scenes. I never responded, as tempting as it was to tell him exactly what I thought of his behaviour.

But I did finally contact my cell phone provider, provided them with details of messages per day (there were certainly plenty to qualify), and of-course, his phone number. You see, this wasn't a very bright stalker, because he failed to realise that although he kept his number private, it always appears at the bottom the the text message sent. His was no exception!rolling on the floor laughing

So I can only imagine his surprise when he received a letter from the telo company. Oh, and he would have later heard from the police. Yep, it's a chargeable offence. I never bothered to find out who it was, as I know I don't associate with me like that. Unfortunately, half the world has access to my cell phone number, so no point in bothering to change it.

I didn't waste any further energy. And yes, no more text messages.

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venere08 Adelaide and Tuscany, South Australia Australia
I won't bother addressing all the above typos!laugh
lrrh77 college station, Texas USA
rob4u777: Incidently, the woman who stalk me lived in New York City in Greenwich Village. I was in Washington Square park one day and spotted this woman from a balcony. I just happen to look up towards her building and an hour later she was downstairs and across the street from the square just staring at me. when I moved my position she moved. That was a weird experience!


That is weird. Well at least you survived to tell the tale.
woodzchick Boonies, Virginia USA
I have found out that if someone begins to get that stalker-type attitude with you that you can't play around. You need to confront them and tell them straight up that you're not playing. What gets a lot of people in trouble is that they do not stand up to them when the behavior begins. They allow this person to slowly gain control over their lives. You have to show them that you can get crazier than them if they want to mess you with like that. Yes, report them to the police to begin making your case. But, you also need to be straight up with them. Tell them boldly that you don't like them and you don't want them around and you are not going to put up with it. Be a bitch! That shouldn't be too hard for some of us. LOL. I have found this to be an effective method for me. It may not work for everybody. I think by me behaving in this way that it leaves no room for them to think otherwise.

(I'm feeling very brave tonightlaugh)


P.S. Kick his arse!!



mnowsa dallas, Texas USA
In response to: And for the Men,

Have you ever encountered a woman stalking you?
I have had one experience in my life from a woman stalker...that was little scary for me.

However, Who would you mine being stalk by? ( somebody you know or a famous movie star ) and why?


ya..i have been stalked by many times by pretty ladies...they just wouldn't leave me alone! But thanks god that i finally woke up from my dream!doh
rob4u777 Charlotte Amalie, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)
woodzchick: I have found out that if someone begins to get that stalker-type attitude with you that you can't play around. You need to confront them and tell them straight up that you're not playing. What gets a lot of people in trouble is that they do not stand up to them when the behavior begins. They allow this person to slowly gain control over their lives. You have to show them that you can get crazier than them if they want to mess you with like that. Yes, report them to the police to begin making your case. But, you also need to be straight up with them. Tell them boldly that you don't like them and you don't want them around and you are not going to put up with it. Be a bitch! That shouldn't be too hard for some of us. LOL. I have found this to be an effective method for me. It may not work for everybody. I think by me behaving in this way that it leaves no room for them to think otherwise.

(I'm feeling very brave tonight)P.S. Kick his arse!!


Go girl! That will turn them around. How are you today, Susan?

You sound brave, tonight.
woodzchick Boonies, Virginia USA
rob4u777: Go girl! That will turn them around. How are you today, Susan?

You sound brave, tonight.


Hey!! Yes, I would say that I'm in rare form tonight.laugh
woodzchick Boonies, Virginia USA
woodzchick: Hey!! Yes, I would say that I'm in rare form tonight.


The "Red" in me has a tendency to come out at times.laugh
rob4u777 Charlotte Amalie, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)
mnowsa: ya..i have been stalked by many times by pretty ladies...they just wouldn't leave me alone! But thanks god that i finally woke up from my dream!


So, you are looking for female stalkers and you wouldn't mine being followed...since we are on this fantasy of yours.

What famous lady movie star would you mine being stalked by?

and thanks for you input and Hello to you.
scorpiochi Albuquerque , NM, New Mexico USA
Depends on how hot she is and how crazy she is . You know what they say about the crazy ones and sex .laugh

I was going to college and this girl told me that her friend liked me . I wasn't interested or attracted to her in the least bit . She said she just wanted a friend and someone to talk to , so being a nice guy I thought it couldn't hurt to at least talk to the girl .
I was very wrong and the girl harassed me and gave me a hard time in class . I reported her to the teacher and everytime the teacher took her side . I told the dean and no one would take it seriously because I was a guy .
It got to be so bad that I ended up quitting school , so for people that think it is one gendered that experiences something specific , think again .
woodzchick Boonies, Virginia USA
scorpiochi: Depends on how hot she is and how crazy she is . You know what they say about the crazy ones and sex .

I was going to college and this girl told me that her friend liked me . I wasn't interested or attracted to her in the least bit . She said she just wanted a friend and someone to talk to , so being a nice guy I thought it couldn't hurt to at least talk to the girl .
I was very wrong and the girl harassed me and gave me a hard time in class . I reported her to the teacher and everytime the teacher took her side . I told the dean and no one would take it seriously because I was a guy .
It got to be so bad that I ended up quitting school , so for people that think it is one gendered that experiences something specific , think again .


Did you tell her that you didn't like her and that you wanted her to leave you alone...because she didn't have a snowballs chance in hell?
mylifewithu Springfield, Missouri USA
After I dated one guy for 5 months and we fly to California and I met his mom. A few months later we broke up and he would leave nasty emails and phone messages. I broke up with him cause I do not put up with any man belittling or attempting to abuse me in any way.
Well after many times of trying to get him to leave me alone. I finally told his mom. We were online buddies by then sending jokes etc. to each other. Well when ever she was to die
he couldexpect a very large inheritance. But with the way he was treating me and she liked me. When I told on him she said she would handle it. And by golly she did. She told him you mess with her anymore and you will lose your whole entire inheritance.

Oh my god I love that woman.heart beating rolling on the floor laughing yay




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